Give or Receive?

GuD · 09-15-2014, 12:24 PM

Nah..... I'm a lover. Fighter only if I hafta be..

Someone had to help me off the ground last night because I couldn't stop laughing at "Baker" street.
I'm harmless.

**Janszoon** · 09-15-2014, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

Well, even though it's rare, brutality on that level does exist in the form of consensual kink, and since Idk WD that well I considered the possibility that he may be into it.

I don't expect you or anyone else on here to be educated about that kind of stuff, but you could be a little less condescending in your response to my simple question. If that was not your intent I apologize but it read that way.

A perfect example happened the other day when WD assumed that rope bondage went hand in hand with sexual foreplay, which is not always the case.

It's kind of funny that you think I was being condescending yet here you are talking about how myself and other members must be not be "educated".

My response to you wasn't condescending, it was me being annoyed at you being incredibly obtuse with regards to a comment that had a very clear context.

DwnWthVwls · 09-15-2014, 01:48 PM

I think it's less about me being pedantic and more about different life experiences. I didn't say anything about anyone's lack of education. Everyone on this forum is more knowledgeable about certain topics than others, I don't see how recognizing that is condescending. It seemed pretty clear to me that you know very little about kink based on your reaction, but because I wasn't certain I made sure to include an apology if I was wrong.

I'm not gonna derail the thread any further over a misinterpretation of intent.

**Janszoon** · 09-15-2014, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

I think it's less about me being pedantic and more about different life experiences. I didn't say anything about anyone's lack of education. Everyone on this forum is more knowledgeable about certain topics than others, I don't see how recognizing that is condescending. It seemed pretty clear to me that you know very little about kink based on your reaction, but because I wasn't certain I made sure to include an apology if I was wrong.

I'm not gonna derail the thread over a misinterpretation of intent.

You're not going to derail the thread yet you're still going to drop another condescending post. Good work.

The Batlord · 09-15-2014, 01:57 PM

Don't talk, HIT HIS ASS!

WWWP · 09-15-2014, 01:58 PM

^The key is consent. The original post WD made had no implication of consent. It's really actually very simple, being opposed to nonconsensual sexual violence is not equivalent to being uneducated or inexperienced in bdsm or kinks.

**Janszoon** · 09-15-2014, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon

^The key is consent. The original post WD made had no implication of consent. It's really actually very simple, being opposed to nonconsensual sexual violence is not equivalent to being uneducated or inexperienced in bdsm or kinks.

Exactly this. Thank you.

DwnWthVwls · 09-15-2014, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon

It's really actually very simple, being opposed to nonconsensual sexual violence is not equivalent to being uneducated or inexperienced in bdsm or kinks.

I completely agree, and I thought I acknowledged that fact when I said "IDK WD very well" so it wasn't clear to me if what he was talking about was consensual or not. It's not the first time that I have read something on here, without knowing the history/person, and misunderstood the comment.

Edit: The lack of education comment was meant to explain that someone who doesn't know much about BDSM/kink may not know there is sex like WD described that is consensual. It had nothing to do with the comparison you are making. Maybe my wording wasn't clear.

GuD · 09-15-2014, 02:26 PM

I mean, I made the post so I take full responsibility for it but I'd rather not be.associated with it again. Its been on my conscience all day and its not something I meant genuinely. I've expressed it before but I'm a little unstable sometimes and say things I don't mean. I really can't apologize enough for that post and hope you guys realize I'm not really like that.

RoxyRollah · 09-15-2014, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by WhateverDude

I mean, I made the post so I take full responsibility for it but I'd rather not be.associated with it again. Its been on my conscience all day and its not something I meant genuinely. I've expressed it before but I'm a little unstable sometimes and say things I don't mean. I really can't apologize enough for that post and hope you guys realize I'm not really like that.

Don't beat your self up over it doll.It's not worth all that. I worry about you as a friend, only because I know what you struggle with. Gender bend all you want sweetheart, you only get one life to live. I am concerned when it gets to removal of vital organs, or non consensual violent tendencies and it's completely ok to have those thoughts.But when we voice them for all to see,exspect some concerned opinions.And that's all they are concerned opinons,hear them and let them sit in your grey matter.Because that is how people truely learn things,by letting the information set then arriving at their own conclusions. But don't loose a moments sleep over it.

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09-15-2014, 12:24 PM	#21 (permalink)
GuD Dude... What? Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,322	Nah..... I'm a lover. Fighter only if I hafta be.. Someone had to help me off the ground last night because I couldn't stop laughing at "Baker" street. I'm harmless. __________________ I spit bullets in my feet Every time I speak So I write instead And still people want me dead ~msc

09-15-2014, 02:26 PM	#29 (permalink)
GuD Dude... What? Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,322	I mean, I made the post so I take full responsibility for it but I'd rather not be.associated with it again. Its been on my conscience all day and its not something I meant genuinely. I've expressed it before but I'm a little unstable sometimes and say things I don't mean. I really can't apologize enough for that post and hope you guys realize I'm not really like that. __________________ I spit bullets in my feet Every time I speak So I write instead And still people want me dead ~msc