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Taxman 11-09-2013 12:56 PM

Well, I think if someone is a militant ateist, he does basically the same thing those fundamentalists are doing. And I would consider myself as an agnostic cos I have been religious when I was younger but then I just, you know, forget it and now it does not seems to be important for me.
One of those reasons is that I could not stand their opinions about homosexuals and abort or pre-marriage sex.

Taxman 11-09-2013 12:58 PM

So for me it does not matter if religious people don't like these things but their rules shouldn't affect the laws or the society

Mr. Charlie 11-09-2013 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Sansa Stark (Post 1382600)

I think anyone should be allowed to take solace in whatever they want, as long as they don't harm anyone.

Indeed.

John Wilkes Booth 11-09-2013 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1382606)
I used to be a militant atheist, and while I still agree with a lot of their arguments, I could just care less these days. It takes too much energy to hold that big a grudge and just ends up making you a bitter turd that no one wants to talk to. Listening to a militant atheist bitch about religion is like listening to the callers on Rush Limbaugh.

'Militant atheism' is a complete misnomer to me these days. There was a time when that term actually meant oppressing religion and not just incessantly whining about local nativity scenes.

Sansa Stark 11-09-2013 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Charlie (Post 1382802)
Indeed.

:beer:

my life's motto tbh

The Batlord 11-12-2013 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by John Wilkes Booth (Post 1382848)
'Militant atheism' is a complete misnomer to me these days. There was a time when that term actually meant oppressing religion and not just incessantly whining about local nativity scenes.

:laughing:

Yeah, people are trying to get intelligent design taught in schools, so perhaps we should pick our battles.

mikpop93 12-11-2013 03:15 PM

I'm pro-choicer because I feel that a woman should be able to make her own decisions on what she wants done. Abortion is a very unfortunate thing, but it shouldn't be the governments job to tell a woman if she can do something or not.

Scarlett O'Hara 12-12-2013 04:21 PM

Michigan Passes Bill Requiring Women to Purchase 'Rape Insurance'

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The Michigan Legislature, now that they've solved all of the problems in Michigan (LOL), has just passed a law barring insurance plans from offering abortion coverage as a standard part of plans offered on the state's Obamacare exchanges. That means, women who wish to have abortions obtained for any reason covered by insurance must purchase a special rider in advance. Baby's brain developing outside of its skull? If you want your insurance to cover your abortion, you should have planned for that heartbreaking tragedy in advance! Did you get raped and become pregnant as a result? Guess you should have thought of your rapeability and fecundity before you tried to save a few dollars on the health insurance exchange, missy! Victim of incest? I mean that sucks but how about plan a little better next time, ok, kid?

Mr. Charlie 12-12-2013 04:24 PM

^^ Wow.

GuD 12-13-2013 12:45 AM

What in the actual ****ing **** is this ****. Seriously, Michigan? Are you for ****in real?

That is ****ing outrageous.

Scarlett O'Hara 12-13-2013 03:54 AM

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Originally Posted by WhateverDude (Post 1394854)
What in the actual ****ing **** is this ****. Seriously, Michigan? Are you for ****in real?

That is ****ing outrageous.

Exactly how I felt, and I'm not even American. I'd like to surgically place a football inside those politicians stomachs and see how quickly they decide to abort it.

Franco Pepe Kalle 12-13-2013 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by WhateverDude (Post 1394854)
What in the actual ****ing **** is this ****. Seriously, Michigan? Are you for ****in real?

That is ****ing outrageous.

The people behind this are pro-life folks. They really want to make rape so evil.

Paul Smeenus 12-13-2013 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle (Post 1395012)
The people behind this are pro-life folks. They really want to make rape so evil.


I'm pretty sure rape IS evil. On the contrary, they are downplaying rape and trying to make aborting the resulting pregnancy evil.

Sansa Stark 12-13-2013 01:37 PM

I'm so glad I'm leaving this ****ty state.

Franco Pepe Kalle 12-13-2013 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Paul Smeenus (Post 1395017)
I'm pretty sure rape IS evil. On the contrary, they are downplaying rape and trying to make aborting the resulting pregnancy evil.

Opps sorry. I meant abortion. Some pro-life people hate abortion so much that they resort to things like this. I hate abortion but it should be up to the women. But for some pro-life people, things have to be their way only.

