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Unknown Soldier 07-24-2011 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Ben Butler (Post 1088422)
The comparison is there because the world seem to be mourning more over Amy Winehouse dying than 92 innocent people being shot in Norway by some deranged nutcase. Just pick up a tabloid newspaper in the UK and see what the main headline is, it's not the Norway story.

I know some people that have said they don't care what happens outside England. How racist is that? We live in a sad world. There are a lot of statuses on my friends Facebook about her and I can tell you a lot of them don't care she's gone.

She brought it on herself with the drugs and when offered the chance to have rehab she refused or was just simply not committed to it. Her past life is no excuse for taking drugs, it is not the answer to solving her problems clearly and you know what, Winehouse could have easily been having a laugh!

I`ve just read through this thread and I can`t believe that you and other people are actually making the comparison between Amy Winehouse and the Norway massacre, both are tragedies but to even compare them is pointless. One is the tragic death of a singer, which wasn`t over surprising and the other a tragedy totally unexpected but both are tragic losses and should be treated as such.

As for how you can say that her past life is no excuse for taking drugs is beyond me as well. The whole point is that when somebody is that depressed, they can react in any number of ways, whether this be drugs, booze or any other form of self abuse, the point is that when somebody is that down thay can react in any number of ways and to be judgemental of these people shows a real lack of human understanding.

As for some people not caring about what goes on outside England, luckily I don`t know anyone who thinks like that at all.

Janszoon 07-24-2011 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Ben Butler (Post 1088422)
The comparison is there because the world seem to be mourning more over Amy Winehouse dying than 92 innocent people being shot in Norway by some deranged nutcase. Just pick up a tabloid newspaper in the UK and see what the main headline is, it's not the Norway story.

And thousands of people are currently suffering through a famine in Somalia, but you don't seem to care about that. The fact is it's completely possible to find more than one thing tragic at the same time even if they are not equal in scope.

right-track 07-24-2011 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Ben Butler (Post 1088422)
Just pick up a tabloid newspaper in the UK and see what the main headline is, it's not the Norway story.

Just for the record;

UK Newspaper Front Pages @ Front Pages Today

Mr Sensitive 07-24-2011 11:45 AM

R.I.P. Amy Winehouse | Music | Newswire | The A.V. Club

A nice, respectful obituary here. Better then most of the bullshit the British press are publishing.

I was going to have a go at the people comparing this to the tragedy in Norway but there's no need since some other members have beat me to it.

R.I.P.

TheCunningStunt 07-24-2011 11:46 AM

Thank God Mr. Sensitive is here.

duga 07-24-2011 01:55 PM

I was wondering when this would happen. I'm not surprised and I knew it was only a matter of time. I was just really hoping to get a third album out of her before it happened. Is that selfish of me? Yes, but I love her music. What a waste.

People should know that she was manic depressive and refused to take medication. Was that a bad idea? Yes, but it's common for a lot of people. And it should also give you a better idea of why she was such a trainwreck.

BastardofYoung 07-24-2011 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by duga (Post 1088464)
I was wondering when this would happen. I'm not surprised and I knew it was only a matter of time. I was just really hoping to get a third album out of her before it happened. Is that selfish of me? Yes, but I love her music. What a waste.

People should know that she was manic depressive and refused to take medication. Was that a bad idea? Yes, but it's common for a lot of people. And it should also give you a better idea of why she was such a trainwreck.

or maybe it was the crack and heroin... maybe.

I was diagnosed with bi-polar and have not been on medication in over a year, and I am just fine.

Maybe that is a small percentage of her problem, but not a significant one... at least not compared to the use of crack.

Sneer 07-24-2011 02:52 PM

Very sad indeed, but as others have said, unfortunately it hasn't surprised me.

She was a real talent, her music did nothing for me personally but you have to respect the ability she had.

I have nothing to say on her lifestyle, except for different people react to different problems in different ways, we aren't in a position to pass judgement.

Anyway, r.i.p

EvilChuck 07-24-2011 03:01 PM

I was shocked when I heard, but like most not surprised. What was awful I thought was the way Sky news, and I assume alot of other broadcasters as well, showed footage of her body being taken from her flat and put into the mortuary's van, I thought that was a disgustingly classless thing to do.

