I have a similar question.

Why is it that women will decide that they're not interested in a guy just because their friend is interested in the same guy. I've seen this happen lots of times before, where Girl 1 is interested in a man, but then changes her mind and says she's not interested because her friend Girl 2 was already interested?

This is particularly stupid when the man in question is clearly not interest in Girl 2, but likes Girl 1. Then Girl 1 and the man can't get together because of Girl 2.

This happened to one of my friends a couple of weeks ago when she went back home to Ireland. She kissed a guy who one of her friends turned out to be interested in and a few people were going "you shouldnt have done that, she was interested in him", but my thought was -

If the guy was actually interested in the other girl, he wouldn't have kissed my friend, would he? He would have kissed the other girl.

That's a ramble. Here are my questions:

1) Can you explain why girls do this "'I'm not interested in that man because my friend is interested in him" thing?
2) Do girls really think that they can win over a guy who isn't too interested in them to begin with?
3) Why do girls bother trying to do 2)?
4) How well do you think you can judge whether a guy IS interested in you?

And this is a question for the other guys.

5) Would you agree that you could say within 2 minutes of meeting a girl whether you'd be interested (relationship-wise) in her? Are there really any exceptions?

I relate all that sort of behaviour to some sort of primal mating weird territorial thing. Besides men say they don't do that sort of thing, yet I've seen it happen a few times, men & women. And don't generalize, not all women fall under the category of "hoes", some of us are just b*tches, like me :) !

I can kind of understand the competing side, women generally judge other women's boyfriends as more attractive than you're average single man - partly because they think "well she's interested, so he's got to have something going for him", whereas they might tend to think "why's he still single, must be a tosser" for single guys.

But why the not going for a single man because your friend is interested viewpoint? I'd view that as friends treading on the toes of other friends. If so, then why do women do it?

Yet you continue to date these stupid guys.

girls sometime seem to be thoughtful like that.. but then she also knows that it won't go anywhere, but she thinks and feels that where she let go of him for her, knowing he wasn't interested that at least she wasn't the one to hurt her friend.. so now she can be there for her.. or something (i really have no clue, if i ever liked a guy and my friends did, i didn't give a ****...) read up.sometimes yes.. first we get to know them well as friends, get to know there loves likes, hate's and dislikes.. fears, and pains.. we study them like books.. if we still liek them after this, they'll notice that we'll do anything for them... them maybe realizing there missing out.. hmm..not very well..we (i) just go with my gut.no i don't. I'm with the most perfect guy on earth.

of course man, everybody poops

As if that's gonna get you laid. We realise we have excellent wench service, if we go out with you we're expected to reciprocate. And that would ruin it all:usehead:

1. most girls dont do that. they'll go for the guy, no matter what. if they do, theyre probably trying to guilt-trip the other one into stepping down so that they can nab the guy.
2. yes, girls think they are more seductive than they really are, which doesnt come over as too attractive.
3. because they think they can? its like a proof thing. like guys have to do manly things to prove they have a penis, girls have to turn guys to butter to prove theyre women.
4. pretty well. we just dont admit to it ourselves, for some reason.

EIMP: so so so sorry if youve already answered those questions with my answers. to be honest, i didnt read yours, but dont get shitty if i just repeated. yeah. :)

Not all women are like that. And for the women that are like that then I guess theyr eally aren't friends or they're just stupid.

In the real world this particular statement amounts to a bunch of crap.

First, once again, not all girls are like that.
Second girls are competitive. And third any girl that does this is stupid. And the reasoning behind this is that girls are vicious, vindictive, and evil trolls when they want to be. If my my best friend and I fall for the same guy but I only have a crush on him then I'll let her have him because she actually wholeheartedly loves him. If on the off chance the guy likes me and not her I will tell her this and i will prove it to her and the situation will be solved and I'll probably dump the poor sap anyhow just because it's friends before guys everyday of the week. Would I really want my best friend to see me dating the guy I only have acrush on while she freaking loves him? hell no. Besides I usually don't date crushes cause they don't last long.
I hope that answered your question.

Yes. And I've seen this happen. All a girl has to do is use her feminine wiles get a guy ina corner while she's half naked and bang.

We don't like feeling rejected.

How he treats you compared to other females or by asking him.

I'm not a guy so i feel like I'd be overstepping my bounds by answering this but I'll try to anyway.
No to the first question and yes to the second.
One, anything can happen in two minutes, and second, under any variety of circumstances, the rules on the battlefield of love can change.
Battle field of love sounds so cheesy doesn't it.

Peace

There are no rules on the battlefield of love...just utter carnage.

:laughing:

Some girl I had no interest in did that to me.

It didn`t work , by all means try & use your body to get things. But in her case she`s the type of person that you want to smack in the mouth everytime she opens it and no matter how great her tits looked I wouldn`t touch her with a barge pole.

Well you're more of a gentlemen then some of the guys out there that would have taken advantage of the situation for sure.
And my opinion of any girl that does that is a rathe rlow one anyhow.
I can't imagine myself being a guy and falling for a girl like that. I would've probably slapped her for not having more self respect and pride in herself. But that's just me.
And I guess that means you've got good tastes ing irls cause if she was willing to do that for you imagine some of the other crap she's done.

