Plays off something that happened in the thread only a few pages ago, would have been a quality meta joke. Missed your chance

Ssri's **** with my libido.

In a good or bad or weird way?

Ween smasher!

In a bad way. Although I can't blame it all on the Prozac, it's a combo of that, stress, schedules, life, etc.

I take those goddamn dick softeners

I found that making time for intimacy with comfort and affection as the primary goal with the attitude that if coitus happens it happens has led to some great ****ing and to some great not ****ing. Sometimes with really intense orgasms on both sides and sometimes to surprising satisfying non-orgasmic sessions

FWIW

Definitely, that's my approach as well. It's just hard to adjust to needing to put in all the extra effort, especially because it doesn't always feel like a worthwhile endeavor. I'm stuck in a loop of wondering if my relationship is suffering because of the sex, or if the sex is causing issues within the relationship.

Try not to lose the following things:

Loving physical affection
Some social life
An income
Relationship with music and literature (for someone like you, at least)

Those are things that can leave a dangerous void

Sometimes these things can slip away. I’m not saying hold on at ALL cost just hold on best you can

My advice = Grain of salt (maybe)

Probably not the same thing but my last relationship ended almost a year after the last time there was any sex involved. I know it's sad.