As for people comparing her death to those of the people in Norway, or other drug addicts, get real. The reason why her death is being looked at as more significant to some people is because they felt like they knew her through her music, and as such feel a greater sense of bereavement than they would for people they have no connection to. The scale of tragedy is irrellevant, as Janszoon said, its about perspective. No one could criticise Amy fans for feeling sadder about her death than they do about Norway, much like the people who have been affected by whats happened in Norway wouldnt be criticised for not caring too much that Amy Winehouse is dead.

tl;dr - RIP Amy

AwakeningsOfAWiseMan 07-24-2011 07:20 PM

I know, it's really shocking! I was just thinking about her, hoping that she could revitalize her career.

She became another of the 27 club instead. Just sad.

Her music will live on, but it's sad to know that there will never be any more.

CanwllCorfe 07-24-2011 09:57 PM

R.i.p.

BastardofYoung 07-24-2011 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by AwakeningsOfAWiseMan (Post 1088542)
I know, it's really shocking! I was just thinking about her, hoping that she could revitalize her career.

She became another of the 27 club instead. Just sad.

Her music will live on, but it's sad to know that there will never be any more.

Shocking? Anybody who looked at her within the last few months could see she was already dead... just waiting for her body to catch up to her brain.

artemis 07-24-2011 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Stu (Post 1088474)
Very sad indeed, but as others have said, unfortunately it hasn't surprised me.

She was a real talent, her music did nothing for me personally but you have to respect the ability she had.

I have nothing to say on her lifestyle, except for different people react to different problems in different ways, we aren't in a position to pass judgement.

Anyway, r.i.p

Agree,
At first I thought "what?!' then realised, I shouldn't be surprised, which is very sad,

Raust 07-24-2011 10:39 PM

A bit late on the bandwagon. I was expecting her to die. When I heard the news I really wasn't shocked shes been acting kinda nuts for awhile now. Sad to hear she's dead though. She had a good voice.

Howard the Duck 07-24-2011 11:43 PM

tragic but not surprising, really

RIP

BastardofYoung 07-24-2011 11:47 PM

it is not tragic. Lennon = tragedy, Dimebag = tragedy... Winehouse = casualty.

If you smoke crack, shoot smack and drink and smoke all the time and exhaust yourself on the road and neglect every aspect of your own health and well being it is going to catch up to you.. that is not a tragedy, that is the reality of it. You are bound to die if you live that self-destructive life.

People are throwing out the word tragic so much now it has lost its meaning.

Janszoon 07-25-2011 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by BastardofYoung (Post 1088634)
it is not tragic. Lennon = tragedy, Dimebag = tragedy... Winehouse = casualty.

If you smoke crack, shoot smack and drink and smoke all the time and exhaust yourself on the road and neglect every aspect of your own health and well being it is going to catch up to you.. that is not a tragedy, that is the reality of it. You are bound to die if you live that self-destructive life.

People are throwing out the word tragic so much now it has lost its meaning.

You have a very weird definition of tragedy. A tragedy, in the dramatic sense, is "a medieval narrative poem or tale typically describing the downfall of a great man". I would say Amy Winehouse's life story could very easily be described as a modern tragedy.

Dessalines 07-25-2011 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by right-track (Post 1088218)
Why the Norway reference?
How can you even compare?
Why even bother?
Tasteless remark!

Did it ever cross your mind that the self abuse could have been due to a life of personal and profound unhappiness?
Or do you just think she was having a laugh?
There by the grace of God...:usehead:

I disagree. She was determined to die and now there will be a love fest because people like her music, just like the months long love fest when Jerry Garcia died. Some people are just determined to do what they want and frankly, if it leads to their death, I have no sympathy for them, no matter how good their art might have been. People need to be able to divorce themselves from what they like to hear and the people who create that, especially if those people are fools.

In my opinion, the terrorist attack in Norway is of decidedly more importance than the self inflicted death of Ms. Winehouse and tells us so much more about human beings than her death ever could. However, I suspect that as a story, her death will get way more mainstream coverage than that attack. Is that how it should be? You decide.

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Originally Posted by right-track (Post 1088252)
Double click.



^ This is what we lost.
Never mind what you thought you knew about her as a person. Here she is as an artist. That's all that concerns me.
I'll leave the crass comments to others.

If you can't hear it, you'll never feel it.


No, we lost a drunken drug addict and you need to come to terms with that. There will be no more of what you like because she was seriously undisciplined. When she took her last fix or drank herself into final insensibility, do you think she was in any way caring about what you might be missing? Uh, no.....

Strayed 07-25-2011 09:15 AM

http://www.musicbanter.com/lounge/25...ug-thread.html

Is this really the same forum? lol

Landon 07-25-2011 09:21 AM

I wasn't really into her music, I knew her as more of a tabloid character but it's still sad that she only lived to 27.