Burning Down 12-13-2013 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle (Post 1395019)
Opps sorry. I meant abortion. Some pro-life people hate abortion so much that they resort to things like this. I hate abortion but it should be up to the women. But for some pro-life people, things have to be their way only.

I'm wondering how you manage to mix up rape with abortion.

The Batlord 12-14-2013 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1395030)
I'm wondering how you manage to mix up rape with abortion.

Question not the Franco, lest the Franco question thee.

xLizardx 12-14-2013 04:24 PM

I signed that petition earlier, funnily enough. Had to use a fake zip code though, since it didn't seem to like my UK postcode.

Democratic Governors Association (DGA) | Overturn Extreme Anti-Choice Legislation

butthead aka 216 12-16-2013 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1395030)
I'm wondering how you manage to mix up rape with abortion.

cause hes a obvious troll lol

Neapolitan 12-18-2013 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Smeenus (Post 1395017)
I'm pretty sure rape IS evil. On the contrary, they are downplaying rape and trying to make aborting the resulting pregnancy evil.

The results of the resulting pregnancy is a child, and those children are not evil. There are a few women who decide to carry full term and either put their children up for adoption or raise them themselves.

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Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle (Post 1395019)
Opps sorry. I meant abortion. Some pro-life people hate abortion so much that they resort to things like this. I hate abortion but it should be up to the women. But for some pro-life people, things have to be their way only.

In China it is the opposite, where the state has it's way and there is forced abortions. Many of these women who had forced abortions have later on commit suicide.

Paul Smeenus 12-18-2013 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan (Post 1396480)
The results of the resulting pregnancy is a child, and those children are not evil. There are a few women who decide to carry full term and either put their children up for adoption or raise them themselves.

That's their choice. Were I a woman I would not bear the child of a man who raped me. Period. Any legislation that forced me to do so is unacceptable.

Plankton 01-09-2014 10:02 AM

Why does this have to be one or the other. Different circumstances define different solutions.

Everything isn't always black or white.

RoxyRollah 01-14-2014 01:00 PM

I am pro choice, I agree with abortion, truly I do, it was simply not my choice in life, but I don't judge... you never know what that woman is going through....

butthead aka 216 01-18-2014 11:32 PM

I'm pro pee pee in cooter do what u wanna do anna hatw me.... then come at me. Ur colors vs mine. Who is the mostbtrue...


Funny how mybguess is mine. Fikcin fakes. Do you bro. Even if ur heart is bloody. Or if u must pretend. We know the real u

RoxyRollah 01-19-2014 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by butthead aka 216 (Post 1407554)
I'm pro pee pee in cooter do what u wanna do anna hatw me.... then come at me. Ur colors vs mine. Who is the mostbtrue...


Funny how mybguess is mine. Fikcin fakes. Do you bro. Even if ur heart is bloody. Or if u must pretend. We know the real u

Que?

Burning Down 01-19-2014 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1407674)
Que?

x2.

Urban Hat€monger ? 02-01-2014 08:49 AM

Fuck, don't encourage him.

Wpnfire 02-01-2014 09:07 AM

Abortion is not as simple an issue as yes or no. I'm vehemently opposed to abortion, but even I understand that there are circumstances where it may be appropriate, such as rape.

RoxyRollah 02-01-2014 09:36 AM

^ No it really is that simple! Personal choice... That is it.. And it isn't really anybody business to to say otherwise... The audacity it take to presume to know what is going on inside a woman's body, mind, and heart is absolutely astounding to me... There are so many factors that come into play when you first find out you are someone's mother that it is impossible for others who are not carrying the baby in question to judge... I am pro choice... And speaking from experience... Abortion was not my choice... But adoption was... I am not better then the woman that chose to abort... I followed my heart... In someways I almost think it is easier to abort... Then to live your life knowing that one day you might have to answer the door and explain that it wasn't that, " I didn't love you it's that I loved you more than I loved myself..And you deserved better then what I could give you at that time in my life..." I have been working on this speech for 6 years...

Wpnfire 02-01-2014 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1412445)
^ No it really is that simple! Personal choice... That is it.. And it isn't really anybody business to to say otherwise... The audacity it take to presume to know what is going on inside a woman's body, mind, and heart is absolutely astounding to me... There are so many factors that come into play when you first find out you are someone's mother that it is impossible for others who are not carrying the baby in question to judge... I am pro choice... And speaking from experience... Abortion was not my choice... But adoption was... I am not better then the woman that chose to abort... I followed my heart... In someways I almost think it is easier to abort... Then to live your life knowing that one day you might have to answer the door and explain that it wasn't that, " I didn't love you it's that I loved you more than I loved myself..And you deserved better then what I could give you at that time in my life..." I have been working on this speech for 6 years...

