wow you call me stupid but you say you are asexual. It is impossible to be asexual unless you can reproduce without a partner dumbass. Basic Biology sweetie now shut up.

I think that was the whole point of the joke...

I never said I was asexual.
i said if you were a girl, it would be girls like you that make girls like me go asexual.

Now will you answer my question about guys dating older/younger women?
What's the cutoff point for guys. Like how much older or younger will they let their girlfriend be?

Answer the question or don't post at all. You will not like my next response, mosesandtherubberducky.

Peace

At the age I'm at right now, (16) which is pretty much the average age around here give or take a few years, I would't date anyone more than a year younger than myself. Older, sure...not too much older though.

I think that "rule" if you want to call it that, kinda disappears after you hit about 25. I've got a friend who's 25 whose girlfriend is 5 years younger. And my aunt is something like 8 years her husbands senior.

So let's say you're a 17 year old girl . . . dating a 27 yar old guy. Is he an anomaly or. . . are we just wierd? Most of my teachers or adult friends think he's a perv and he's definitely not.

1.Its illegal
2.Yes it is weird...your teachers and adult friends are right

One of my friends heard my boyfriend say he loved me. And my firend said the law says it's illegal for him to love me. :laughing: He threatened to bash his brains in.

At what do you guys start thinking abuot kids and how do I bring up the subject. because I do want to have kids. Just not right now. But I would like for him to know that I am interested int he prospect and if we're still together within the next five years then Im definitely gonna have his kids. . . unless we find out he's infertile.

Peace

If i were a guy and i was any where from the ages of ? to ? i would allow myself to date girls from ages ? to ?

guy: 15
girl: 14-15

guy: 16
girl: 14-15

guy: 17
girl: 15-17

guy: 18
girl: 15 - 18

guy: 19
girl: 15 - 19

guy: 20
girl: 16 - 20

goes all the way up to guys being 26-27 years of age dating girls from those ages till about 17 or 16 or so.. i say no lower then 14 or 15 because of sexual maturity.. most girls at that point in time are still learning about themselves emotionally and sexually = pain.. from what i've been through and have seen i bet that girls younger then the age of 15 is laying on the line of readiness.. 14 i don't think is the right time for any of that either, but i've seen some girls do it without ****ing up so sometimes it works out... after the age of 14 it just gets creepy.

I will be 19 in two weeks and my boyfriend is 24.
when i was 16 till 18 i was going out with a guy that was 23 - 24.
when i was 15 i was seeing a guy that was 16.
when i was 15 i was seeing a guy that was 20.

all at different times and i handled them all very different.
but half of what guys have put me through i wasn't ready for.. emotionally, but if anything its made me grow up a lot in the relationship department.

back in the 60's and 70's it was normal for women when 15 to be going out with men in there late 20's and get married and have children. I don't understand why its so looked down upon now. Maybe because of how sex has become more important these days then relationships (when not talking about groupies and hippies that is). My nan was 15 when she started seeing my pop and he was 25 then.. she was pregnant when she was 17 with his tiwn babies, and they were married when she was 18 and him 28, this was back in 31 i think. My pop is in his mid 90's now, and my nan in her mid 80's.. and there still together after her getting pregnant 30 times with his children and having 17 of them.. first two died.. its amazing what people back then went through in relationships.. people without work for years and years.. and when working, working for hardly any money, no matter how big the family... everything was so much harder yet more relationships lasted.. these days maybe people give up to easy.

my mother is 40 and my step father is 30..my real father 47.

there are lines to cross when it comes to ages..

me personally i would never go out with a guy younger then me. i believe on the first post in this thread it says something about this is from women asking guys questions and tthe other way around.

My 16 year old female friend is dating a 35 year old guy... :s

can I have her number?? http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f3...p/badteeth.gif

Shes pregnant :s

Well she`s better off than the 16 year old I used to work with that was dating a 35 year old.

She`s dead now.

16 on 35?

What are they, deaf and blind?

Nevermind and if anybody asks, I've never seen her before :shycouch:

I try not to judge.

Apparantly he has 2 kids though. And hes going out with a 16 year old. He seems like a generally lovely chap, makes Murder Junkie seem like a courteous gentleman.

I'd say its not at all weird for a 17 year old girl to be attracted to a 27 year old guy and to want to go out with him (as far as the age and maturity side of it goes). It IS a bit weird for a 27 year old guy to want to go out with a 17 year old girl though.

My main thought on this issue is that ANY 27 YEAR OLD GUY WHO IS GOING OUT WITH A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL IS A LOSER. To me, this is an empirical thing. All of the 20-something year old guys who I've met who have girlfriends considerably younger than them have been pretty useless individuals. All of them, without exception. In theory, you could have a well adjusted guy in his mid-twenties dating a girl who was barely out of school, but I've never, ever seen it in reality.

Cruel maybe, but I'd say its true.

You know for someone who slanders others based on "sexual intelligence", but then fails to understand the term "asexual" when it comes to sexuality - you really have a lot to learn. Asexuality refers to the person not being sexually attracted to either gender. Moron.

Almost. It means that a person has no sexual desires whatsoever. Somebody who isn't attracted to men or women, but gets aroused by toasters is not asexual. (It also means not possessing reproductive organs, but that doesn't support Moses' argument).

Sorry, I love word definitions.

wrong again, asexual is a person that has a sexual desire, but dislikes sex. it was well explained to me....

By who?

by an asexual person...asexual people masturbate....