I was watching Sky News when her death flashed up and they already had a pre-made obituary, a montage of her career and interviews with her ex-teacher, friends etc. saying how much of a loss it was. This was literally about five minutes after the news had broken. I found that really weird.

duga 07-25-2011 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by BastardofYoung (Post 1088468)
or maybe it was the crack and heroin... maybe.

I was diagnosed with bi-polar and have not been on medication in over a year, and I am just fine.

Maybe that is a small percentage of her problem, but not a significant one... at least not compared to the use of crack.

Congratulations on beating it, then. Other people don't have that luxury. I have seen two friends spiral out of control because of their bipolar disorders. You mean to tell me this still would have happened if she wasn't bipolar? Or at least took some meds?

right-track 07-25-2011 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Dessalines (Post 1088726)
No, we lost a drunken drug addict and you need to come to terms with that. There will be no more of what you like because she was seriously undisciplined. When she took her last fix or drank herself into final insensibility, do you think she was in any way caring about what you might be missing? Uh, no.....

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Originally Posted by right-track (Post 1088252)
Never mind what you thought you knew about her as a person. Here she is as an artist. That's all that concerns me.
I'll leave the crass comments to others.

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right-track 07-25-2011 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Dessalines (Post 1088724)
I disagree...

...In my opinion, the terrorist attack in Norway is of decidedly more importance than the self inflicted death of Ms. Winehouse and tells us so much more about human beings than her death ever could. However, I suspect that as a story, her death will get way more mainstream coverage than that attack. Is that how it should be? You decide.

And again you have failed to understand my post.
I wasn't the one comparing Winehouse to Norway.

What really disappoints me about this thread is the way some individuals have come in here and used it as a vehicle for their own self righteousness.
Why on earth people feel the need to express their distaste about the way someone dies is beyond me.
The death of any young individual is a tragedy regardless of it's implications.

I'd appreciate it if future posts in this thread concentrated more on the passing of a talented artist, as opposed to crass comparisons of events elsewhere.
And the merits of who and who shouldn't be mourned more.
Unfortunately, I doubt that'll happen judging by the lack of respect some of the current members display on here these days.

TheBig3 07-25-2011 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by right-track (Post 1088744)
And again you have failed to understand my post.
I wasn't the one comparing Winehouse to Norway.

What really disappoints me about this thread is the way some individuals have come in here and used it as a vehicle for their own self righteousness.
Why on earth people feel the need to express their distaste about the way someone dies is beyond me.
The death of any young individual is a tragedy regardless of it's implications.

I'd appreciate it if future posts in this thread concentrated more on the passing of a talented artist, as opposed to crass comparisons of events elsewhere.
And the merits of who and who shouldn't be mourned more.
Unfortunately, I doubt that'll happen judging by the lack of respect some of the current members display on here these days.

Because the forums overrun with erudite snobs who've spent too much time in school and have been conditioned, based on a meritocracy, to challenge things as a showing of knowledge.

In other words: "we've got a bunch of ****ing want-to-be smarty-pantses waving their dick around."

FRED HALE SR. 07-25-2011 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by TheBig3 (Post 1088746)
Because the forums overrun with erudite snobs who've spent too much time in school and have been conditioned, based on a meritocracy, to challenge things as a showing of knowledge.

In other words: "we've got a bunch of ****ing want-to-be smarty-pantses waving their dick around."

Its a shame that people can no longer take the high road. I just wanted to say she was immensely talented vocally and for that i'll mourn her loss. She clearly was in the clutches of a huge drug addiction and its sad to see her go down that road so many have before. I really enjoyed her doo wop inspired voice it was a powerful instrument and she should be remembered for it. R.I.P. Amy.

TheBig3 07-25-2011 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR. (Post 1088759)
Its a shame that people can no longer take the high road. I just wanted to say she was immensely talented vocally and for that i'll mourn her loss. She clearly was in the clutches of a huge drug addiction and its sad to see her go down that road so many have before. I really enjoyed her doo wop inspired voice it was a powerful instrument and she should be remembered for it. R.I.P. Amy.

I'm with you, friend. I'm with you.

BastardofYoung 07-25-2011 12:13 PM

ahhh, here we go again with the people who i wanna punch in the mouth, the people who think that people are bad for giving more attention to Amy WInehouse than the victims in Norway.

