Changes to Rule Enforcement

~~Soulflower~~ · 05-31-2015, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan

Read what I said carefully... unless someone else posted their subs/slaves in plug, than so far she is the only one. Everything else you said is a red herring.

I think since that room is part of MusicBanter community then certain rules should carry over. And that includes:

Please, read the Music Banter forum rules.

I am telling you other members have posted sexual and porno like videos before. In addition, people post non music related videos in the plug ALL the time (which is not what the plug is for but members do, do it) so I think you should research more before you boldly claim another member is the ONLY one that does something. That was like the only one time she did that, that is not something she normally does and I can honestly say that because I have plugged with her numerous of times.

You have done some questionable things yourself in that plug for someone who is suppose to run it.

You skipped me multiple times one night in the plug. I was confused as to why you did that. I had said nothing and did nothing to you that night and you have also done it before.

I didn't say anything but just ignored it then.... but I found that to be beyond immature and a blatant abuse of authority.

RoxyRollah · 05-31-2015, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

But the problem I have with some of the moderators is that there not fair. And a lot of times they give infractions to people that they don't like instead of objectively and maturely moderating the forums.

Also, I notice that there are moderators that are very disrespectful to members: call them out their name and are quite cruel here but they are oddly still moderators.

That's a problem.

I don't see how a member can be a moderator when they are disrespectful to other members themselves. Thats not a good role model for how a moderator should conduct themselves.

Don't make me kill again.

DwnWthVwls · 05-31-2015, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

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She's played her sub videos at least 4-5 times when I was in there. I don't mind, but it definitely wasn't a one time thing. Also, no one else has ever played anything that graphic. I'm actually surprised she played it with Nea in there it's usually only when she knows no one will be offended or care.

Neapolitan · 05-31-2015, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

I am telling you other members have posted sexual and porno like videos before. In addition, people post non music related videos in the plug ALL the time (which is not what the plug is for but members do, do it) so I think you should research more before you boldly claim another member is the ONLY one that does something. That was like the only one time she did that, that is not something she normally does and I can honestly say that because I have plugged with her numerous of times.

Stands to date she is the only one who played a video of her subs. I don't agree with that other video being played either. And anyone who plugs better understand that showing porn to minors is illegal. And in case you forget there are minors who belong to MusicBanter who plug.

She calls them "slaves" and/or "slaves" and you're cool with that? When she was here she would get her subs/slaves to follow her into MusicBanter or stalk her or whatever they were doing. And had one Scotty the Rebel harass us in plug.

You can't justify a wrong with the wrongs other people do. And I don't see defending her actions. Unless you're all cool with someone being treated like a slave or sub, for whatever reason.

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Originally Posted by Soulflower

You have done some questionable things yourself in that plug for someone who is suppose to run it.

You skipped me multiple times one night in the plug. I was confused as to why you did that. I had said nothing and did nothing to you that night and you have also done it before.

I didn't say anything but just ignored it then.... but I found that to be beyond immature and a blatant abuse of authority.

I don't remember skipping but I remember muting you, I said I did it by accident. I wanted to click @ but I clicked the wrong button. I remember apologizing about it. I thought we were cool with that. I apologize for any misunderstand about that happening.

~~Soulflower~~ · 05-31-2015, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan

Stands to date she is the only one who played a video of her subs. I don't agree with that other video being played either. And anyone who plugs better understand that showing porn to minors is illegal. And in case you forget there are minors who belong to MusicBanter who plug.

She calls them "slaves" and/or "slaves" and you're cool with that? When she was here she would get her subs/slaves to follow her into MusicBanter or stalk her or whatever they were doing. And had one Scotty the Rebel harass us in plug.

You can't justify a wrong with the wrongs other people do. And I don't see defending her actions. Unless you're all cool with someone being treated like a slave or sub, for whatever reason.

I don't remember skipping but I remember muting you, I said I did it by accident. I wanted to click @ but I clicked the wrong button. I remember apologizing about it. I thought we were cool with that. I apologize for any misunderstand about that happening.

I am not insisting I am cool with anything.

I just think if you are going to shed light on an issue than don't just point out one member when there are other members who do similar things.

Also you did skip me back to back one night and I don't lie on anybody. I have said numerous positive things about you in the past and I was confused as to why you did it.

I've noticed there are others that have similar complaints about this site but don't say anything or have left. I think the reason why more members dont speak out is because they get bashed for it.