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0nceemoalwaysemo 12-21-2017 03:31 PM

Bands similar to Brand New but who arent pedophiles
 
HELLO.

I come here in search of a band similar to Brand New in terms of songlyrics and writing-style whatever you call it and preferably musically as well with which I refer mainly to their albums that came after the first one so kind of dark, gloomy and emotional but still rock. It has to be a NON-PROBLEMATIC band as far as everyone knows. Some other bands I listen to are Muse, Nirvana, Soundgarden, Biffy Clyro, Royal Blood, MCR, just some examples to give a clue as to what my taste in music is.

Frownland 12-21-2017 03:32 PM

A non-paedo pop punk band? You might want to find a new genre.

0nceemoalwaysemo 12-21-2017 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1906908)
A non-paedo pop punk band? You might want to find a new genre.

That's what I was suspecting. Oh well.

Frownland 12-21-2017 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by 0nceemoalwaysemo (Post 1906918)
That's what I was suspecting. Oh well.

lol I was (half) joking. I'm sure Qwertyy or another member who's more into the genre can point you in the right direction.

Ol’ Qwerty Bastard 12-21-2017 03:47 PM

are you talking more early brand new or the devil and god are raging inside me era brand new

Trollheart 12-21-2017 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Qwertyy (Post 1906922)
are you talking more early brand new or the devil and god are raging inside me era brand new

In other words, old Brand New or new Brand New? :)

Exo 12-21-2017 05:01 PM

Don't crucify the rest of the band because one dude is an alleged pedophile.

OccultHawk 12-21-2017 05:02 PM

It’s not like it changes their music.

Ol’ Qwerty Bastard 12-21-2017 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 1906960)
alleged pedophile.

ehhh i think we're past the allegation point by now

Frownland 12-21-2017 05:02 PM

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Your daughters weren't careful,
I fear that I am a slippery slope
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Exo 12-21-2017 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Qwertyy (Post 1906963)
ehhh i think we're past the allegation point by now

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1906964)
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Not sure what updates have happens so I'll retract my "alleged" if it is now obvious. That was besides the point anyway.

Frownland 12-21-2017 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 1906966)
Not sure what updates have happens so I'll retract my "alleged" if it is now obvious. That was besides the point anyway.

Doesn't matter, I'm officially on the hunt for the most rapey and paedo-y Brand New lyrics I can find.

Justthefacts 12-22-2017 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 1906960)
Don't crucify the rest of the band because one dude is an alleged pedophile.

For once I agree with you, But at the same time I find it difficult the rest of the band didn't have any inkling of this at all. I still listen to Brand New though fuck ya'll haters.

Exo 12-22-2017 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Justthefacts (Post 1907406)
For once I agree with you, But at the same time I find it difficult the rest of the band didn't have any inkling of this at all. I still listen to Brand New though fuck ya'll haters.

I grew up with the bassists cousin. Told me they had no idea but honestly who the f*ck knows. Oh, and Science Fiction will make my end of year list.

Paedantic Basterd 12-22-2017 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1906908)
A non-paedo pop punk band? You might want to find a new genre.

Or quit listening to music just to be safe.

Blank. 12-22-2017 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Justthefacts (Post 1907406)
For once I agree with you, But at the same time I find it difficult the rest of the band didn't have any inkling of this at all. I still listen to Brand New though fuck ya'll haters.

It's still all I can think mabout now if I listen to their music. It's the same problem I have with lost Prophets. All I can think about is the terrible crimes commited. Not the music itself.

I read people saying that about Chris Benoit matches too. And all I can think is "how?" I mean the dude murdered his family and it doesn't bother you to watch his wrestling matches?

*shrug* Maybe I'm the only one who gets bothered by this stuff.

Paedantic Basterd 12-22-2017 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1906967)
Doesn't matter, I'm officially on the hunt for the most rapey and paedo-y Brand New lyrics I can find.

Me Vs. Maradona Vs. Elvis

Paedantic Basterd 12-22-2017 09:40 PM

Personally I think the focus of this entire thing is off track. We should hate Jesse Lacey because he's an ******* and he treats women like ****. Which is not news if you ever once paid attention to this band at any point during their career. If we want to hate him for sending dick pics to a 14 year old when he was 23 then I've got some news for you: You'd better stop listening to music entirely, just to be safe.

EDIT: Also, to clear this up for Qwerty and Exo:

They're still allegations. The only thing he admitted was that he's a huge cunt. Other than that, it's all rumours and unsubstantiated accusations.

Frownland 12-22-2017 09:53 PM

Wait, 14? Was she a late bloomer? Because if not then maybe OP can still listen to Brand New after all.