Of course people will feel more of a connection to Amy Winehouse here than they will the victims of the Olso bombings/camp shooting. While one may sympathise with live lost in Norway, they will not feel the same connection to them personally or on an emotional level because they did not know them, they are just strangers to them... the people who will care more are family and friends, they will offer genuine support and it will be a story there. But here, Amy was somebody who many knew through her art, she was somebody people connected to in one way or another and through her art and music we knew her more than we did the people in Norway.

I feel sympathy for lives lost either way, I am not saying people can not feel bad for the people who died in Norway, that is fine. But to say one is more important is to have yer own head up yer ass and talk out of it as well.

Mainstream media will cover it more here because there is more of a connection in the mainstream media. If you want mainstream coverage of the people in Norway, move to Norway.

BastardofYoung 07-25-2011 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by duga (Post 1088736)
Congratulations on beating it, then. Other people don't have that luxury. I have seen two friends spiral out of control because of their bipolar disorders. You mean to tell me this still would have happened if she wasn't bipolar? Or at least took some meds?

Well, if you have a mental illness like say Schizophrenia, and you take 10 hits of acid... is this not going to have more of an impact on your illness?

Bi-Polar is one thing, and can be controlled with the medications... which she was not taking. Sure that plays a part in where she was and why she was a trainwreck in some cases. But you start adding chemicals like crack or meth into the equasion and these drugs will do more harm than good.

I am not saying that it does not play a part... but look at the bigger picture.

duga 07-25-2011 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by BastardofYoung (Post 1088788)
Well, if you have a mental illness like say Schizophrenia, and you take 10 hits of acid... is this not going to have more of an impact on your illness?

Bi-Polar is one thing, and can be controlled with the medications... which she was not taking. Sure that plays a part in where she was and why she was a trainwreck in some cases. But you start adding chemicals like crack or meth into the equasion and these drugs will do more harm than good.

I am not saying that it does not play a part... but look at the bigger picture.

I wasn't making excuses for her or anything. I also didn't mean it to sound as if that was the root cause for her issues. I was just saying exactly what you just said...it played a part.

BastardofYoung 07-25-2011 12:44 PM

yeah, understood. So many factors with her to look at. Bi-Polar is just one peice of the puzzle I think.

Badlittlekitten 07-25-2011 12:55 PM

Gotta admit I shed a tear or two. I bought her Frank LP when it was first released and was happy to se how big she became.

Why are there some idiots on here saying she some how doesn't deserve two be part of 'that stupid club'? To say she's a turd amongst cheeseburgers is missing the point. Besides Hendrix is the only artist on the 27 list who's truly great anyway.

I'd take Winehouse over that pub rock dullard Jim Morrisson anyday.

BastardofYoung 07-25-2011 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Badlittlekitten (Post 1088805)
Gotta admit I shed a tear or two. I bought her Frank LP when it was first released and was happy to se how big she became.

Why are there some idiots on here saying she some how doesn't deserve two be part of 'that stupid club'? To say she's a turd amongst cheeseburgers is missing the point. Besides Hendrix is the only artist on the 27 list who's truly great anyway.

I'd take Winehouse over that pub rock dullard Jim Morrisson anyday.

Tell that to Robert Johnson, Brian Jones, Janis Joplin, Richey Edwards* and D. Boon.

Oh, and Dave Alexander... considering you have a quote by The Stooges as yer sig.


*presumably

someonecompletelyrandom 07-25-2011 01:06 PM

Wow, all I can say is I'm quite disappointed in some of the communities member's posts in here.

sopsych 07-25-2011 01:37 PM

What about the idea that anxiety from performing live and being in the celebrity spotlight pushed her toward more substance abuse? Some people here are musicians; they'd know if it sometimes works that way.

BastardofYoung 07-25-2011 02:28 PM

No, that is a cop out to try and justify drug abuse. I do not buy that theory at all. Maybe to a small extent I can say there is minor truth to it. But I doubt that defines her and what she was going through.

Ben Butler 07-25-2011 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by right-track (Post 1088435)
First of all, it simply isn't true that most of the world is mourning more over the death of Winehouse, than the loss of all those young people in Norway.
Just reading this thread and a modicum of common sense should tell you that much.

Secondly, the tabloid newspapers do not reflect what most people in Britain actually think. To believe that as true is plainly idiotic.
I don't believe you believe that either, which makes me wonder why you even pointed it out in the first place.

Thirdly, you say you know some people who claim not to care about what happens outside of England.
Well I don't know where you come from, but it isn't the case where I live.
I can only think you have some pretty shallow friends, friend.

