I usually never think about sex when I'm talking to a girl (I have self control which is apparently rare in guys in my age group).

yep
i got somewhat good self control on the subject but my mind wonders

yea so far a lot of the advice is....eh........

and yea...self control is good.
of course that may also be a lack of sex drive. i've never thought about having sex with a girl i actually liked.....

i think you should just be direct and refrain from being ambiguous as much as possible. you cant do much more than be honest about ur feelings. as far as i can tell (since pretty much the majority of my friends are girls) girls dont like not being able to tell what you're thinking.

of course....in a lot of ways my way probably wont end up helping u much....because i refuse to act in any different way around girls i like, except i'm a little nicer. i use asking girls out as a way of simply moving forward somehow, whether it means getting over them or dating them.

I'd rather have a lack of a sexdrive then be an *******

damn my internet...i accidentally posted the same thing again....
yea...its always bettter to be a good kid. altho it gets me nowhere
i'm that kid that girls trust but would never date.

anyhow...good luck to you man.

omg...i got this idea WAAAY too late
and i swear to god i will do it when i ask someone to prom

anyways
my brilliant idea is
record a bunch of songs onto a CD
one of them (either the first or last one) will be a love song
and at the very end of the song u'll ask her out.
then u give her the cd and ask her what she thinks

.....someone probably beat me to this idea though......damnit....

I'd think I'd do that when I've been going out with someone for a while.

:rofl:super cheesy

Just fucking talk to her.
Fuck all the advice.
Fuck all the cheesy shit.
Just fucking talk to her.
As long as your friend is cool with it, what do you have to lose? Wasting your time thinking about what to do is just going to make it seem fake. Forget everything said in this thread and go talk to her. If you spend to much time thinking about it, you'll puss out. The worst outcome is her saying no.