Well, I'm sorry you had to go through that, and I'm never claiming that I know what you, or other people go through when they consider having an abortion.

I just don't think any person has the right to decide whether an unborn human being lives or dies.

In the United States, I don't think the Supreme Court made the right decision interpreting the law to say that a woman has the right to her body, and therefore has the right to terminate her pregnancy. The result of that case was inferred from a law, and 3 current Supreme Court Justices feel it was 110% the wrong decision, including the Chief Justice John Roberts, and still a few more are uncertain about the issue.

I studied political science research methods in college, and I've seen the polls done by the National Election Survey, and there are dozens of questions about abortion, and none of them are yes or no questions. This is fact. There is a great divide among US citizens about abortion.

The answers to "stance on: abortion" are always on a scale with four options:

"Completely against abortion in all circumstances."
"Against abortion unless the mother's life is threatened."
"Against abortion unless in the case of rape, the mother's life is threatened, etc..."
"Favor a woman's right to choose."
(and then there's "Uncertain")

I've also seen some polls that have more than that.

RoxyRollah 02-01-2014 01:01 PM

First off, I am not sorry, because it was the greatest thing I have ever done...
Also the hardest...Being Pro Life is really fine and dandy, ( Honestly...It's humane)
And its easy to say give the baby up for adoption. ...But until you carry someone with you and have a completely symbiotic relationship with them. You will never know the other side of that coin, which comes complete feelings , of depression , add postpartum depression, on top of regular depression, mix in feelings of being the worst mother ever, and top it off with thoughts of suicide and you have a dangerous cocktail..

Then there is raise the baby you made it philosophy. .Really. ...Growin up neglected is proven to be psychologically worse then being beaten, or over protected....I would rather hear that women , who know it wasn't for them for whatever reason, decided to abort then give birth to, and neglect a child...A CHILD not a zygote. ... Both abortion and adoption are hard things to get over...But really it is a black and white choice for the woman...Do I do it or not....I am not talking outside influences I am talking instinct. ..Instinct told me no thank you not my style. ..But I am hard wired that way other women however are not...And the freedom to choose their path through life is their right. No matter how much you disagree with it ultimately ask yourself are you planning on raising , loving, and providing, for the baby that is about to be aborted. ..No? oh ok..

Burning Down 02-02-2014 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Wpnfire (Post 1412459)
Well, I'm sorry you had to go through that, and I'm never claiming that I know what you, or other people go through when they consider having an abortion.

I just don't think any person has the right to decide whether an unborn human being lives or dies.

In the United States, I don't think the Supreme Court made the right decision interpreting the law to say that a woman has the right to her body, and therefore has the right to terminate her pregnancy. The result of that case was inferred from a law, and 3 current Supreme Court Justices feel it was 110% the wrong decision, including the Chief Justice John Roberts, and still a few more are uncertain about the issue.

I studied political science research methods in college, and I've seen the polls done by the National Election Survey, and there are dozens of questions about abortion, and none of them are yes or no questions. This is fact. There is a great divide among US citizens about abortion.

The answers to "stance on: abortion" are always on a scale with four options:

"Completely against abortion in all circumstances."
"Against abortion unless the mother's life is threatened."
"Against abortion unless in the case of rape, the mother's life is threatened, etc..."
"Favor a woman's right to choose."
(and then there's "Uncertain")

I've also seen some polls that have more than that.

I don't know... I think a woman should have the right to do whatever she pleases. But here, you're saying that nobody should have the right to make the decision on whether a woman gets an abortion or not, but you contradict yourself in the first statement you made:

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Abortion is not as simple an issue as yes or no. I'm vehemently opposed to abortion, but even I understand that there are circumstances where it may be appropriate, such as rape.
Maybe I'm misreading what you're saying here, but what makes you have the right to say women shouldn't get abortions? Especially when you later said nobody should have a right to say anything. :confused:

Wpnfire 02-02-2014 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1412707)
I don't know... I think a woman should have the right to do whatever she pleases. But here, you're saying that nobody should have the right to make the decision on whether a woman gets an abortion or not, but you contradict yourself in the first statement you made:



Maybe I'm misreading what you're saying here, but what makes you have the right to say women shouldn't get abortions? Especially when you later said nobody should have a right to say anything. :confused:

In my first post, when I said it's not as simple as yes or no, I was referring to the options for the poll on this thread of pro-life and pro-choice. That is a terrible poll. I understand this is an online forum, but it still drives me crazy because of its inaccuracy.

