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adidasss 03-01-2007 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by NaNaNer (Post 343344)
So now I am confused...

I like women..but I would never date them..I like them in a sexual form..its fun,its erotic and sometimes better then being with a man...

But I would never date or be in a relationship with a woman....

Am I bisexual? And in all seriousness...I dont know the answer.

Why would you never date or be in a relationship with a woman?

[MERIT] 03-01-2007 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 343341)
No it's not, it's perfectly possible for someone to be attracted to both sexes. They have nothing to gain from saying they're bi, homophobes think you're queer even if you are attracted to the opposite sex.

Call me a homophobe if you want, but I disagree with the practice, not the people. Liking men makes you a f@g. I use that not as a derogatory term, but as a term to describe both homosexuals and "bi-sexuals." If you know of a more politically correct term feel free to let me know.

Ma Cherie 03-01-2007 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 343338)
Ok, regardless of your opinion on homosexuality, you should probably acknowledge that this is a good thing for him, coming out that is. Beats hiding and lying about it no?

P.s Assuming this isn't one of those really retarded American teen jokes in which case I'd be pretty pissed off.

yeah, it took 2 years, and my friends knew before i ever told them i was bi

NaNaNer 03-01-2007 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 343345)
Why would you never date or be in a relationship with a woman?


Maybe its fear of what others might think...I am not real sure...I am emotionally more attracted to men then women...

Women are crazy!:laughing:

Ma Cherie 03-01-2007 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by oojay (Post 343346)
Call me a homophobe if you want, but I disagree with the practice, not the people. Liking men makes you a f@g. I use that not as a derogatory term, but as a term to describe both homosexuals and "bi-sexuals." If you know of a more politically correct term feel free to let me know.

make you gay, the term fag when trying not to make it sound derogetory is to say.. queer, or efiminate

for women it make you lesbian

for like it both your bi

adidasss 03-01-2007 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by oojay (Post 343346)
Call me a homophobe if you want, but I disagree with the practice, not the people. Liking men makes you a f@g. I use that not as a derogatory term, but as a term to describe both homosexuals and "bi-sexuals." If you know of a more politically correct term feel free to let me know.

Oh God, we're back to semantics. You can disagree and protest all you want, but homophobia no longer means a "fear" of homosexuals, it stands for the general disagreement with the "lifestyle". You're a homophobe, and that's fine and dandy, but I don't see why you shy away from being labeled one. It's not as if you're keeping your views a secret or being all PC about it. So what's the problem?

And saying you don't use the term fag as a derogatory one is bullshit plain and simple, if you don't wish to offend the other party, we in civilized society tend to use the terms "homosexual" , "bisexual" or perhaps "gay".

adidasss 03-01-2007 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by NaNaNer (Post 343348)
Maybe its fear of what others might think...I am not real sure...I am emotionally more attracted to men then women...

Women are crazy!:laughing:

Well don't be so exclusive about it. Saying you would never want to date or be in a relationship with another woman simply because of what others think is pretty daft wouldn't you agree? It's also rather cowardly. You shouldn't care what others think otherwise you might miss out on life...like I did.

[MERIT] 03-01-2007 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 343350)
Oh God, we're back to semantics. You can disagree and protest all you want, but homophobia no longer means a "fear" of homosexuals, it stands for the general disagreement with the "lifestyle". You're a homophobe, and that's fine and dandy, but I don't see why you shy away from being labeled one. It's not as if you're keeping your views a secret or being all PC about it. So what's the problem?

And saying you don't use the term fag as a derogatory one is bullshit plain and simple, if you don't wish to offend the other party, we in civilized society tend to use the terms "homosexual" , "bisexual" or perhaps "gay".

I said you can label me a "homophobe" all you want. It others me absolutely none. I disagree with a homosexuality as well as "bi-sexuality," so I guess I'm a bi-seuxalophobe as well. And was using the term "fag" to refer to both homosexuals AND "bi-sexuals," since both are sexually attracted to men. And this is why I said "no comment," to try to avoid all this redundant bullsh*t with everyone on here who are so rainbow friendly.

NaNaNer 03-01-2007 11:06 AM

If its not something you would like to be called then you shouldnt be calling others it...

[MERIT] 03-01-2007 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by NaNaNer (Post 343354)
If its not something you would like to be called then you shouldnt be calling others it...

I will call a black man a black man, but it would make little sense for him to call me a black man, or vice versa. No weight to that argument.


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