Originally Posted by PoorOldPo

I have never actually interacted with Vanilla but she seems very nice, like a mother figure or somthin on here. I am probably off about the mother figure thing though, I dunno, that might have been a weird thing to say? whatever.

Originally Posted by mojopinuk

I'd say post in threads of bands and artists you like, genre-specific threads, and spread your posting as wide across the forums as you can and forget finding a niche. The more interesting members here are the ones who listen to all kinds of music anyway.

Originally Posted by J.R.R. Tolkien

There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.

Originally Posted by Blarobbarg

I feel like most people on here are pretty awesome in their own way, with the exception of Norg. Seriously, what's up with that guy? He makes cute, colorful, anime rabbit avatars look shameful.

Unfortunately, even though people on here are really awesome, I don't really feel like I fit in very well. I don't have a niche. I'm not really metal enough to be with the metalheads, I'm way too lazy to be one of the journalists, and I just sort of post randomly in everything else. I tend to lurk a lot out of a lack of things to say. Anyone have any suggestions for how to integrate myself better? Hell, I've been here for over a year now. Seems like I would have found somewhere to fit in.

Originally Posted by Blarobbarg

Unfortunately, even though people on here are really awesome, I don't really feel like I fit in very well. I don't have a niche. I'm not really metal enough to be with the metalheads, I'm way too lazy to be one of the journalists, and I just sort of post randomly in everything else. I tend to lurk a lot out of a lack of things to say. Anyone have any suggestions for how to integrate myself better? Hell, I've been here for over a year now. Seems like I would have found somewhere to fit in.

Originally Posted by Vanilla

Well if mothers are catty and horny count me in!

Originally Posted by Bam You Have AIDS

Truthfully, most of the time I don't think that I fit in all that well either, because I look around at the sub-communities of users, be they friends or tight-knit fans, and I don't really have any of that. But that's okay. I've found what works for me, and I'm happy with it. Point is, it's not a symptom of failure that you feel this way.

Originally Posted by TheBig3

I have no idea who you are.

Originally Posted by Urban Hatemonger

Oojay

Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

Eh... I think nonsubmissivewife is probably the mom. Vanilla's the rebellious, horny stepchild.

Originally Posted by James

If NSW is the mother figure she isn't a very good mother. She's very absent and only pops in every now and then to make comments about beards. Pedestrian is the older sister who is forced to play the mother role due to NSW's neglect of the family.