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| I'm a parent |
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11 | 17.74% |
| I'm a child-free woman/man |
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24 | 38.71% |
| I want to have kids someday (please explain) |
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18 | 29.03% |
| I'm undecided |
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9 | 14.52% |
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Nae wains, Great Danes.
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Where how means why.
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Yeah because men are not paternal.
And I actually agree with 216. I've led a great life although I've had many experiences that I would've considered to be "the worst day of my life" but that's all part of growing up and I wouldn't have changed it for the world. Plus it has shaped who I am today. Stop using 'suffering' as a legitimate excuse when it's complete bull****. Suffering is child abuse. Suffering is neglect. Suffering is a whole load of other things that are not just average life and growing up. Just say you don't want children and don't come up with some philosophical bull****.
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Nae wains, Great Danes.
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Where how means why.
Posts: 3,621
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This is just ridiculous now.
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A.B.N.
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: NY baby
Posts: 12,052
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You are right it isn't constructive but I was just pointing out the fact that it isn't name calling though.
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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes. Quote:
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The Music Guru.
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Beyond the Wall
Posts: 4,858
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Ok, srs question time now. When you're child free by choice and out on the dating scene, possibly looking for a long term relationship, would you bring up this aspect of yourself right off the bat, so as to weed out people who don't feel the same way? Or would you wait and feel out the relationship first? I know it wouldn't be fair to either person if one wants kids and the other doesn't.
The kid conversation is an important one to have in a relationship, and it's not exactly an easy conversation to start (been there done that). But is it more difficult for child free people to bring up the topic before knowing how the other person feels, out of fear that they might be judged? |
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