Paedantic Basterd 12-22-2017 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1907435)
Wait, 14? Was she a late bloomer? Because if not then maybe OP can still listen to Brand New after all.

The allegation in question was made by a woman who was then 14 when the "relationship" began. He'd send her dick pics, ask for nudes, and jerk off on skype. The relationship continued for a number of years and she believed he was in love with her, but he was actually just a massive cunt. A decade later she decided she regretted the whole thing and came out with the story. All of the allegations that followed, to my knowledge, have been along the lines of "I met him once and he seemed like a creep", but actually cited no crimes committed apart from being a jerk.

In the wake of this massive global polarization that's occurring, people have lost sight of the difference between non-consent and regret, and honestly, that's what this looks like to me. She consented to the relationship well past the magical age of consent that everyone is hung up on in this story.

I've done **** I've regretted at literally every age I've ever been and have never tried to take any recourse, nor has a magical adulthood fairy come down from the sky and granted me the wisdom to make good choices in life. I'm not saying he isn't a bastard, I'm just saying that I think people are outraged by the wrong aspects of this story and that I'm getting sick of rumours and stories being equated to facts before a fair and unbiased evaluation of the information.

Frownland 12-22-2017 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Paedantic Basterd (Post 1907436)
The allegation in question was made by a woman who was then 14 when the "relationship" began. He'd send her dick pics, ask for nudes, and jerk off on skype. The relationship continued for a number of years and she believed he was in love with her, but he was actually just a massive cunt. A decade later she decided she regretted the whole thing and came out with the story. All of the allegations that followed, to my knowledge, have been along the lines of "I met him once and he seemed like a creep", but actually cited no crimes committed apart from being a jerk.

In the wake of this massive global polarization that's occurring, people have lost sight of the difference between non-consent and regret, and honestly, that's what this looks like to me. She consented to the relationship well past the magical age of consent that everyone is hung up on in this story.

I've done **** I've regretted at literally every age I've ever been and have never tried to take any recourse, nor has a magical adulthood fairy come down from the sky and granted me the wisdom to make good choices in life. I'm not saying he isn't a bastard, I'm just saying that I think people are outraged by the wrong aspects of this story and that I'm getting sick of rumours and stories being equated to facts before a fair and unbiased evaluation of the information.

Cool. My post was more referring to how paedophelia is an attraction to prepubescent children as opposed to...uh...pubescent children.

Tristan_Geoff 12-23-2017 01:28 AM

Old Brand New (YFW/Deja) style bands: Martha, Bad Astronaut, Say Anything, Modern Baseball, Northstar, Taking Back Sunday, The Get Up Kids, The Promise Ring, Joyce Manor, Prince Daddy and the Hyena, Saves the Day, Jimmy Eat World, Reggie and the Full Effect

New Brand New (Devil and God) style bands: As Cities Burn, Sorority Noise, Moose Blood, Prawn, The Hotelier, Title Fight, La Dispute, Midwest Pen Pals, Mineral, Finch, Turnover, Hum, Far, Brave Little Abacus, The Newfound Interest in Connecticut, On the Might of Princes

Paedantic Basterd 12-23-2017 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Tristan Rosenstock (Post 1907455)
Old Brand New (YFW/Deja) style bands: Martha, Bad Astronaut, Say Anything, Modern Baseball, Northstar, Taking Back Sunday, The Get Up Kids, The Promise Ring, Joyce Manor, Prince Daddy and the Hyena, Saves the Day, Jimmy Eat World, Reggie and the Full Effect

New Brand New (Devil and God) style bands: As Cities Burn, Sorority Noise, Moose Blood, Prawn, The Hotelier, Title Fight, La Dispute, Midwest Pen Pals, Mineral, Finch, Turnover, Hum, Far, Brave Little Abacus, The Newfound Interest in Connecticut, On the Might of Princes

Modest Mouse's The Moon and Antarctica.

Machine 12-23-2017 02:16 AM

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Originally Posted by 0nceemoalwaysemo (Post 1906906)
HELLO.

It has to be a NON-PROBLEMATIC band as far as everyone knows.

Jfc

Ol’ Qwerty Bastard 12-23-2017 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Paedantic Basterd (Post 1907432)
Personally I think the focus of this entire thing is off track. We should hate Jesse Lacey because he's an ******* and he treats women like ****. Which is not news if you ever once paid attention to this band at any point during their career. If we want to hate him for sending dick pics to a 14 year old when he was 23 then I've got some news for you: You'd better stop listening to music entirely, just to be safe.

EDIT: Also, to clear this up for Qwerty and Exo:

They're still allegations. The only thing he admitted was that he's a huge cunt. Other than that, it's all rumours and unsubstantiated accusations.

within days of the allegations he made a post on the band’s facebook page.

