bungalow

^Same here really.

Raine

I've dated older.
And where I come from . . girls usually getonvolved with guys older than them.
I think the oldest guys I ever dated had to have been maybe two decades older than me

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bungalow

That is absolutely disgusting. You really should be ashamed.

Raine

I'm not.

And the fact is, I don't even choose guys by age. the fact is, the only thing all of my boyfriends ever had inc ommon is that they were older than me.
Guys my own age, just make me feel uncomfortable on a romantic level.

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bungalow

So you date 35 year old men instead?
That is sickening.

You really need a head examination.

Raine

No I don't date 35 yeard old men. The oldest guy I ever dated. . . well if we were still dating he'd be about 31 maybe as old as 33.

And you're not the first person to tell me that it's gross to date guys older than me. One of my friends went as far as to try and kill my current boyfriend about a year and a half ago when we first started dating.

And rob (Current boyfriend) will be 25 later on this year. Which really isn't that old.

Now back to the original topic, his mom more or less called me a tramp infront of rob, which didn't other me too much as the fact that he and his dad just kept on eating like there wasn't a major war brewing in front of them. And now I'm mad becuase while he did tell her that he was going to continue the relationship with me, he never believed me all those months before when i told him his mom hated me.
And now he's mad because i told him that he doesn't trust my judgement.
hence the reason he's sleeping on the couch and I'm sleeping in the bed.

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~ Friedrich Nietzsche

jr.

Getting back to the original question, Raine, it's not all that tough to figure out. He simply doesn't want to be in the middle of a situation which involves two women he cares for. Take a minute and look at it from his perspective. If he lands on one side, the other side is going to be hurt. He just doesn't want to hurt anyone. I seriously doubt it's anything personal against you.

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hiu

That is very amusing. I once knew a girl similar to you, when she was about 17 she matured and now goes out with people of a similar age.

So this girl is bragging to me via text how she has had sex with over 50 men and she is bored and wants to have sex. Should I stay or should I go and use 5 condoms?

or

I could go to a big party in town and get wasted.

Answer me these questions and you will be felated by me.

Raine

Difference is I've almost been married twice.

sleeping with over 50 men is nothing to bag about.
I'm staying because I love my boyfriend. I'm just frustrated and a little annoyed. not so much angry any more.

I've matured to a point where I now know and realize that going to parties and getting wasted is like begging to be raped

He's something of a momma's boy.
His mom can't stand the fact that I'm not jewish. she hates the fact that I'm mixed. and she thinks the only reason I'm dating him for money (which isn't the case) since i have more money than he does (to simply to put it).

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A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love.

~ Friedrich Nietzsche

hiu

That was meant to be about me and you turned it around to be about you. Fuck that shit.