Yeah, you're absolutely right. Honestly I've been holding back from saying I love him because it's only been 3 months together and I don't know whether I will be with him again or not. I am going to keep in touch with him as much as I can and just play the waiting game. Thanks for that Fred, I really need help to control my emotions.

Come on now: you're not seriously suggesting he's brain-damaged are you? I mean, that would be the only explanation that a guy would not wait six short months to ensure he ended up with you. Hell, I'd wait six years!

I suppose all I can say is keep in touch with him, and if he sounds like he's cooling off then maybe begin to rethink it. If a few thousand miles can let the flame go out then it really sounds like he's not the guy for you.

Although, if you were to go to Europe you'd be that much closer to Ireland...

I guess in the end just remember we're all here for you Jess and certainly in my case don't be afraid to wear my ears/fingers out. SKYPE, PM, email or hell, catch a raven and send him over here: I'll always be here for you.

Sure, we all will, right guys?
Now let's all join hands and --- hey! Where are you all going?

You've only been going out for three months? Giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirl, you need a kick in the head. Deciding on where in the world you're going to live based on a three month relationship is kind of ludicrous. It's probably best that you consider this two ships passing in the night and just enjoy it for what it was.

A fling?

I suppose it's only technically a fling if it was assumed that it would end from the beginning, but same difference in the end I guess.

vanilla if u play the waitin game you two wont work out i think. if u want somethin u gotta be aggressive and vocal.

never told anyone this on here



had a 'fling' with a girl one time and she already had plans to move for a job. so i moved with her halfway across the usa to a piece of crap called missouri. but then things didnt work out down the road so i just moved back towards the east coast


so anyways thats not a very good story to encurage u but i still think u should just be like hey i really like u and ur a rare person so lets move somewhere together before its too late

Vanilla, I've got a question. Did you know he was leaving before you got together?

I too have a question: did he ever say he loved you?

theres no way, u gotta use context clues man

My question was directed at Vanilla, as was BD's, thus the "I also have a question"...