The only reason I mentioned it is because I had similar experience at a game at an all girls school and some chick was trying a little too hard. I mean I was in the locker changing into my soccer gear and basically no means no. Damned whores.

Peace

You don`t fall for her

You have sex with her then let one of your friends do her the following week.

*mikey ahs a question* im growing my hair long...how should i like make it look? ermm yeha akward
EDIT: cause i dont want it to look bad...

let it do as it must but keep it all in a uniform length because if the back is too long it is a mullet and if the front is it is wierd.

To Urban:
I wouldn't touch touch this chic unless I was decked out ina gas mask and a jumpsuit you use when working with biohazard material.
I wouldn't wish her upon anyone. I imagine the peron or thing that hassex wth her would automatically go to heaven for being so kind.

To Death of Capitalism:
Keep it neat. It's whatever suits you I guess. I have no diea what you look like so I can't really tell you. Just don't let it get to the point where you look like a hippie, or a hobo.

Peace

oh i havent cut it in like 6 months so no worries about being a mullet *shudders....
also to raine *is sad* it is going to be the hippie hair sort of

whatever works for you.

Peace

6 or extremley long like down to my chest

http://www.photofeatures.com/slade/i...s/s397319a.jpg

Like this

no like rick wakeman

:p: Oh aren't you sweet. every one can answer those questions, with same answers or not.. everyone gets there opinions.. thats why people are asking the questions..

I myself would lose interest in the guy my friend liked, not b/c I'm nice and thoughtful, but b/c it's like you and your closest friend owning and wearing the same shirt (at the same time), it's pathetic. I'd like to think my taste in guys differs from my friends', and the only time I've ever come across this is when me & my single friends all thought this guy was hot, and we all would have f*cked him, only cuz of his looks ( from my perspective neway). And like moses pointed out girls try #2 because we have to go to the bathroom too (ok, that was stupid, but I had to). Women don't like to think they are un-attractive by men, which is why they will continue to hit on a guy until he breaks down and realizes he can take advantage and possibly get blown... And #4, you can tell b/c the guy can't help himself but look at you, and has that goofy look on his face (like after they get blown...) At least these are some things I've noticed/experienced
My question: why do men puff out their chest when a chick walks by??(*esp. if they aren't wearing a shirt!?) My neighbour does this to me often, like he's a pea**** or something, and it looks retarded

to be completely honest, i've never seen that happen in real life only in the movies. And only then i can picture a gay man doing it to attract another gay mans attention.. creepy how i just pictured that...but hell my mothers best friends (gay men) always joke around about steriotypical stuff like that, cause those guy are just how most people picture gay men to be = the leather. So my real answer, because there gay men trying to hard to look stright... hense us all finding out and knowing before they do.

Why do some guys when forced to side with either their girlfriend or their mom choose to remain neutral and let the hositlites between the said mom and girlfriend continue?

They side with their mom...they dont get any..
They side with you...their mom doesnt feed them

he doesn't live with his mom anymore and ate pretty well tonight
at the moment he lives with me and he isn't getting any.

Because you can`t tell women anything so you just let them get on with it.

Hmm...well you cant have your mom mad at you..that sucks
And well...he doesnt want you mad either...so im thinking he hopes you guys could resolve it

It's men's code.
You don't side.

You misunderstand.
We live together. it's just us and Tjandara (the pet fish)
And he knows how I feel about his mom and how she feels about me.

I mad at him for giving me a blank expression across the dinner table tonight and didn't seem to believe until he heard it for himself his mom's rather low opinion(s) of me

You're 16 and you live alone with your boyfriend?
How old is he?

I'll be 17 ina few onths and my boyfriend is . . well let's just say he's in his 20's

That is f*cking weird and somewhat disgusting.
Where are your parents?

In PA. (I kinda live in new york at the moment)

and I don't think it's wierd or disgusting. I know it may seem unconventional though. but hey it works

Have you been legally emancipated from your parents?

I used to live with my mom. And my mom doesn't care what I'm doing as long as I'm not arrested, or bring shame to the family name, and getting good grades. She doesn't care
And as long as my dad knows that I'm alive and kickin and not being abused, he really doesn't say anything.

You realize that if you haven't been legally emancipated from them, they could file a runaway report and have you arrested right? And your boyfriend would most likely be under a lot of suspicion.

Btw, your boyfriend is a disgusting f*cker. :)

My dad can't file a runaway report because he signed away his rights to be my parent away to my mom a ton of years ago.
He can file a lawsuit however (and did on one occasion) to have full custody of me when I stopped going to school. But as long as I appear healthy and whatever and I'm happy, he doesn't see any need to call social services or dhs.
And my mom would enevr call the police if i "ran away." She has however kicked me out.
And besides, she likes my bf and doesn't care as long as I'm outta her hair and being a bad influence for my younger brother and sister

The only weird part I find is the age difference.