It isnt my fault! birth control
 

Who's responsibilty is it to have birth control? a guy or a girl? I dont really care, since I have no feelings, but I would like girls to take care of it, since it is ultimately there choice to make babys.

I dont want real babies, all girls should have birth control too.

(psssss...)

Both. I believe in double protection. The girl should always make sure she's on the pill (incase she's at a drunk party, and stuff happens). And they both need to make sure a condom is used due to STD issues. Men have no effective birth control as I know of, there was some experimentation with birth control pills for men in Australia, but I think that caused sterility.

yeah it did. trust me on that one. it went the way of the gassed up alcohol plan. that way is useless dammit.

pulling out works.. some girls definetly dont mind.girls like it better without a condom, from what Ive been told, and someone constantly taking it off. some girls are as dirty as me and even want me to be dirty. they should definetly have something since it takes both of us to make babys.

Pulling out doesn't work. Precum still contains semen. The chicks still get pregnant. Pulling out is not a definite.

it works for me.. were did you read that?

must of got lucky my brother.

I cant be that lucky.. its like brushing my teeth, I dont have a cavity because I brush, and I dont have a baby. I can understand why it can be scary, but I think if your gonna do it you might as well let everything go, kinda like a fight.

o god never mind.. Iam a bad influence.

Basically anywhere that mentions pulling out as contraception. Keep on using the pulling out technique and someone will get pregnant from it.

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1186.html
http://www.virtualpediatrichospital....eption.shtml#6
http://www.epigee.org/guide/withdrawal.html
http://www.fpwa-health.org.au/ins&outscontraception.htm (scroll down, it's under "Some contraception myths")
http://www.studenthealth.ucla.edu/he...ception.html#5 http://www.studenthealth.ucla.edu/he...ception.html#3

I was sort of making fun of your lack of sex, but thats really none of my business.

hey.... didnt you say that you believed that both people should be protected... dont make me quote you... or something lame also.

I fail to see how that's relevant to pulling out not working ...

I think that it's both man and woman's responsibilty. They both should be responsible for what happens, not just the guy. And the girl should be the one who thinks more, after all, she's got to put up with the kid.

just put the condom on. be on the safe side. or maybe you want kids.

There's no point. Sure it might be better, but it's not gonna be better when you have loads of little babies running around and eating at your wallet.

think of the babies as a retirment plan. when u get too old to move they will help you.

^^haha classic. today has just been a hobo/eitheror pat on the back session really. And I must learn to stay on topic! I keep doing this. Anyway, I'll try and stay on topic from now on.

I think everyone should agree that both parties are responsible for what happens on the night, and both should remain level headed and not get to carried away.

yes. me must stay on topic! no more useless spamming. much like this post. oh ****.

dont be so biased out of ignorance.. you didnt read that I wrote that girls should have birth control - **** its practically in the title.

theres no point putting a condom on if the girl likes it as much as the guy does without it. I once again will say that they should have the birth control since it is ultimatly their choice to do it.

I wasn't arguing with you-it was a generalisation. In fact I never read what you wrote. I just posted my opinion on the issue up. Now I have read what you wrote, I don't see there is a problem with it. Both of you don't want to use protection, so you both don't. Your decision, your consequences.

yep. i think we can all agree it's just about choice. be stupid and dont protect and you run the risk of getting pregnant. thats all their is to it. or if all else fails get your partner tested for various diseases and then give it to her in the ass. what a charmer

haha! not get too carried away when having sex?if sex was that polite then there would be no reason to do it, other than for the sake of humanity. i dont know of anyone who has good baby making with out getting carried away... isn't that what leads to having sex.. getting carried away..

Get carried away by all means, just not TOO carried away that you don't think straight and safe.

passion may be overcoming but not so overcoming that you can't quickly slip on a condom. its not like if you dont get it in her in 5 seconds your **** will explode.....well most of the time.

Each year 10% of couples that use anal sex as contraception have a baby. Splash back is nasty.

oh my god are you serious? well there goes that idea then.

you guys are to defensive or brain washed from school or your parents to have your own opinion...joke. the whole story is a girl friend told me she liked it better without one and another kept taking it off, so I think that means they should have as much of a responsibity to keep from getting pregnant as I do in giving them babies, or all guys for that matter, including you.


anal sex is tight and real warm almost hot.. dont kill me jesus! (real jesus)

Yeah and also there aren't many women willing to do it that way. Believe me;)

My view is, if they don't want contraception, 1) get them STD tested (and yourself while you're at it) and 2) get them to sign something legally binding to say that if they get pregnant they won't ask you for child support because they explicitly got themselves pregnant.

hahaha how romantic...hey baby come sign this form before we do it. oh it's nothing really, just says that if you get pregnant well im allowed to bail on you and leave you up **** creek.

"sure thing ill sign it cause im a completely stupid blonde bombshell slut"

No, my point is that she's the one who won't use the contraception, so she's the one that takes responsibility. Either use the condom, or don't expect me to help out with the kid(s).

righto i getcha.

I think either/or got you in the first place Fal, he just wanted to get a few smiles. Sadly, that weasn't to be.

my roll of comedy is ending dammit. i think this birth thing has dried up for me. i'll leave it to the morning folk to pick it up.

You better had do. And yet again either/or has managed to steer the thread off-topic. It's one of the many gifts he has. Albeit annoying one.

get a girl to like you enough to call you at your friends house during a party and argue with you on speaker phone, and she'll do it. a funny thing is she would tease me by saying if I dont call I'll let you f me in the butt. but she called. just give her alote of attention and anything can happen.

My bad :( when there aren't indicators it's hard to tell.

HAHAHAHAHA, pulling out works huh? come back and tell us that when some chick you banged pops one out.

double protection is the key. condoms all the time, and birth control pills. There's never an excuse not to use a condom, if neither party has one, you can wait for sex.

I for one choose not to engage in intercourse. There are other ways and means to have fun with your partner.

Now if you really want to, double protection is the way to go. There really is no alternative.

why not .. have both on birth control. And both use a condom? and then the shot. and the patch..



That's alot of protection. :)

now how do you propose the girl put on a condom? and you do know that the hormones in birth control pills do really strange things to guys right?