Paedantic Basterd

Oh, then you can skip like, the first third of the book.

Arya Stark

Lmao. Thanks for the heads up!

I'm really bad at keeping up with my reading, so I'll let you know when I start!

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Astronomer

If I listen to a happy song when I am really depressed, it will just make me more depressed. Don't ask me why.

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Arya Stark

Everyone is different!

How is it when you listen to depressing songs when you're depressed?

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Mojo

I completely understand this.

I often listen to music based on mood. I listen to a lot of music where all I want out of it is to be relaxed, and perhaps to put me in some kind of reflective mood. I listen to a lot of music many would consider sad, depressing etc. I listen to a lot of angry music, and a lot of music that I would class as more gloomy and perhaps dark. What I find though is I can respond to all of those types of music differently, depending on my current state of mind and any kind of personal or emotional connections I may have with the music.

I can relax to black metal, be uplifted by thrash metal and energised by space-rock. Theres not really a guaranteed emotional response to most albums I listen to. I wouldn't say I have a particularly extensive collection of typically "happy music" but I do have a few records I would use if thats what I wanted. However they may have the desired effect, but they may not. If I'm attempting to counter a bad, negative or angry mood with happy music, it could just irritate me.

I have also found myself listening to a lot of bands, albums, and mostly tracks that remind me of a friend of mine, over the last year since he passed away. I do this a lot now, whereas I didn't do it anywhere near as much before he died. These songs don't just remind me of him but of certain circles of friends, from school all the way through to adulthood, and so I have a lot of memories attached to these. One day I could find myself listening to these tracks and these artists and it may just depress me and make me sad, the next it could have me laughing hysterically (not that I have ever done this, especially not by myself and on public transport....cough) because it triggers a particularly funny memory or story that I had forgotten about or not thought of in a long time.

So, for me personally there are just so many factors. I don't think the music itself can guarantee a response from you, or the same response from you each time you listen to it.

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