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Ol’ Qwerty Bastard 01-13-2018 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Machine (Post 1914229)
???

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1914230)
Enough YouTube 4U

frown gets it

WWWP 01-13-2018 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Machine (Post 1914229)
I'm not uncomfortable with identity politics whatsoever I think y'all are mistaking me for some enlightened skeptic centrist type. And are we talking biologically intersex or sociological bull****.

The OP is referring to pronoun use, so both and neither, really. You can't tell just by looking at someone what kind of genitals they have, would you require knowing that someone has ambiguous genitalia to use their preferred pronoun?

Machine 01-13-2018 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1914228)
That was the point.



Seriously? Gender is different from sex in the sense that it's a mental thing instead of physcial. This is why people say gender instead of sex in these discussions. Also have you never met a person who was androgynous without trying? If you confuse their gender and they correct you, what is your basis for dismissing that afterwards? You're demonstrating a poor understanding of gender so I wouldn't go with your gut feeling over someone's word tbh.

First there is no androgynous without trying, that's usually due to fashion sense. The mins is not separate the body, there are distinguishable differences in the brain activity of men v. women so yes gender in the "mind" or whatever does correlate heavily to what we know as biologically sex. The exception to the rule to the rule is not the rule.

WWWP 01-13-2018 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Machine (Post 1914235)
First there is no androgynous without trying, that's usually due to fashion sense.

Sounds like you need to meet more people, tbh.

Oriphiel 01-13-2018 04:57 PM

Just call everybody "The/That Gentlebody". Problem solved.

Example:

As Frownland finished snorting a line of coke off of his own penis, the gentlebody realized that Qwertyy had departed.

"I say," Frownland exclaimed, turning to Grindy, "wherefore hast thine gentlebody bedfellow fled?"

"I know not," answered Grindy, snorting up a few coke crumbs that Frownland had missed. "Many a time hath that gentlebody absconced from mine ken with neither word nor warning."

WWWP 01-13-2018 04:58 PM

lmao @ coke crumbs

Machine 01-13-2018 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Qwertyy (Post 1914231)
frown gets it

again not a skeptic

Frownland 01-13-2018 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Machine (Post 1914235)
First there is no androgynous without trying, that's usually due to fashion sense.

:laughing: Not in my experience dude. That's just laughable.

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The exception to the rule to the rule is not the rule.
=minorities don't matter

Ol’ Qwerty Bastard 01-13-2018 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Oriphiel (Post 1914237)
Just call everybody "The/That Gentlebody". Problem solved.

Example:

As Frownland finished snorting a line of coke off of his own penis, the gentlebody realized that Qwertyy had departed.

"I say," Frownland exclaimed, turning to Grindy, "wherefore hast thine gentlebody bedfellow fled?"

"I know not," answered Grindy, snorting up a few coke crumbs that Frownland had missed. "Many a time hath that gentlebody absconced from mine ken with neither word nor warning."

what happens between grindy, frown, coke and i behind closed doors is none of the gentlebody’s business.

Oriphiel 01-13-2018 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Qwertyy (Post 1914243)
what happens between grindy, frown, coke and i behind closed doors is none of the gentlebody’s business.

Just offering the poor gentlebody a glimpse of paradise.

Machine 01-13-2018 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Qwertyy (Post 1914231)
frown gets it

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1914242)
:laughing: Not in my experience dude. That's just laughable.



=minorities don't matter

So you've seen someone who did not look male or female and it had nothing to do with their fashion sense whatsoever. I find that impossible to believe, but it is a weak argument on my part.

Frownland 01-13-2018 05:02 PM

If you were there you'd know it was bath salts.

Lisnaholic 01-13-2018 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Isbjørn (Post 1914216)
For referring to non-binary trans people who prefer a gender-neutral pronoun

OP is right to point out that because of the people Isborn mentions there's a new semantic confusion.

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Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon (Post 1914217)
There are options outside of they/them as well. I know several people who use ze/zer, for example.

^ I've never heard this myself, but if that's a popular solution, why fight it? It's not so different from (after centuries of Mr./ Mrs./Miss only) the less specific term Ms. was introduced. I imagine that ze/zer is mainly for conversational purposes at the moment. My guess is that in medical documents, etc, people are still writing out he/she when the need arises.

Machine 01-13-2018 05:05 PM

I hate that anyone who is against the they/them pronouns are forced into this cringy skeptic/enlightened centrist position who watches ben shapiro and sarcuck of assad.

Frownland 01-13-2018 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Machine (Post 1914252)
I hate that anyone who is against the they/them pronouns are forced into this cringy skeptic/enlightened centrist position who watches ben shapiro and sarcuck of assad.

You demonstrate a similar lack of understanding and bias dude.

WWWP 01-13-2018 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Lisnaholic (Post 1914251)
^ I've never heard this myself, but if that's a popular solution, why fight it? It's not so different from (after centuries of Mr./ Mrs./Miss only) the less specific term Ms. was introduced. I imagine that ze/zer is mainly for conversational purposes at the moment. My guess is that in medical documents, etc, people are still writing out he/she when the need arises.

