He's never been in a relationship.. that's not how it works. All she did was ask.

Is this the full story? Cause it really didn't change my mind. I'm sorry you never put your foot down, but committing to something and then bailing is lame, especially with your significant other. You should have said no in the first place. I'd be on your side if you said no to begin with and she had a hissy fit.

I said no then yes then no. The only reason I changed to yes was her trying to guilt trip as usual. It's fine you can take her side all you want.

Reneging on a snow storm laundry date does not in any way sound like a dick move. It just sounds like common sense. Or at least like something that a normal person would do cause they don't want to go out into a snow storm.

I mean if a buddy asked me if I wanted to help him do something as dumb as laundry when there was snow on the ground and I just said yeah not thinking about it, but then I went out to smoke a cig and realized I was not about to do that, then I'd have to be a moron to go ahead and do it just cause I said I would. We're not talking about a business arrangement. We're talking about laundry.

I will :D

Next time just say no to begin with, don't let her walk all over ya. Being guilted into ish is nonsense. I'd call her ass out on it.

It would be grand if a certain member of my household could go one night without waking me up (and leaving messes in the kitchen) repeatedly, seeing as I have to work early in the mornings and he does not. I already cook, clean and care for my younger brother two weeks out of the month; I do not have the energy to do so for yet another full-grown man (who is perfectly capable). Maybe I would if I were able to get more than a few hours of sleep per night. This seems to be my lifelong curse-- ending up living with people who are complete and utter tornadoes with no consideration whatsoever. I don't know why I even bother doing certain things when there is never any reciprocation.

I wish the store would give me more hours, (around my schedule constraints) because being in this house for too long each day might make me spontaneously burst into flames at any moment.

My suggestion: Stop cleaning. Maybe you'll be so torn about it that you'll do it in your sleep without realizing just like you did with cheese. :D You would be the ultimate multitasker.

One can hope! I've done stranger things in my sleep.

I once woke up to find that I had smeared my own feces all over the wall next to my bed. I was six but I still check the walls every time I wake up in the morning.

I once fell asleep while listening to Transvision Vamp, and woke up with a bee on my face. I guess it was the universe's way of punishing me for listening to Transvision Vamp. :laughing:

..Or maybe the bee also wanted to listen to Transvision Vamp?