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Old 06-14-2013, 06:13 PM   #22281 (permalink)
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I haven't even figured out who she is, but I'm glad to know it's a she.
Although she prefers she and her pronouns she is agender actually.

Edit: Oop, she beat me to it.
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Old 06-14-2013, 06:19 PM   #22282 (permalink)
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Although she prefers she and her pronouns she is agender actually.

Edit: Oop, she beat me to it.
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STILL super not cool to call a person "IT"
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Old 06-14-2013, 06:25 PM   #22283 (permalink)
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Well, yes. Obviously.
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I'll have to miss out then. I won't go more than 3, maybe 4 days without shaving. I did have a stache once though
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Old 06-14-2013, 06:27 PM   #22284 (permalink)
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STILL super not cool to call a person "IT"
Sorry to offend you, but 'it' was used as a humorous twist.
Also, please remember English is not my native language .

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I'll have to miss out then. I won't go more than 3, maybe 4 days without shaving. I did have a stache once though
I think the last time I actually shaved my face was about 9 years ago.
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Old 06-14-2013, 06:41 PM   #22285 (permalink)
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I think the last time I actually shaved my face was about 9 years ago.
Wow! I shaved my face about 9 hours ago and it's already bothering me
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Old 06-14-2013, 06:48 PM   #22286 (permalink)
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Sorry to offend you, but 'it' was used as a humorous twist.
Also, please remember English is not my native language .


I think the last time I actually shaved my face was about 9 years ago.
It's not humourous to use what's used as a slur against queer people. It's the same as calling me a tranny. I know English isn't your first language but that makes no difference.
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Well, it does make a difference, as I didn't know it was offending and not humorous.
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Well, it does make a difference, as I didn't know it was offending and not humorous.
Your native language makes no difference since you'd called me "she" before that and not "it", or you could have used "they", I imagine you are familiar with this word, yes? When in doubt, google is your friend.

You knew which one to use. It's a serious slur and it dehumanises me. It's worse than calling me a "faggot".
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Old 06-14-2013, 07:13 PM   #22289 (permalink)
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I know the meaning. I just didn't know it would be that insulting. It wouldn't offend anyone overhere when used as a joke and I jokingly called you "it" because I didn't know your gender for sure.
And, in the end, why would you think I wanted to offend you. I don't even know who you are.
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I know the meaning. I just didn't know it would be that insulting. It wouldn't offend anyone overhere when used as a joke and I jokingly called you "it" because I didn't know your gender for sure.
And, in the end, why would you think I wanted to offend you. I don't even know who you are.
Because your joke was more important to you than the feelings of a human being, that's why it's offensive and not at all funny, even though you just said you didn't know what you were saying because of the language difference...then you said you knew what you were saying. So clearly you just don't care that it offends me.

It doesn't really matter who I am, but I used to be Paloma.
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