The Bitch Box

PoorOldPo · 03-08-2013, 07:27 AM

I thought south london was posh? Ish? Or am i wrong? Im probably wrong.

The Batlord · 03-08-2013, 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

I've actually never had a proper boyfriend and don't really know how relationships 'work' shall we say. I'm ridiculously independent and generally can't be bothered with people. Which I think is bad, I think I have commitment issues haha.

It's not just you. I have no idea how I would ever be able to share a life with someone like that. Like, you want me to not only keep informed of my life but to make you a part of it and make decisions with you about it? Weird.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 03-08-2013, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

Maybe it's a good thing you're single, it'll give you plenty of time to sift through all the arseholes.

I've actually never had a proper boyfriend and don't really know how relationships 'work' shall we say. I'm ridiculously independent and generally can't be bothered with people. Which I think is bad, I think I have commitment issues haha.

Lmao, I'm the same, and all the other boyfriends I've had have taken it personally and couldn't deal with my independence or the fact I would never "need" them. I don't know why that was such a big deal but a lot of them have held onto it and held it up to mean I didn't love them because I could never need them which confuses the hell out of me, because I don't need anyone but myself but surely choosing to be with someone rather than being codependent is more loving...? I don't know, it always made me feel trapped. A lot of them seem to think I'm actually really a damsel in distress for them to save which is pretty much the exact opposite of the person I am...

Idk how to describe how it was different with him, but it just was. We complemented each other too well to make me feel smothered and he clearly saw me as more than just someone who loved him/he loved which most seem to never truly do. He truly was my other half.

~~Cuthbert~~ · 03-08-2013, 10:47 AM

Has anyone not got anything for Mother's Day yet?

Hate these stupid days but if you don't get anything you look like a knob. Fuck sake.

FETCHER. · 03-08-2013, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart

(Falls over in shock!)

I've literally only ever been taken on one date.

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Originally Posted by Rjinn

I think I've found my twin sister.

I would love to be your twin, we could not give a **** about each other lovingly.

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

It's not just you. I have no idea how I would ever be able to share a life with someone like that. Like, you want me to not only keep informed of my life but to make you a part of it and make decisions with you about it? Weird.

Yeah the whole idea confuses me, I rarely text and I'm a complete **** to try and get ahold of on a phone so someone constantly wanting to talk to me etc just isn't going to happen.

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Originally Posted by Hermione

Lmao, I'm the same, and all the other boyfriends I've had have taken it personally and couldn't deal with my independence or the fact I would never "need" them. I don't know why that was such a big deal but a lot of them have held onto it and held it up to mean I didn't love them because I could never need them which confuses the hell out of me, because I don't need anyone but myself but surely choosing to be with someone rather than being codependent is more loving...? I don't know, it always made me feel trapped. A lot of them seem to think I'm actually really a damsel in distress for them to save which is pretty much the exact opposite of the person I am...

Idk how to describe how it was different with him, but it just was. We complemented each other too well to make me feel smothered and he clearly saw me as more than just someone who loved him/he loved which most seem to never truly do. He truly was my other half.

Yeah that's so true, I don't need anyone except myself. I've never actually been in a relationship but I could imagine that they would moan about me not loving them and other stuff that would bug me

So if you guys were so good, what happened?

CLOSER · 03-08-2013, 11:20 AM

I'm trying to watch Judge Mathis on WSBK and it's playing some soap opera.... absolutely livid.. the TV listings says it should be 3 straight hours of people's court shows... #*$(!))$$$@@# I want to punch this actress in the throat...

Edit: It's Young and the Restless I saw the two old school couples in the next scene..

Burning Down · 03-08-2013, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

Maybe it's a good thing you're single, it'll give you plenty of time to sift through all the arseholes.

I've actually never had a proper boyfriend and don't really know how relationships 'work' shall we say. I'm ridiculously independent and generally can't be bothered with people. Which I think is bad, I think I have commitment issues haha.

I was the same way and then I stopped worrying about it and met somebody.

LoathsomePete · 03-08-2013, 01:05 PM

There's some landscaping work being done just outside my office and the sound of one of the machines is akin to my ear canal being raped by a man wearing a sandpaper condom.

Nurse Duckett · 03-08-2013, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by LoathsomePete

There's some landscaping work being done just outside my office and the sound of one of the machines is akin to my ear canal being raped by a man wearing a sandpaper condom.

Is it a pleasant experience? I only ask because it isn't obvious from your post.

LoathsomePete · 03-08-2013, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Nurse Duckett

Is it a pleasant experience? I only ask because it isn't obvious from your post.

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03-08-2013, 07:27 AM	#11211 (permalink)
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~~Cuthbert~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: The Black Country Posts: 8,827	Has anyone not got anything for Mother's Day yet? Hate these stupid days but if you don't get anything you look like a knob. Fuck sake.

03-08-2013, 11:20 AM	#11216 (permalink)
CLOSER Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 113	I'm trying to watch Judge Mathis on WSBK and it's playing some soap opera.... absolutely livid.. the TV listings says it should be 3 straight hours of people's court shows... #*$(!))$$$@@# I want to punch this actress in the throat... Edit: It's Young and the Restless I saw the two old school couples in the next scene..