Yes, it's used as a pronoun, not an identity. Here in California medical documents largely include nonbinary as a gender selection, and soon it will be an available option on id's and birth certificates as well.

GunmouthGrace 01-13-2018 05:15 PM

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Blank. 01-13-2018 05:16 PM

Ok. So maybe it is more common then I realized. Don't any of you feel that the words lose their meaning when it's means both singular and plural? Wouldn't it make more sense to slap an s on the end of the word to be able to tell the difference?


I've genuinely never heard of people using they or them singularly. I also just had a conversation with some friends who said the same things I've already outlined in previously.

Pet_Sounds 01-13-2018 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds (Post 1914264)
I think Roxy would have a better shot if their debut was on the list instead :(

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Lisnaholic 01-13-2018 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Machine (Post 1914252)
I hate that anyone who is against the they/them pronouns are forced into this cringy skeptic/enlightened centrist position who watches ben shapiro and sarcuck of assad.

^ Word. Church. I mean I agree. Any time the language changes, there's an uncomfortable period during which your choice of words reveals something about where you stand: are you an open-minded modernist or a die-hard traditionalist?

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Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon (Post 1914256)
Yes, it's used as a pronoun, not an identity. Here in California medical documents largely include nonbinary as a gender selection, and soon it will be an available option on id's and birth certificates as well.

^ Well that's very inclusive ! Are you saying that ze/zer turns up in their files too?

Oriphiel 01-13-2018 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds (Post 1914265)
I think Roxy would have a better shot if their debut was on the list instead

Yeh, Roxy is a great pronoun.

WWWP 01-13-2018 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by GunmouthGrace (Post 1914260)
K, now I'm kinda interested. Is that meant for people who want to make that change to their own birth certificate later in life, or does it extend to parents deciding that their child will be non-binary?

Haha, for later in life, so that your medical and legal paperwork are gender confirming.

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Originally Posted by Lisnaholic (Post 1914267)
^ Well that's very inclusive ! Are you saying that ze/zer turns up in their files too?

No, ze/zer are just pronouns. "Nonbinary" is the gender marker.

GunmouthGrace 01-13-2018 05:32 PM

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WWWP 01-13-2018 05:33 PM

hiss/herss??

GunmouthGrace 01-13-2018 05:35 PM

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Oriphiel 01-13-2018 05:36 PM

All ya'll gentlebodys be trippin'.

grindy 01-13-2018 05:41 PM

Gonna gently do bodily things to your gentle body, gentlebody.

Oriphiel 01-13-2018 05:48 PM

*pulls out a fan to cool my blushing cheeks before I get the vapors* You surely know how to make a gentlebody swoon...

grindy 01-13-2018 05:51 PM

*gentlebodily fluids flowing*

Oriphiel 01-13-2018 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by grindy (Post 1914299)
*gentlebodily fluids flowing*

*fanning intensifies* Oh, my stars...

Machine 01-13-2018 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1914253)
You demonstrate a similar lack of understanding and bias dude.

Not believing in certain cultural zeitgeists =/= lack of understanding. I understand from of a left perspective why this would be important, but I don't buy into that. And yeah I'm incredibly biased, I'm far right wing I understand and accept my biases.

Frownland 01-13-2018 08:31 PM

Fire bad

Machine 01-13-2018 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1914365)
Fire bad

lmao I don't expect anyone to like my politics here. MB is pretty Lib.

bulbasaur 01-13-2018 08:38 PM

is this the machine from blank's journal

Machine 01-13-2018 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Lisnaholic (Post 1914267)
^ Word. Church. I mean I agree. Any time the language changes, there's an uncomfortable period during which your choice of words reveals something about where you stand: are you an open-minded modernist or a die-hard traditionalist?

And that's okay to say tradition is bad is to kill your nation.

Machine 01-13-2018 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by bulbasaur (Post 1914368)
is this the machine from blank's journal

I've no clue

Neapolitan 01-13-2018 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Blank. (Post 1914118)
I just watched this thing where this individual asks to be referred to as they or them pronouns. Which is something I don't understand. Isn't they or them suppose to refer to multiple people?

I understand it's a genderless word, but it seems counter intuitive to the language to use a words that, from what I've always been told, refers to multiple people.

Wouldn't "it" work better as a pronoun?

Professor Jordan Peterson His Stance On Gender Pronouns

Machine 01-13-2018 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Blank. (Post 1914118)
I just watched this thing where this individual asks to be referred to as they or them pronouns. Which is something I don't understand. Isn't they or them suppose to refer to multiple people?

I understand it's a genderless word, but it seems counter intuitive to the language to use a words that, from what I've always been told, refers to multiple people.

Wouldn't "it" work better as a pronoun?

See that's where this all leads, you now have people calling themselves multiple people. You can brush it off as people can do whatever they want, but we're seeing a fundamental change in how we treat certain things. When you have people in society that are identifying as different people and that's socially accepted I think that's where you should look back and see what mistakes we made.

GunmouthGrace 01-13-2018 09:22 PM

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rostasi 01-13-2018 09:29 PM

I think we should just call everyone "Pat."


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