Fourthly, are you fucking serious?

Your comparison in your previous post showed an incredible lack of respect for the Norwegian tragedy and the death of a troubled human being.
To play one off against the other was, to put it frankly, obnoxious.

We have two threads. This one and the Norway thread.
If you want to express your sympathy for Norway, then post in that one without speaking ill of the dead and being judgemental in this one!

Reading this thread to say the world doesn't care about the Norway shooting's is not your best source. It is going to be bias towards Amy Winehouse considering we're discussing this issue on a music forum.

The tabloids don't express the views of everyone but a lot of people get papers that conform to their political views. A conservative backer isn't to going to get The Guardian. The newspapers all too often are the voice of the people.

The comparison was there on the basis that more people seem to care about Amy Winehouse than the Norway tragedy.

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Originally Posted by Unknown Soldier (Post 1088439)
I`ve just read through this thread and I can`t believe that you and other people are actually making the comparison between Amy Winehouse and the Norway massacre, both are tragedies but to even compare them is pointless. One is the tragic death of a singer, which wasn`t over surprising and the other a tragedy totally unexpected but both are tragic losses and should be treated as such.

As for how you can say that her past life is no excuse for taking drugs is beyond me as well. The whole point is that when somebody is that depressed, they can react in any number of ways, whether this be drugs, booze or any other form of self abuse, the point is that when somebody is that down thay can react in any number of ways and to be judgemental of these people shows a real lack of human understanding.

As for some people not caring about what goes on outside England, luckily I don`t know anyone who thinks like that at all.

92 people dying in Norway is far more of a tragedy that Amy Winehouse dying. They were just innocent youths in a politcal camp that were shot dead by a right wing, extremist lunatic. They didn't have a choice, Winehouse did with the drugs and the alcohol. They were the future of Norway, Winehouse was just a mess. The Norway tragedy has far more pressing global concerns, i.e. international terroism than Amy Winehouse dying. The educational person will always choose to read about Norway.

Addiction is not a disease, it is quite different from undoubted brain disorders such as dementia or Alzheimer's. People can't recover from these but they can from addiction. If there is something in their lives that they value that is at stake - but incentives don't do much for dementia. Addicts are not passive victims, this is a gross simplifcation.

It may be impossible, in the late stages of psychological and physical dependancy the break the habit of years without help and the motivation to give up the relief of the next hit must be greatly diminished by the knowledge that you will return to a world marked by the damage you have done to your prospects or to the lives of others.

Guilt, emptiness and a huge and daunting task of reconstruction face the recovering addict. In the early stages, however, it is a different story. There are genetic explantions for addiction and it is true that children of addicts are more likely to become addicts and the other argument is the link between genes and addictive behaviour is the brain.

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Originally Posted by Janszoon (Post 1088441)
And thousands of people are currently suffering through a famine in Somalia, but you don't seem to care about that. The fact is it's completely possible to find more than one thing tragic at the same time even if they are not equal in scope.

What makes you think I don't care about Somalia? Stop making generalized assumptions about me that are simply not true. You know nothing about me.

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Originally Posted by right-track (Post 1088443)

The front page of The Star on Sunday was all about Amy Winehouse with a very small article at the top about Norway. Pick up The Guardian and you can guarantee that it would be Norway.

EvilChuck 07-25-2011 02:39 PM

Thank god Ben Butler is here to preach to us non 'educational people', and tell us what to think. Wivowt him id b 2 dum 2 relize dat norway woz trajic

Ben Butler 07-25-2011 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by EvilChuck (Post 1088834)
Thank god Ben Butler is here to preach to us non 'educational people', and tell us what to think. Wivowt him id b 2 dum 2 relize dat norway woz trajic

To say the death of Amy Winehouse is as tragic as the Norway shootings is an insult to the people of Norway. No need for the sarcasm either Mr Smart Arse.

BastardofYoung 07-25-2011 02:43 PM

derp derp derp Amy Winehouse. derp derp derp Norway.

EvilChuck 07-25-2011 02:47 PM

Who are you to tell people that one is more tragic than the other? Its about perspective, you care not for Miss Winehouse, and as such have an 'unbiased' view over the two incidents. Some people here are big fans of hers, and feel like they have lost someone they know and love, and are well within their rights to mourn more for her loss than those people in Norway. Unlike you however, they are able to acknowledge the tragedy of both situations without feeling the need to get on their high horse.


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