Coming out of the closet (rock, quote, Lute, Gender)

sleepy jack · 03-02-2007, 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mamagarmr

i have like...4 closets
****

The homosexual closet...The heterosexual closet...The bisexual closet...and the...

NECROSEXUAL CLOSET? =o

tdoc210 · 03-02-2007, 06:55 PM

only on weekends =O

adidasss · 03-02-2007, 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kevorkian Logic

the problem is what makes you happy, tends to hurt someone.

There comes a time when you have to put your own happiness first.

Kevorkian Logic · 03-02-2007, 08:15 PM

Yea, the problems is when. Because when it feels right has never seemed to work.

adidasss · 03-02-2007, 08:27 PM

Well it would help if we spoke candidly, what situations are you talking about?

Kevorkian Logic · 03-02-2007, 08:36 PM

Currently, 2 guys.
One I have been best friends with and trust more than anyone else, but dated off and on for about 2 years. Anyways I went uber bitch on him, and destroyed his trusting, kind nature.

The 2nd guy told me that being around the 1st guy was destroying the 1st guy, because he couldn't handle being around me and not dating me. The 2nd guy told me to start depending on him as my support, and when I get upset to call him instead of the 1st guy, and to hang out with him on weekends and stuff.

The 1st guy makes me happy to be with, but apparently I hurt him when I'm with him. Plus 2nd guy gets angry at me for not listening and relying on him.

Therefore doing what makes you happy makes others unhappy.

I hope my story is clear.

adidasss · 03-02-2007, 08:47 PM

Well honestly, what are you supposed to do? Date the first guy so he doesn't get hurt? I don' tink tow...and the second guy's problem seems to be selfishness and ulterior motives (no, I don't believe in girl/guy friendships, because I'm a guy even if I am gay, and I know the way guys function). Tell them to get a grip on themselves or fuck off.

Anyway, this is offtopic.

tdoc210 · 03-02-2007, 09:18 PM

~~[MERIT]~~ · 03-02-2007, 09:19 PM

^c4mwhore

tdoc210 · 03-02-2007, 09:21 PM

that pictures useful for many different situations

03-02-2007, 06:55 PM	#92 (permalink)
tdoc210 ashes against the grain Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: new hampsha Posts: 2,617	only on weekends =O __________________ We went back there and they had come and hacked off every inoculated arm. There they were in a pile. A pile of little arms. And I remember... I... I... I cried. I wept like some grandmother. I wanted to tear my teeth out. I didn't know what I wanted to do. And I want to remember it. I never want to forget it. I never want to forget. And then I realized... like I was shot... like I was shot with a diamond... a diamond bullet right through my forehead. And I thought: My God... the genius of that.

03-02-2007, 08:15 PM	#94 (permalink)
Kevorkian Logic Imperfectly Perfect Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: North Carolina Posts: 1,290	Yea, the problems is when. Because when it feels right has never seemed to work. __________________ "it is only through a limitless accumulation of the imperfect that a certain type of perfection can be attained"

03-02-2007, 08:27 PM	#95 (permalink)
adidasss Slavic gay sauce Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Abu Dhabi Posts: 7,993	Well it would help if we spoke candidly, what situations are you talking about? __________________ “Think of what a paradise this world would be if men were kind and wise.” - Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle. Last.fm

03-02-2007, 08:36 PM	#96 (permalink)
Kevorkian Logic Imperfectly Perfect Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: North Carolina Posts: 1,290	Currently, 2 guys. One I have been best friends with and trust more than anyone else, but dated off and on for about 2 years. Anyways I went uber bitch on him, and destroyed his trusting, kind nature. The 2nd guy told me that being around the 1st guy was destroying the 1st guy, because he couldn't handle being around me and not dating me. The 2nd guy told me to start depending on him as my support, and when I get upset to call him instead of the 1st guy, and to hang out with him on weekends and stuff. The 1st guy makes me happy to be with, but apparently I hurt him when I'm with him. Plus 2nd guy gets angry at me for not listening and relying on him. Therefore doing what makes you happy makes others unhappy. I hope my story is clear. __________________ "it is only through a limitless accumulation of the imperfect that a certain type of perfection can be attained"

03-02-2007, 08:47 PM	#97 (permalink)
adidasss Slavic gay sauce Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Abu Dhabi Posts: 7,993	Well honestly, what are you supposed to do? Date the first guy so he doesn't get hurt? I don' tink tow...and the second guy's problem seems to be selfishness and ulterior motives (no, I don't believe in girl/guy friendships, because I'm a guy even if I am gay, and I know the way guys function). Tell them to get a grip on themselves or fuck off. Anyway, this is offtopic. __________________ “Think of what a paradise this world would be if men were kind and wise.” - Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle. Last.fm

03-02-2007, 09:18 PM	#98 (permalink)
tdoc210 ashes against the grain Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: new hampsha Posts: 2,617	__________________ We went back there and they had come and hacked off every inoculated arm. There they were in a pile. A pile of little arms. And I remember... I... I... I cried. I wept like some grandmother. I wanted to tear my teeth out. I didn't know what I wanted to do. And I want to remember it. I never want to forget it. I never want to forget. And then I realized... like I was shot... like I was shot with a diamond... a diamond bullet right through my forehead. And I thought: My God... the genius of that.

03-02-2007, 09:19 PM	#99 (permalink)
~~[MERIT]~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Missouri, USA Posts: 4,814	^c4mwhore

03-02-2007, 09:21 PM	#100 (permalink)
tdoc210 ashes against the grain Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: new hampsha Posts: 2,617	that pictures useful for many different situations __________________ We went back there and they had come and hacked off every inoculated arm. There they were in a pile. A pile of little arms. And I remember... I... I... I cried. I wept like some grandmother. I wanted to tear my teeth out. I didn't know what I wanted to do. And I want to remember it. I never want to forget it. I never want to forget. And then I realized... like I was shot... like I was shot with a diamond... a diamond bullet right through my forehead. And I thought: My God... the genius of that.