Spoiler for post:
Quote:

In an effort to address recent events and the public conversation currently happening, I feel it is important to make a clear and personal statement.

The actions of my past have caused pain and harm to a number of people, and I want to say that I am absolutely sorry. I do not stand in defense of myself nor do I forgive myself. I was selfish, narcissistic, and insensitive in my past, and there are a number of people who have had to shoulder the burden of my failures. I apologize for the hurt I have caused, and hope to be able to take the correct actions to earn forgiveness and trust.

Early on in my life, I developed a dependent and addictive relationship with sex. I was scared of it, ashamed, and unwilling or unable to admit it, and so it grew into a consistent and terrible problem. Years ago, after admitting my habits and cheating to my then soon to be wife, I began to approach my problem in a serious way. I entered professional treatment, both in group therapy and individual counseling, and revealed the realities of what a terrible place I had gotten to in my life, and what a terrible impact my actions had on people.

Lust, sex, love, and arousal were coping tools for me, and I returned to them repeatedly. I detached my own feelings and emotions from most of my sexual interactions. I hid, or lied about my behavior to escape reproach. I was a habitual cheater. I have been unfaithful in many, if not most of my relationships, including the relationship with my wife, who has with all of her might, patience, and grace, tried to hold our marriage together, despite having to endure the pain of the revelations of my past. It is heart wrenching that the most important changes in my life have come at the expense of others.

I am sorry for how I have hurt people, mistreated them, lied, and cheated. I am sorry for ignoring the way in which my position, status, and power as a member of a band affected the way people viewed me or their approach to their interactions with me. And I am sorry for how often I have not afforded women the respect, support, or honesty that they deserved, and which is their right. I believe in the equality and autonomy of all, but in my life I have been more of a detriment to these ideals than an advocate.

I am working to shed all my narcissism and my self obsession, and to be better. In sobriety I have changed my life and my mind in real and important ways. I have also revealed the truth of my behaviors to myself and to others. I do not have words to express the patience and help my wife has offered me. I love my family with an intensity and realness that I have never felt before, and as a husband and a father I have been granted the opportunity to wake up each day with the intent to serve my family and the people around me, and to feel, for the first time that I have purpose.

The fact remains that none of us get to put a wall up between who we are and who we were. I need to earn forgiveness. Concepts like repentance, compassion, and love, are made real through actions, and it’s through my actions that I need to prove change. I hope I can show humility, and that the pain I have caused people can heal. I am not above reproach, and no one should be.

Jesse Lacey


that strikes me as someone admitting to their mistake, albeit in an a bit of a self centred way. regardless, it’s changed my opinion of him. not that i hadn’t heard rumours of his behaviour before, it’s just different once it becomes reality.

Tristan_Geoff 12-23-2017 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Paedantic Basterd (Post 1907456)
Modest Mouse's The Moon and Antarctica.

Oh yeah ****. I didn't even think about the non-emo bands.

Paedantic Basterd 12-23-2017 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Qwertyy (Post 1907466)
within days of the allegations he made a post on the band’s facebook page.



that strikes me as someone admitting to their mistake, albeit in an a bit of a self centred way. regardless, it’s changed my opinion of him. not that i hadn’t heard rumours of his behaviour before, it’s just different once it becomes reality.

I mean, he admitted that he's an ******* and a philanderer, but he did not expressly admit that her story was entirely truthful. His comment kind of spans a lifetime of general dickery. I'm just saying that it is not acceptable to read between the lines of what people say when it comes to matters like this and then to burn them at the stake for what we think they really meant.

Exo 12-23-2017 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Paedantic Basterd (Post 1907436)
The allegation in question was made by a woman who was then 14 when the "relationship" began. He'd send her dick pics, ask for nudes, and jerk off on skype. The relationship continued for a number of years and she believed he was in love with her, but he was actually just a massive cunt. A decade later she decided she regretted the whole thing and came out with the story. All of the allegations that followed, to my knowledge, have been along the lines of "I met him once and he seemed like a creep", but actually cited no crimes committed apart from being a jerk.

In the wake of this massive global polarization that's occurring, people have lost sight of the difference between non-consent and regret, and honestly, that's what this looks like to me. She consented to the relationship well past the magical age of consent that everyone is hung up on in this story.

I've done **** I've regretted at literally every age I've ever been and have never tried to take any recourse, nor has a magical adulthood fairy come down from the sky and granted me the wisdom to make good choices in life. I'm not saying he isn't a bastard, I'm just saying that I think people are outraged by the wrong aspects of this story and that I'm getting sick of rumours and stories being equated to facts before a fair and unbiased evaluation of the information.

This is exactly how I feel with the whole sexual harassment issue going on.