As far as me contradicting myself with the whole Roe v. Wade thing, what I really meant to say was that I think the SCOTUS should make abortion illegal in all circumstances except in extreme cases where the mother's life is threatened or something like that (I'm going to be honest though, I don't know how the application of that would work in real life.) Sorry for the confusion, this issue is obviously complicated.

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah (Post 1412503)
First off, I am not sorry, because it was the greatest thing I have ever done...
Also the hardest...Being Pro Life is really fine and dandy, ( Honestly...It's humane)
And its easy to say give the baby up for adoption. ...But until you carry someone with you and have a completely symbiotic relationship with them. You will never know the other side of that coin, which comes complete feelings , of depression , add postpartum depression, on top of regular depression, mix in feelings of being the worst mother ever, and top it off with thoughts of suicide and you have a dangerous cocktail..

Then there is raise the baby you made it philosophy. .Really. ...Growin up neglected is proven to be psychologically worse then being beaten, or over protected....I would rather hear that women , who know it wasn't for them for whatever reason, decided to abort then give birth to, and neglect a child...A CHILD not a zygote. ... Both abortion and adoption are hard things to get over...But really it is a black and white choice for the woman...Do I do it or not....I am not talking outside influences I am talking instinct. ..Instinct told me no thank you not my style. ..But I am hard wired that way other women however are not...And the freedom to choose their path through life is their right. No matter how much you disagree with it ultimately ask yourself are you planning on raising , loving, and providing, for the baby that is about to be aborted. ..No? oh ok..

Still not your call. If you go out and kill someone, it's illegal. Doesn't matter what your "frame of mind" was at the time. If the defense argues in court you were depressed at the time you killed someone, fine, you're still going to jail. The only reason that argument works is because the law (obviously) is on the side of the mother. I don't care what you're frame of mind is, it's not up to you. That's my opinion, and I'm sticking to it.

Unless you as a mother are in perilous danger by having the child, I don't care what your frame of mind is.

And who's going to say that an aborted child would not have grown up and found a cure for AIDS or for cancer? I know there's a flip-side for that situation, but in reality, we're not all murders and most people are good.

Burning Down 02-02-2014 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Wpnfire (Post 1412723)
In my first post, when I said it's not as simple as yes or no, I was referring to the options for the poll on this thread of pro-life and pro-choice. That is a terrible poll. I understand this is an online forum, but it still drives me crazy because of its inaccuracy.

As far as me contradicting myself with the whole Roe v. Wade thing, what I really meant to say was that I think the SCOTUS should make abortion illegal in all circumstances except in extreme cases where the mother's life is threatened or something like that (I'm going to be honest though, I don't know how the application of that would work in real life.) Sorry for the confusion, this issue is obviously complicated.

The poll is terrible, I know. I think that it was just made like that in order to get a general consensus on the topic.

For sure, it's a complicated and heated issue. But, the problem with making abortions illegal is that women who want abortions are going to seek out unsafe, back alley kind of procedures like what happens in poor Third World countries or other countries where they are illegal. The risks of infection and death for the woman would be unbelievably high, and there could be a chance that the person performing the procedure could catch something from the patient if they can't use the proper equipment. Also there will always be doctors or nurses willing to perform abortions under the table, away from the prying eyes of the authorities, like in "The Cider House Rules". Now you have people risking their careers, reputations, and possibly their lives in order to give a woman what she wants.

People can be as anti-abortion as they want, to whatever degree, but that is not going to make abortions go away. Making things illegal doesn't make them disappear, like hard drugs for example. Abortions are still going to be performed regardless of legal status, so why not offer a safe and sanitary environment instead of forcing women to go underground and find shady abortionists on the black market or something?

How do you feel about birth control or sterilization procedures like tubal ligation, vasectomies, or even full hysterectomies? I always find many pro life people are strongly against these as well.

Wpnfire 02-02-2014 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1412733)
But, the problem with making abortions illegal is that women who want abortions are going to seek out unsafe, back alley kind of procedures like what happens in poor Third World countries or other countries where they are illegal

:clap:Ah, you have found the real issue here...and I have no idea what to do about that...except pray for the women that are contemplating doing something like that. That's really out of society's hands at that point, and it's not something that will go away I agree.

