I don't think of it as infidelity. I think of it as something that could and may happen.
It's not a choice with whom you fall in love, not even when you're in a relationship.
I would think of it as an inhuman thing, should you force someone to suppress these emotions.
But I wouldn't expect it to happen. It could, though. Yeah. I'd take that risk.
I probably should add that this has never happened so far.
I just think I'll be able to live with it. I sort of allowed my (now ex-)girlfriend to have sex with another guy she liked. But you still have to take in consideration that we talk about EVERYTHING. It's not like this guy is going to be someone she meets at a party and have a one night stand with. It's not like all of a sudden she'll have another boyfriend or girlfriend.
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