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Originally Posted by Hypnotised or Mesmerized

Yeah she's okay but they are giving her anti depressants and to me she isn't the same person
She hardly smiles now and i don't really know what to do
She gets criticised for everything she does.
What way she wears her hair or what trousers she wears why don't they just give her a break you know.
Any suggestions how to cheer her up i'm quite worried

First off. Tell her to get a sense of humour. This may sound harsh but I know what I'm talking about.
If she can't lighten up herself, then as a friend you have to do it for her...ok.
I'm sick to fucking death of people differenciating about people, simply because they may wear different clothes, or whatever.
What pisses me off even more, are the type of people who allow this to happen.
If you choose to be different, then you have to expect shite arse remarks from wankers you should'nt really be taking any notice of.
Don't let it bother you, be who you want to be and stop bitching if 'normal' people give you a hard time.

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Originally Posted by Hypnotised or Mesmerized

Well i dress the way i want but a lot of my clothes are based on the music i listen to.
But it isn't because of the music i wear them. I love the way my clothes look and how i dress cause i wouldn't wear them if i didn't but it's great it reflects on the music.
The chavs at my school can't stand people wearing anything but matching tracksuits and bling bling as they call it.
So me and ma mates get a lot of hassle and the normal bullying but i don't let it get on top of me.
Although my friend committed suicide a few weeks ago because of bullies and i am so happy she didn't die cause i don't know what i would've done. All because we don't want to follow their way of life or look like clones of them.

And about metal detectors i can't even get through the security things at certain theme parks without having to remove the belt off my skirt or trousers or my chains.
As for the airport in Turkey there are loads of security checks to go through so just as i have put ma belt back on i have to remove it again.

I learned about Chav's today by my fashion critic pom friend! In NZ we just call them Gangsta's or bums. He also told me Goth's are everywhere in England.

Is that what chavvy comes from?

glad ppl feel same way as i do!!

Man, you people putting so much stock in the clothes you wear, maybe if you developed some sort of personality your life wouldn't be determined by how you're dressed

^Tis actually a very wise concept.

Thats how you should look at things.

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

Of course you can wear what you want. But, if you don't want to get comments, then don't wear anything that's begging to be commented on. 'Tis that simple.

totally agree. don't dress questionable and ya won't be questioned.

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Originally Posted by Just Decent

yup, i agree.... actuallly what i really don't like is that if someone wears something, people think that they can assume what type of music and/or person that person actually is!!

so right. who the f*** do they think they are?

get out of puberty. problem solved.

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Originally Posted by jibber

get out of puberty. problem solved.

:rofl:

So true.