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If not, should it enjoy the same kind of moral consideration that a baby or person does? I don't think so. I think in the pregnancy, the mother gets higher moral consideration and by forcing her to have a child she doesn't want to have and causing her and potentially others suffering, I think you're more morally wrong than by aborting the fetus. If it's situation where f.ex the mother is a total vegetable (braindead) then the choice should be with someone else like the father. The best thing would of course be to involve everyone who are affected by the decision although that is hard in practice. |
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although, i DO side with the 'tough luck kiddo' angle on things that's really for those who want to use the practice for selfish reasons. if there are health risks, or the pregnancy is due to rape, then that's a different situation. on the other hand if it's just some irresponsible teen who wants to be able to continue acting like an irresponsible teen... then no, i very much disagree with the practice. while some will learn from their mistake there are plenty of others who simply want to use it to be able to continue enjoying the irresponsible lifestyle they had prior to potentially being forced to step up to the responsibility they created for themselves. i'm thinking it might be a geographical difference, i see a very immature and irresponsible sense of entitlement developing quite a bit throughout north america, it just might not be as prevalent in scandanavian countries (you guys don't seem nearly as dumb/childish). as for the morals behind my views. personally i don't believe in full on intercourse with someone unless i'm comfortable with the idea of living another lifetime through their eyes. that's what i see a baby as, it's an extension of my existence through another body, the ONLY way to continue living beyond my own lifetime. it's like creating a backup of myself and my partner to be housed in either hemisphere of the brain of the new individual she'll carry in her womb. as such i just can't bring myself to randomly do it without protection with various women just because i can. i guess i respect myself too much to risk trapping / wasting my real future. like booboo said, the fundamentalists are making this argument really challenging. killing doctors who perform the practice does not help the cause, bloody posters on the side of the highway neither. forcing the idea of abstinence to a bunch of teenagers is the dumbest crap ever. education is the key. real, honest, education that is. i'm not religious, i don't see the need to believe in god to be a responsible adult. if i can choose to be responsible so can anyone else. it's just a matter of shoving your ego off to the side long enough to do what you need instead of what you want. |
Why shouldn't we have sex for selfish reasons? Getting off is just as good as any reason to do anything that I can think of. Wanting to have fun and not have a child seems totally acceptable to me. You wouldn't tell someone "tough luck" if they blew their fingers off with a firecracker, you'd get an ambulence.
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i never said people shouldn't have sex. no one did. what i said was people shouldn't have unprotected intercourse unless they feel comfortable with the possibility of creating new life with the person they are doing it with. the concept is simpler to grasp than that sentence was to type. condoms aren't hard to find, birth control pills aren't hard to find either. there's virtually no reason for accidental pregnancies aside from simple personal irresponsibility. if you're not willing to face the real consequences of your actions you shouldn't be acting. |
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i guess i just see myself as more than our highest basic instinct. |
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When you are a pro-lifer and you want to have a pro-life policy in society, then you have to vote for someone who's willing to push it. The "tough luck kiddo" argument would not get taken seriously here. The "fetuses are humans just like you and I and killing people (including fetuses) is wrong" argument might, although it's been losing ground overall. If you really are a pro-lifer, then of course I think you have to consider what pro-life means, what such a law would do to society and then if the moral argument is good enough to make it a law. If you agree that there should be abortions, even if it's just in rape cases, then I'm not sure you are a pro-lifer. Boo Boo made a good point about pro-life being sexist which I agree with. I'd like to add to it with the point that while a mother might be stuck with an unwanted child, it's so much easier for a father who has an unwanted child to just run off and not get involved. The pro-life argument is really quite unfair towards women. I'm still a bit drunk from yesterday's fun, but I hope all this makes sense still when I look back at it in a few hours time. ;) |
No, I said being pro life DOESN'T make you sexist.
I only said that a good majority of pro-lifers are hardcore Christians who just happen to be very sexist. That dosen't apply to everyone that's against abortion. |
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To me, thinking practically, I think of unwanted pregnancy as a problem in society. Abortion provides a means to help society deal with that problem. Then you have people who want to keep the problem and remove the solution. Why? It just seems counter-productive. I'm all for people taking responsibility of themselves and their actions and as you probably know, I've been in a sticky situation already and I owned up to it. That doesn't mean I would prefer to have no choice in the matter. |
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Basically all I've gotten out of this thread is each side stating their personal opinions and the other side taking that and either twisting the words or saying that the argument is moot for whatever reason so that the point cannot be used against them. I realize this is a form of argument but it doesn't get a whole lot accomplished. A better argument would be to take all your opposition's points, refute them, then continue with your own points (non-opinion) and support them with facts or research.
Sorry, I'm kind of an English nerd but that's why these kind of threads really never get anything accomplished other than endless repetition and, usually, swearing. Also, if you try to tell me this is not an "argument", it is a "discussion", please check out Everything's An Argument. (I don't know if there is an online version...) I'll just step down now...:soapbox: |
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If abortions are banned people will just hop the border to Canada...if they want one they will have it.
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Pro-Choice. Even if you were to outlaw abortions you'd just create a black market of backstreet abortions that would be alot more dangerous and unsanitized.
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It's none of my business. I don't like abortion personally, I do suspect it's a little too convenient and that personal responsibility has a place in life that is being driven out way too casually. But regardless I have no right making that choice for anyone else and that is the foundation of my position. |
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Pro-Choice vs. Pro-No Choice
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This issue is really personal to me because I've seen it in my life first hand. I am pro-choice. This is probably really unfair of me, but I find it hard to listen to opinions of people who don't have a uterus. Because they have no idea what it's like to be a woman faced with pregnancy.
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I just can't see any mother who would want to advance the cause of the pro-choice agenda. Though, I sympathize for the mom, who made a wrong choice had a change of heart became advocates for the unborn child. |
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I'm all for baby killing and all, just sayin'. |
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As are the risks she has to take. I get what you're saying about them not being the same thing, though. I was just trying to emphasize the fact that the woman's rights shouldn't be forgotten in the debate. |
As I've posted a couple of times earlier in this thread, I lean towards the utilitarian view that the mother is likely much more capable of suffering (and happiness, rational thought etc.) than the unborn fetus is, so of course her rights have to come first. If you put the fetus first, what sort of logic is that based on?
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Fetuses (note, I didn't say babies) are not human and therefore do not have rights. The science doesn't support the "pro-life" argument, and religious belief should not affect lawmaking. |
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See? It makes no sense at all. |
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