Masturbation isn't sex. However, the asexual person I spoke to explained it with greater similarities to Marijan than Don'trunmeover. The point is, Moses made a twat out of himself by trying to come across quasi-intelligent when he was just talking **** to get someone worked up. This we can all agree on?

well d'uh. i was trying to say that asexual people do have a sex drive and can have an orgasm...they just don't like the act of sex with another person. they can still be attracted to someone. why are we talking about this again?

Because Moses is a moron? If it's not that, beats me.

I cannot believe I allowed myself to get so overworked by that buttwipe.

And to discontinue the flow of rather negative things being said about older guys dating younger women, It's kinda my fault I'm in this situation.
I met the guy at a store. we exchanged numbers and I just didn't happen to tell him I was jail bait.
One thing lead to another and by the second date I felt as though I had to tell him so I did. We talked about the age thing and he's cool with it if I'm cool with it. . . .
As for the legal aspect of our relationship and the whole statutory rape issue, I see it like this. If the common consensus is girls mature earlier than guys then it would be logical for a girl to want to date someone a little older than she int he hopes of dating someone who on their same maturity level.
If I can choose to fall for a guy and have a relationship of this caliber with a guy then I am also willing choosing to do everything ina relationship I would expect to hope to want. I am a teenager. I want and crave sex. I expect to do these things with my boyfriend.
The fact that he's older than me just means that he's cool with the age difference.
It's not like I'm dating guys who are in their forties. That's just wrong.

Peace

I`m sure my brother in law would be amused to find that he`s considered a loser for dating my sister because he`s 8 years older than her.

I imagine that the fact they`re been together for 8 years , married for 3 as well as him recently being awarded a doctorate and all while have a well paid bank job would also be factors for considering him a loser too.

I was right too. http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=asexual

I don't really care if you have some problem with me but constantly calling me a moron afterwards just makes it seem like you are over indulging in your owning of me.

Once a guy is over 16 you can easily work out the ideal age of their partner. Just half his age then plus 7. So, I'd be looking for a 19 year old, which sounds good to me. Think about it some more, when you're 50, are you going to turn down a 32 year old? The only problem is, you'll have to change partners every couple of years to stick to the rule (but maybe that isn't such a bad thing).

Dave

Like I said before, its the case that I've never actually met any well adjusted guy who was in such a situation and that's taking it on a case by case basis in which every case so far has followed the same pattern. I always hear stories about so-and-so who is going out with somebody that much younger and since they were in school and so on, but I won't believe it until I actually see the evidence.

Have you been watching 'QI'?

You desrved to be called a moron. But I admire you. It's very rare that I meet someone that'll look up a word in a dictionary if they're not sure of it's meaning.
And I don't have a problem with me although you did just quote Fal. But for future reference, just know that I don't have a problem with you so long as you don't try to get one up over on me.
Now that we've straightened that out, what is your opinion on guys and younger girls?

PS: please don't make me regret asking your opinion on the topic
Peace

No, but someone I know may have been.

If you have to question whether someone is too young for you, or you are too young for them, then they/you probably are. Essentially, if you notice their age, then he age is an issue.

Personally, I wouldn't consider anyone under 18 an option. At that age, and even 18/19ish, you still have some key experiences to go through, and it is very rare for people of that age to have experienced them.

Dave

No, you were wrong because you were using an abstract or irrelevant context. Under the context to which we were referring (that of human sexuality) definition 3 "Lacking interest in or desire for sex." would be the relevant or "right" definition. You were, however, using a mix of definitions 1 and 2 in a pitiful attempt to "get one over", as it were, on Raine.

And yeah, I like calling people morons. What's life without a little overindulgence?

Girls also matur much faster then guys (at least thats what we've been told) so after going out with those(that) few guys out age then we realize there not up to the same emotion standers that we are at out maturity level.. so going out with older guys makes sense..

sense i went out with a guy that was 5 years older then me when i was 15, i haven't been able to date guys around my age..i tried it and it was the most pointless thing in my life.

I know just as many stupid 18 year old guys as I do stupid 14 year old guys.

well thats guys for you.:laughing:

It really depends on what age they are. I know right now guys will get **** for going out with a girl that is 2 years younger than them (I'm 15 btw). But I think that as they get older that range gets wider. My parents are 4 years apart I think. It's their choice really but sometimes it can look bad

Well, being on the other side of the generation gap now, I can say I find it extremely creepy when men date younger women.

This is only my opinion, of course, but it seems to me, a man in his late 20's- early 30's, who is seeing a woman in her mid-late teens, has real issues, psychologically.

While it's true women mature earlier, we're still talking about a woman with the maturity level of a 17 year old.

A man 10+ years older, who seeks out much younger women is one of two things: Emotionally immature, or a pedophile. Or both. He either can't relate to women his own age, or he seeks the thrill of the 'young catch'.

So on the flip-side, whats with women who like younger men? Whats the appeal? Automatically, you know the guy'll be immature to some degree, and I personally see it being too much work (dating a younger guy). Especially after my experience dating a guy 3 years younger than me...Although, I haven't seen much difference between the 20-yr-old, the 28-yr-old, or the guys who were my age. The ones my age were living similarly to me, and the 28 yr old wasn't that much better off. Of course,the 20 yr old still lived at home... I wonder how many "cougars" have sons?? Is it some type of Oedipus (sexual relation between mother&son) complex, or what??

What is it with women that their "friends" will compete for their boyfriends?

I mean, men have a credo: Bro's before Ho's

women will seemingly screw each other over every time, whereas 9 out of 10 men wouldn't have anything to do with it because of the credo