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Old 11-28-2011, 10:01 AM   #18351 (permalink)
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Lucifer, I do appreciate the compliments and I am very happy that people find me attractive.

I am perfectly fine being looked at as a sexual object. I could take webcam pictures in dumpy clothes and some people would still take it that way. It's up to the person viewing to see it as sex, art, both, or something else entirely. It's all cool for me!

The "tiring" comment was intended for real life. If I post pictures online, I expect some kind of reaction; good or bad. When I'm walking down the street to get to a store to buy some pants and a guy pulls his car over on the curb and starts trying to talk to me; that is tiring.

I hope this makes some kind of sense!
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Old 11-28-2011, 10:44 AM   #18352 (permalink)
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No it does. And I can definitely understand where you're coming from; most men are so shallow they can't see past the good-looking part of a good-looking girl. The immediacy of that sentiment shows you've progressed beyond the simple expectation of sex -- there are plenty of women in their 30s and 40s that still aren't there yet. And when dealing with a lot of men, I'm sure you hold off on the physical part of the relationship until you can test their intentions.

I'm not so insecure that I pretend being interested in a girl primarily for her personality (physical attraction is still my greatest evolutionary law), but I won't deal with and can't stand conceited, albeit beautiful, women. And I'm sorry to say it but that was my first and most immediate impression of you.

I was obviously wide of the mark there.
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Old 11-28-2011, 11:22 AM   #18353 (permalink)
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I am perfectly fine being looked at as a sexual object. I could take webcam pictures in dumpy clothes and some people would still take it that way.
Lol bit offtopic but I just have to mention it:
I dig chicks in baggy clothes, pyjama's, oversized hoodies or t-shirts, jogging pants, haha .
The more relaxed it looks, the more I like it.

But that was not what you were talking about. I know.
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Old 11-28-2011, 11:32 AM   #18354 (permalink)
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Hahaha, it doesn't turn me on. Duce perhaps?
But you are pretty. I just don't get why you would post soooo many pictures of yourself. I don't mind, but it seems a bit curious that someone with 19 postings has posted so many pictures of herself
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Old 11-28-2011, 11:34 AM   #18355 (permalink)
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Lay off it man. The girl has street cred here (literally).
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Old 11-28-2011, 11:36 AM   #18356 (permalink)
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How can someone have street cred on a forum, literally?
I'm pretty sure I'm missing the joke
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Old 11-28-2011, 11:39 AM   #18357 (permalink)
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S_K,

I like to have fun and create fun. I feel like I am creating some form of entertainment by posting silly or boring or typical pictures of myself in this thread. Am I wrong in assuming that someone or some people in some way enjoy that I'm posting pictures?

Also, for the record (music pun), I have been posting in other threads on this forum and sharing music. I like this environment.
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How can someone have street cred on a forum, literally?
I'm pretty sure I'm missing the joke
That's because there wasn't one being made.
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Old 11-28-2011, 11:44 AM   #18359 (permalink)
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S_K,
I like to have fun and create fun. I feel like I am creating some form of entertainment by posting silly or boring or typical pictures of myself in this thread. Am I wrong in assuming that someone or some people in some way enjoy that I'm posting pictures?
Also, for the record (music pun), I have been posting in other threads on this forum and sharing music. I like this environment.
I myself really don't mind. I like your pictures and I don't think you are doing anything wrong by posting them.
But there's always people who will think you're an attention whore. There's people who think I'm an attention whore
and I don't even post that may pictures of myself .
I'm just saying; People could get the wrong impression about you. If you don't mind, then neither do I. Feel free to post as many pictures as you wish

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That's because there wasn't one being made.
In that case I'm missing the entire posting
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Old 11-28-2011, 11:48 AM   #18360 (permalink)
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I hope some people do think I'm an attention whore, that is a valid thing to think about someone who posts pictures of themselves in a forum on the internet. This is acceptable to me.

I fail to see why posting my opinions and thoughts is less of an ego-flex than posting a picture of myself where I am somewhat exposed physically. Just because you might get a stronger reaction from a picture of a girl or her boobs or whatever, doesn't make it actually more attention-grabbing.

Let's have some fun and not think too hard, because I am certainly not going to
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