The only time I ever refer to a man or woman as a slut is if they sleep around AND they are an arsehole.

Just the sleeping around thing ... Don't really care, It's none of my business.

I'm convinced that (most) people are not made to be monogamous.
So I don't mind a girl having a couple of boyfriends at the same time or having a one night stand with a really close friend.
What I don't like is girls going out and ****ing some other guy's brains out every weekend.

That's my two cents.

...And where do we meet them.

Hahaha, lol (literally)

My view on it is strictly a 'type of person' perspective.
What I mean by that is I'm less inclined to want a relationship with a girl who drops trousers for any swinging dick that crosses her path. That's not to say I think all people who do that have cheap values, but speaking strictly from experience, if I were to make an assumption about that kind of person's character, I'd likely be correct.

Obviously, I would expect women to hold men up to the same standards. I certainly wouldn't expect a woman to want a relationship with me if I was frivolously bonking every random girl I met. I think there should at least be some semblance of self control and pride regarding who you're intimate with... to me, that makes a statement about the kind of person you are and it's simply one of the things I consider regarding relationships. I would hope my partner held the same basic expectations of me as well.

Yeah, I wouldn't call myself moralistic, but some girls just have quite some sexual partners and some girls are sluts. It's not always the same thing, I guess.

Open question to everyone... If you found a girl.....not the perfect girl or 'the one' or whatever... but you had a good vibe and you liked her and she wanted to start dating. Is there any number of guys that shes slept with that would turn you off from dating her? Or a ball park number, and what is that number?

IMO, a slut is anyone who ****s for any reason other than they like ****ing. Anyone who ****s for personal gain = slut

I don't care about the number. How would you know if that number was mostly random sleaze bags or not? What if they were all good friends or people she's known for a while? To me, the people she sleeps with and how she goes about it is more important. I'd take 30 good friend fucks over 5 bent-over-the-toilet in a public bathroom random stranger fucks any day.

That's a whore