It's not that uncommon to only be attracted to people you're romantically interested in, is it?

Well, to be honest... I don't think you have to be asexual for that.
I have a lot of friendships with women.
All of them I find sexually attractive. All of them know.
Some of them think the same about me, some of them don't.
Yes I'd like to have sex with them but yes I can control myself as either they have a boyfriend or they are my ex :D.
I mean... I'm definitely not asexual but I can control myself. At least physically. Sometimes it's hard to stay polite when talking :D

Hmmm, some people have this, yes. Both guys 'n girls.
Another case I know is that of a girl who lost interest in other guys during her relationship. In the beginning she was (obviously, cough) interested in other guys, but she slowly lost interest in others. And I have to say, her boyfriend is a very nice guy, she should be happy with him. I sort of miss the conversations we had but hey...
And then there's another friend of mine who doesn't even hug anyone but her lover. Not even when she's not in a relationship.

I have a lot of good friendships with men and I find them all attractive too. But I don't really act on it unless I think there might be something there. I'm in a relationship now though so nothing's going to happen with those guys :)

Exactly. I mean, I like to make clear to the girls that I'm friends with what I think about them.
Sometimes I just like them a lot, but wouldn't mind having sex with them.
Sometimes I'm madly in love. I never ever once shocked one of them so badly they stopped having contact with me.
I guess I can get away with these things somehow.
Come to think of it, I lose a good friend now and then. For... whatever reason.
But I've never really lost any female friends.
Just one ex. We're good, but we don't have a lot of contact.

At this point there's one girl who feels absolutely the same as I do, but she has a boyfriend. Ah well :).
I'll be spending a day with her on the 13th of june.
We'll see how that feels. I don't see her regularly, I mainly talk to her via the internet and the phone as she lives quite far away. Last time I saw her was august 2010. She only admitted her feelings for me after that, so let's see if it's the same when we spend a day together. We've never been alone together. I guess it's going to be great though.
It's really cute, she's really giggly and nervous when we're on the phone. Adorable :).
Not planning to try anything though. She's happy with the guy and he's really a very nice person. It's impossible to dislike him.

Nope, seems like it's time to meet new girls as the ones I know are all taken for now :D.

My gay friend plays with my boobs sometimes...

On one hand, human sexuality is complicated and most people experience at least some attraction to both sexes even if it's to a very small extent.

On the other hand, it is hilarious.

You can be asexual and still be attracted to a certain sex.

Well I can honestly admit that I have no female friends I wouldn't want sex with.
It's not like it's some sort of target, I'm fine with not having sex with them (except for my ex, that's quite frustrating sometimes) but I wouldn't mind. I love them all and they all look very nice if you ask me. So why wouldn't I want to have sex with them?

But men... Nah, really not interested at all I'm afraid. Not the tiniest bit.
I even don't like them sitting close to me.

Well there's one thing I have in common with your gay friend, and this is not a hint; You can let me play with your boobs very safely. I really don't care. To me it's the same as massaging your back. No wait, that's even more interesting.
Things are different when it does turn you on. Obviously I like it when a girl gets turned on. But the boobs themselves, naah.

What about a very feminine male or a trans?

And thanks all the same but I don't care for a bosom massage bro.

Haha, just using you an example :).
Wasn't planning on giving you one anytime soon.

Not sure about the trans, probably if she was very convincing.
Altough I think I'd rather have a realy girl with a dick (like an hermaphrodite or something) than an ex-guy :D. I'm not sure which is more female. But I have more problems with the male face and body than with the dick itself.

s_k, this here is your song: