girl help
 

There is this one girl I like but I'm not sure what to say to her (cause I'm not all that great at talking to girls I like) and im not sure if I should even ask her out because she is my friends sister. Some suggestions would be greatly appreciated (please keep them serious)

Talk to your friend about it.

Do what your avatar shows......my brother has a knack for dating his friends sisters so I'll ask him.

just talk to her about anything. Dont be creepy about it just when evry you find a change to talk to her take it. Then ask her out.

I'm sure your sister will be pissed but who cares.

Talk, joke, flower, romance.

Get's me everytime.

Unless you want to lose your friend, talk to him first. Then just be yourself, anything else is destined to fail.

Won't it be awkward with you're friend after you sleep with his sister?....

I did'nt say sister's friend if I did then I'd be a pedifile cause her and her friends are like 7 years younger then me.But anyways thenks for the help :o:

don't know if I'd sleep with her though im not actually an adult.

Listen to crappy britpop so she'll think you're sensitive.

Or you could just ask her to a movie kinda nonchalantly. Don't make a big deal about it and start talking to her a lot to see if she is interested....

Well this is all after you talk to your friend and make sure it's cool.

Find a date that your friend has to do something on, and ask if he and his sister want to go to a movie with you, just a group thing. When your friend says he has something to do nonchalantly comment that the sister probably doesn't want to go with you alone.

lol....I kinda already do but not much

That might work...........

I'm not sure what he'll say but I'm running scenarios in my head right now so I'll think of something eventually.......

...Points at post.

start doing some heavy lifting.......
then kick some guys a'ss right in front of her.........
then ride off on your Harley.......
if she shows interest, then
show her you're a real man,
take her out hunting,
and kill something,
a deer, a squirrel, a rabbit,
then drink a beer, and smash the can over your forehead,
chiks seems to like that sort of thing

if I was a redneck maybe......:rofl:

Well, if she's not like that..........
then trust me dude, she's one in a million,
if you live in the U.S., that is

I guess you could say that......

pee on her. thats' always an icebreaker

i agree but while you are doing it stare at her like your picture, and make sure to only shake once because anymore would be playing with yourself, and that would make that situation weird.

On a more serious note, i would talk to your friend first because to be honest, their is a reason that you are his friend, he likes you and thinks your cool. IMO i would much rather have my sister dating a guy i know and like, but at the end of the day honesty is the best thing tell her how you feel, dont keep it in.

Don't listen to him! I did that, and I ain't gettin past the friend stage :(

Seriously... If you've seen that movie Just Friends you know what I'm talkin about.

find out about a party and get invited...have your own if you must.

ask her to go.

when you find her there, flirt outrageously with her and make your move.

if there's alcohol involved things will be much easier.

tried and tested.

scumbag

i'm sorry i have no morals :(

I don't think it makes him a scumbag. He never said go and have sex with her drunkenly. What if he wanted to go have some tea with her and listen to some soft jazz?

I don't know why you're making a deal of it being your friends sister.

That should work it your favour , not against it.

If I was the friend I'd be happy for one of my friends to date my sister. Because I know if he messes her around I know exactly where he lives.

^^ yeah ;)

The alcohol makes it easier for YOU to actually make the move. If it leads to drunken sex, then that's what you both wanted so deal with it or stop drinking. If there's no sex, well lets assume you're at least making out, which is more than likely if you're cool and say the right things. Get her number at the end of the night and arrange to meet up at a later date. It's not actually that difficult...especially if there's alcohol involved :)

Politely take your friend aside and ask him how he'd feel if you gave his sister a Cleveland Steamer, that outta break the ice nicely

I'm only 17 guys.....I mean some of this stuff i won't do ti'll im atleast 21

You should definitely pee on a girl before you're 21.

just be nice to her, hangout with her do what she wants to do, but dont like let her consume your life. just talk to her i geuss is the best help i can give here

if you get choked up just try and think of something else

something you enjoy alot( NOT SEX THIS WILL PROBALLY CHOKE YOU UP MORE) just brighten your preoccupy yourmind a bit

oo and about the brother get him drunk if hes a nice drunk and calmly say that you really like her not you want his permission not that you wanna date just that you care for her

I usually never think about sex when I'm talking to a girl (I have self control which is apparently rare in guys in my age group).

yep
i got somewhat good self control on the subject but my mind wonders

yea so far a lot of the advice is....eh........

and yea...self control is good.
of course that may also be a lack of sex drive. i've never thought about having sex with a girl i actually liked.....

i think you should just be direct and refrain from being ambiguous as much as possible. you cant do much more than be honest about ur feelings. as far as i can tell (since pretty much the majority of my friends are girls) girls dont like not being able to tell what you're thinking.

of course....in a lot of ways my way probably wont end up helping u much....because i refuse to act in any different way around girls i like, except i'm a little nicer. i use asking girls out as a way of simply moving forward somehow, whether it means getting over them or dating them.

I'd rather have a lack of a sexdrive then be an *******

damn my internet...i accidentally posted the same thing again....
yea...its always bettter to be a good kid. altho it gets me nowhere
i'm that kid that girls trust but would never date.

anyhow...good luck to you man.

omg...i got this idea WAAAY too late
and i swear to god i will do it when i ask someone to prom

anyways
my brilliant idea is
record a bunch of songs onto a CD
one of them (either the first or last one) will be a love song
and at the very end of the song u'll ask her out.
then u give her the cd and ask her what she thinks

.....someone probably beat me to this idea though......damnit....

I'd think I'd do that when I've been going out with someone for a while.

:rofl:super cheesy

Just fucking talk to her.
Fuck all the advice.
Fuck all the cheesy shit.
Just fucking talk to her.
As long as your friend is cool with it, what do you have to lose? Wasting your time thinking about what to do is just going to make it seem fake. Forget everything said in this thread and go talk to her. If you spend to much time thinking about it, you'll puss out. The worst outcome is her saying no.