Originally Posted by bob_32_116 (Post 2189537)

I have been on sites that cater for both men and women, straight, gay or in between, and if the comments of the female members are anything to go by, it seems that most of the women have a very different mentality from gay men regarding this sort of thing.

Originally Posted by bob_32_116 (Post 2189537)

I have been on sites that cater for both men and women, straight, gay or in between, and if the comments of the female members are anything to go by, it seems that most of the women have a very different mentality from gay men regarding this sort of thing.

For some of those ladies, sending a private message of ANY sort, without first engaging in lots of chat in the public arena, and saying "Oh would you mind if I communicated with you via a private message" is considered a gross violation of standards. Complaints to the admin, along the lines of "I don't know this person, and he contacted me via my private inbox!" have been known to occur. We are not talking about unsolicited pictures of genitals here; even a friendly message of hello is seen as "creepy" and "stalking". Perhaps they are like this because they had bad experiences in the past, but whatever the reason, it makes me wonder how some of them actually manage to form any kind of acquaintance on those sites, and indeed to wonder why they are there in the first place.

Originally Posted by adidasss (Post 2189543)

I know, I was joking. ;)

Actually, when I was on gay dating apps, I didn't much appreciate receiving pictures of private parts either. I didn't find it offensive or creepy, I just found it silly. I don't know who would be induced to sleep with you just based on how your dick looks like, but I guess it works for some people, otherwise they wouldn't be doing it.

Originally Posted by bob_32_116 (Post 2189537)

I have been on sites that cater for both men and women, straight, gay or in between, and if the comments of the female members are anything to go by, it seems that most of the women have a very different mentality from gay men regarding this sort of thing.

For some of those ladies, sending a private message of ANY sort, without first engaging in lots of chat in the public arena, and saying "Oh would you mind if I communicated with you via a private message" is considered a gross violation of standards. Complaints to the admin, along the lines of "I don't know this person, and he contacted me via my private inbox!" have been known to occur. We are not talking about unsolicited pictures of genitals here; even a friendly message of hello is seen as "creepy" and "stalking". Perhaps they are like this because they had bad experiences in the past, but whatever the reason, it makes me wonder how some of them actually manage to form any kind of acquaintance on those sites, and indeed to wonder why they are there in the first place.

Originally Posted by Avante (Post 2191267)

Happened back in my navy days, met a girl at the Barbarella Club in Singapore, so after a few drinks a few dances it was off to her place.

After the fireworks and off to sleep I feel a tap on my shoulder, there she stands over me. Hold it, there she lays beside me, yep......twin sister. So she takes my hand and off to her room we go....