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Old 07-28-2013, 08:42 PM   #131 (permalink)
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Old 07-28-2013, 11:31 PM   #132 (permalink)
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Yes it is but I'd honestly freak out if my boyfriend let it rain! I can't imagine a Russian crying for some reason.
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Old 07-28-2013, 11:33 PM   #133 (permalink)
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crying isnt a good idea unless its in private. last time i cried was a few yrs ago when one of my dogs had to be put down kinda of unexpectedly cause it hit me kinda hard. but that was in private.

unless its at a funeral or something. i think guys should keep those emotions in private cause i think guys need to be strong when others are weak
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Old 07-28-2013, 11:36 PM   #134 (permalink)
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crying isnt a good idea unless its in private. last time i cried was a few yrs ago when one of my dogs had to be put down kinda of unexpectedly cause it hit me kinda hard. but that was in private.

unless its at a funeral or something. i think guys should keep those emotions in private cause i think guys need to be strong when others are weak
So by others you mean women? That's a little rough.
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Old 07-28-2013, 11:39 PM   #135 (permalink)
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So by others you mean women? That's a little rough.
no, well kinda i guess


if everyone is breakin down the man needs to be the one who is strong and hold down the fort. be the keystone and hold things together in times of turmoil. if everything else goes wrong the man has to be accepting of the pressure and responsibility to be strong in the face of anything. thats what ive always believed
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Old 07-28-2013, 11:43 PM   #136 (permalink)
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no, well kinda i guess


if everyone is breakin down the man needs to be the one who is strong and hold down the fort. be the keystone and hold things together in times of turmoil. if everything else goes wrong the man has to be accepting of the pressure and responsibility to be strong in the face of anything. thats what ive always believed
My dad is like that. Although I have made him cry, it was a total overreaction, I posted a picture on here when I was 18 with my Aunty and she found it and thought people would be able to suddenly know her address and come stalk her! So dad got really upset thinking that the world had ended because of a photo.

I understand what you're saying about men, but I guess it depends on the situation.
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thats pretty funny lol. my brothers and myself learned that attitude from my father and it served us well. i think if a man is showing fear or weakness then it sets a bad example for his family if hes being a pussy. i might feel afraid or weak but i wont show it in front of others because if i would it would only make the ppl around me who depend on me more afraid. men should be protectors in my opinion. thats why i hate all these emo guys and hipsters cause they seem like pussies to me (even tho i do listen to emo music which is kinda ironic i think))
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Old 07-29-2013, 12:39 AM   #138 (permalink)
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thats pretty funny lol. my brothers and myself learned that attitude from my father and it served us well. i think if a man is showing fear or weakness then it sets a bad example for his family if hes being a pussy. i might feel afraid or weak but i wont show it in front of others because if i would it would only make the ppl around me who depend on me more afraid. men should be protectors in my opinion. thats why i hate all these emo guys and hipsters cause they seem like pussies to me (even tho i do listen to emo music which is kinda ironic i think))
I understand, I think its an unfair thing though that men think they need to be unemotional etc. I think women should be strong for their men when its necessary because guys do have emotions, suffer from depression and experience loss.

My boyfriend told me off yesterday saying he has emotions too, but I was too busy looking at how pretty he is! *swoon*
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What is this macho bullshit going on in this thread right now? Women can't be strong?
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What is this macho bullshit going on in this thread right now? Women can't be strong?
way to turn it into some kinda feminists issue or something


men need to be strong. you cant expect a woman to be strong. they might be and thats good but you shouldnt expect it because like i said, men should be strong when others can't be. its about stepping up to the plate when you need to. women are more likely to be outwardly emotional, its better to compliment each other instead of being the same
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