Rape - Whose Fault Is It?

misspoptart · 07-14-2013, 12:43 AM

Thanks TH, DJ, Fluffy, and 216, for not only actually trying to see from my POV but also speaking candidly. I sympathize with both the vitims and the rapists in some situations, and although I don't think it's generally the victim's "fault" as BD so brazenly suggested, I do think the victim's actions could damage the rapist more than the rap...ee (?).

Thanks for the bear, TH, but really, as I've said, it was no big deal. I'm ok with what happened, it was a learning experience that I'm grateful for, in a way. The main lesson is that men like that exist. If it happens again, I'll act wiser.

View Poll Results: Can you blame the victim for getting raped when raping someone is illegal?
Yes	7	13.73%
No	44	86.27%
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07-14-2013, 12:43 AM	#1 (permalink)
misspoptart gimme gimme Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: istanbul Posts: 897	Thanks TH, DJ, Fluffy, and 216, for not only actually trying to see from my POV but also speaking candidly. I sympathize with both the vitims and the rapists in some situations, and although I don't think it's generally the victim's "fault" as BD so brazenly suggested, I do think the victim's actions could damage the rapist more than the rap...ee (?). Thanks for the bear, TH, but really, as I've said, it was no big deal. I'm ok with what happened, it was a learning experience that I'm grateful for, in a way. The main lesson is that men like that exist. If it happens again, I'll act wiser.