Tristan_Geoff 12-23-2017 07:41 PM

Citizen too, even though they kinda built themselves up as being second-rate Brand New.

Still good ****, the new album isn't bad either. (I'd skip album #2 though)

0nceemoalwaysemo 12-24-2017 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Qwertyy (Post 1906922)
are you talking more early brand new or the devil and god are raging inside me era brand new

Devil and God era.

0nceemoalwaysemo 12-24-2017 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 1906960)
Don't crucify the rest of the band because one dude is an alleged pedophile.

Jesse is the frontman... and bandmembers are usually friends and pretty close I doubt the rest knew nothing. Plus i'd rather not listen to the voice of a pathetic pedophile.

0nceemoalwaysemo 12-24-2017 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Paedantic Basterd (Post 1907436)
The allegation in question was made by a woman who was then 14 when the "relationship" began. He'd send her dick pics, ask for nudes, and jerk off on skype. The relationship continued for a number of years and she believed he was in love with her, but he was actually just a massive cunt. A decade later she decided she regretted the whole thing and came out with the story. All of the allegations that followed, to my knowledge, have been along the lines of "I met him once and he seemed like a creep", but actually cited no crimes committed apart from being a jerk.

In the wake of this massive global polarization that's occurring, people have lost sight of the difference between non-consent and regret, and honestly, that's what this looks like to me. She consented to the relationship well past the magical age of consent that everyone is hung up on in this story.

I've done **** I've regretted at literally every age I've ever been and have never tried to take any recourse, nor has a magical adulthood fairy come down from the sky and granted me the wisdom to make good choices in life. I'm not saying he isn't a bastard, I'm just saying that I think people are outraged by the wrong aspects of this story and that I'm getting sick of rumours and stories being equated to facts before a fair and unbiased evaluation of the information.

Um EXCUSE ME? The MANIPULATION started when she was underage and you don't just magically realize "oh wow I am being manipulated" once you reach age of consent people are in relationships being abused and don't realize until years later looking back at it how bad it was and that is not called "regret" it's called waking up and seeing what was going on because the brainwashing has finally wore off. Don't even try it.

0nceemoalwaysemo 12-24-2017 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk (Post 1906962)
It’s not like it changes their music.

It's not like any person who isn't a complete **** and too far up a bands ass to see straight could go ahead and listen to some pathetic peodphile trying to victimize himself in his songs and knowing that he was brainwashing some 14 year old while writing the song and that the lyrics are most likely at least to some extent about an underage girl he's trying to get into the panties of.

0nceemoalwaysemo 12-24-2017 06:57 PM

Band suggestions please if you want to discuss and try to defend a pedophile just because his music is so amazing he has to be supported regardless of his actions, please make a new thread for that. And give me band suggestions please or shut it.

Paedantic Basterd 12-24-2017 07:14 PM

I think you only read what you felt like reading there. At no point did I deny that he's a fuckface.

And if you can't handle an open and honest discussion, you're welcome to go somewhere else for your recs.

Frownland 12-24-2017 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by 0nceemoalwaysemo (Post 1907917)
Band suggestions please if you want to discuss and try to defend a pedophile just because his music is so amazing he has to be supported regardless of his actions, please make a new thread for that. And give me band suggestions please or shut it.

Hmm if you want music made by sanctimonious twats that you can relate to better, try U2.

rubber soul 12-25-2017 03:45 AM

I assume Gary Glitter is out for the OP then.

Machine 12-25-2017 04:22 AM

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Originally Posted by 0nceemoalwaysemo (Post 1907917)
Band suggestions please if you want to discuss and try to defend a pedophile just because his music is so amazing he has to be supported regardless of his actions, please make a new thread for that. And give me band suggestions please or shut it.

HAHAHAHAHA welcome to Music Banter. If you don't enjoy certain personalities arguing about **** you my as well just leave and in that case not go anywhere else, it's like you've never been on an internet forum before.

If you're not gonna listen to Brand New because their singer did something retarded 10 years ago then more power to you, but don't expect people to spoonfeed you because you're having a dumbasss moral quandary over whatever music you listen to. Just go to rateyourmusic and look at charts.

I repeat JFC man. Sorry if this is harsh, but wake the **** up man and realoize no one actually cares about some rando flipping his **** that his favorite singer might not be the best person in the world. Get over yourself.

Janszoon 12-25-2017 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 1906960)
Don't crucify the rest of the band because one dude is an alleged pedophile.

Can I crucify the rest of the band for making boring music?

Maajo 12-25-2017 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by rubber soul (Post 1908092)
I assume Gary Glitter is out for the OP then.

I think half of the entire 70s rock scene might be out of the question.


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