Spill Your Guts: What You Really Think About MB members

ladyislingering · 11-30-2014, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

I really do think you are giving yourself a lot less credit than you deserve.

I understand that. Sometimes it seems strange to me that my world is populated with beautiful people (honestly, literally everyone I know has something about them that I find beautiful) but I have such a rough time finding anything I like about myself. I appreciate your kind words, though.

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Originally Posted by James

I hate people that make creepy comments in the Member Picture Gallery. Strikes me as quite pathetic.

Thank you for your kindness as well (not quoted here) - I'd just like to agree with the creepy thing. I don't understand why some people are incapable of giving compliments rather than saying things that make them look like some kind of disgusting caveman.

Freebase Dali · 11-30-2014, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I understand that. Sometimes it seems strange to me that my world is populated with beautiful people (honestly, literally everyone I know has something about them that I find beautiful) but I have such a rough time finding anything I like about myself. I appreciate your kind words, though.

WTF Dude you ARE a beautiful person. Stop comparing yourself to others and own yourself. Comparing yourself to an average standard is ridiculous. It's only going to lead to self doubt. I'll tell you this now, if Ki didn't already have a claim, you'd be all over my map. And the reason is because I'm into your type (when that type is confident). You're stuck with however you look... but know that looks are most CERTAINLY not everything. The attitude, the confidence in a person, THAT'S what's ultimately attractive.

So, when I see your picture, I imagine a woman that is completely comfortable with herself, totally assured, and that **** is sexy. But when I see you say you're everything opposite, well, I just gotta ask why. You're doing yourself your own disservice. I think you're lovely and you should too.

ladyislingering · 11-30-2014, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

WTF Dude you ARE a beautiful person. Stop comparing yourself to others and own yourself. Comparing yourself to an average standard is ridiculous. It's only going to lead to self doubt. I'll tell you this now, if Ki didn't already have a claim, you'd be all over my map. And the reason is because I'm into your type (when that type is confident). You're stuck with however you look... but know that looks are most CERTAINLY not everything. The attitude, the confidence in a person, THAT'S what's ultimately attractive.

So, when I see your picture, I imagine a woman that is completely comfortable with herself, totally assured, and that **** is sexy. But when I see you say you're everything opposite, well, I just gotta ask why. You're doing yourself your own disservice. I think you're lovely and you should too.

in reality I'm really quite shy so I'm a little uncomfortable right now but I'm very flattered.

Freebase Dali · 11-30-2014, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering

in reality I'm really quite shy so I'm a little uncomfortable right now but I'm very flattered.

You're not shy. You're just not confident.

You would not BELIEVE how much better your life will become when you learn how to be not a person, but a person that knows why they are here on this earth and isn't afraid to say it.

Even if you never take this advice, I will tell you this. At the end of your life, among your biggest regrets will be the fact that you didn't be and do what you wanted. I'm obviously not telling you this from experience, but I am telling it to you from second hand experience. Be you. Full heartedly. There is absolutely NO reason to spend the only chance you have on this world disliking the way you existed on it.

Enjoy life. If you are unable to do so because of whatever barriers, break them the fuck down.