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How do you feel about birth control or sterilization procedures like tubal ligation, vasectomies, or even full hysterectomies? I always find many pro life people are strongly against these as well.
Yeah I don't care about any of those. I'm not Catholic. You don't want to have children, fine by me. You just can't kill an unborn child because those any of things didn't work "as advertised" though...

RoxyRollah 02-02-2014 11:19 AM

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Still not your call. If you go out and kill someone, it's illegal. Doesn't matter what your "frame of mind" was at the time. If the defense argues in court you were depressed at the time you killed someone, fine, you're still going to jail. The only reason that argument works is because the law (obviously) is on the side of the mother. I don't care what you're frame of mind is, it's not up to you. That's my opinion, and I'm sticking to it.

Unless you as a mother are in perilous danger by having the child, I don't care what your frame of mind is.

And who's going to say that an aborted child would not have grown up and found a cure for AIDS or for cancer? I know there's a flip-side for that situation, but in reality, we're not all murders and most people are good.

Wow that is a fine looking high horse you got there my friend, where did you get it? Are you male? I need to ask before I respond properly...

Burning Down 02-02-2014 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Wpnfire (Post 1412735)
:clap:Ah, you have found the real issue here...and I have no idea what to do about that...except pray for the women that are contemplating doing something like that. That's really out of society's hands at that point, and it's not something that will go away I agree.

Praying doesn't accomplish anything - it never has and it never will. You can pray to all the deities of the world and beyond and it's not going to make some woman rethink her decision, sorry. If a woman decides to terminate her pregnancy on her own terms, that's her prerogative. And it should be done in a safe and comfortable environment. That's all I'm really saying here.

RoxyRollah 02-03-2014 07:02 AM

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Still not your call. If you go out and kill someone, it's illegal. Doesn't matter what your "frame of mind" was at the time. If the defense argues in court you were depressed at the time you killed someone, fine, you're still going to jail. The only reason that argument works is because the law (obviously) is on the side of the mother. I don't care what you're frame of mind is, it's not up to you. That's my opinion, and I'm sticking to it.

Unless you as a mother are in perilous danger by having the child, I don't care what your frame of mind is.

And who's going to say that an aborted child would not have grown up and found a cure for AIDS or for cancer? I know there's a flip-side for that situation, but in reality, we're not all murders and most people are good.
First off, the frame of mind described above, is the frame of mind that can happen to women on AFTER THEY GIVE BIRTH... Postpartum depression comes after you have the baby...So it isn't a contributing factor to abortion.... So your murder argument just flew right out the window... There is a difference between, sneaking in a child's room after you give birth to them and smothering them in their sleep, and terminating a zygote something with no higher brain function...Next!

Umm so you are saying that I have no say what goes on inside my body unless my life is in danger? You're kidding right? Well let me move off the operating table, so you can lay down... Should I come to you and consult you every time I need something looked at, fixed, or taken care of?? I would hope your answer is no of course not... If that is the case then why should I ask your opinion on abortion...

I don't know the child would cure some veritable bevy of diseases but you don't know that they will... They could grow up to become Ted Bundy 2.0, or Xan Zul the soul destroyer... One simply never knows...

Other peoples actions in the most private of circumstances, is frankly none of your goddamn business... That is a very very personal thing you sticking your moral nose in.. Morals my friend are personal, tailored to the wearer, not the sales man... You feel me? Meaning, my morals are mine, and just because you are trying to sell me on the fact that I am killing a child, doesn't make it gospel...Your stance, no matter how flowery, hopeful, and bright, won't change the reality of my circumstance, if it is a severe one.. I told you I am pro choice, but it wasn't my choice to abort. I chose to adopt my daughter out.. And I would do it again in a heart beat and nothing will ever change that... But, I can't in good conscience, take away another woman's right to the same choice I had... That is a personal thing again I can't stress that enough, and it needs to be treated delicately, with reverence, and deep compilation... And the only person that can do all that is the potential mother...

Forward To Death 02-09-2014 10:18 PM

In a perfect world, every abortion would come with a complimentary tubectomy.

Rjinn 02-09-2014 10:35 PM

I'm personally against it but pro-choice at the same time.

It'll never happen to me unless I wanted it to, so I don't really care.


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