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Thanks for the advice. I've heard it all, to be honest. I just need more practice, as you said.

And to fap less often. :banghead:


























no, **** that.

fap?

Masturbating.

Ah. I've never heard that term before. Thanks. I love new words.

No problem. I also learned it recently as a testament of how often I surf the net.

Welcome to the intrenets.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Haha I love how you made my name suddenly represent my sexual behaviour! So do vanilla people like sex on film?

:laughing: yes, we've all been there!

I can finish more than once so it doesn't worry me, but if I get tired I would definitely make an effort. Which leeds to my question, in all honesty, can you guys really go for that long? Maybe it's Kiwi guys that are lazy but you're lucky if you get one that can for an hour.

That position is amazing, everyone needs to adopt that one. I also really love it when you're lying down on the edge of the bed with your legs up and the guys standing in front of you doing it like that. For some reason it really gets into the right pleasure region. :D

I'm quoting this. :laughing:

You're all perverts.

Heathens!!

Can I just say:

I'm not an experienced gynaecologist but I will have a good look at it for you :D

To me, above all else, sex should be a mutual connection and experience. I don't see it as a "trade of orgasms" or anything of that nature because I think that misses the underlying intent. It's a mutual form of expression and passion. I think so much of it is about communication and the overall mood and atmosphere.

I don't like the fact that a lot of people just see it as an opportunity to get themselves off, because to me, that's the furthest thing from what it's really about. I guess it helps that I personally enjoy pleasing, and I enjoy listening and paying attention to my partner to see what is best for them.

I won't go into too much detail in this post about what specifically I like, dislike and what not, but I think it's all the little things that make the sex good. You can't just thrust away for 15 minutes and hope you do your job; you have to pay attention to small details, use your imagination and keep it interesting. You have to really explore the other person, whether it be with your hands, finger tips, lips, tongue, whatever. You have to really listen to the other person, and see what makes them tick because everyone is different. You have to be very responsive, because that person will give hints, even simple through body language or breathing, to what they like.

I also personally feel I'm quite open, and have no problems being adventurous about it, but would never push anything on the other person that they wouldn't want because I respect their wishes; it is their body after all, not mine. As long as it doesn't involve some form of bodily waste, I'm probably willing to go with it. If nothing else, it will provide me with some new, interesting experience.

I think I have more to say on this whole matter, so I'll post again soon, but that's all that came to my mind at the moment.

Edit - Also, just in case anyone has any ideas, I'm not a woman.

yes, yes, and yes exactly.

I spy so much inexperience in this thread I feel like John Holmes :D

Most of us are also younger than you, Lee :(

and more virile. :D

:laughing:

Not a chance. I can give furniture orgasms just by sitting on it :D

:bowdown: jackhammer, you are my idol:D

I think girls who masturbate are disgusting. Maybe it's a double standard, but I think it's more of a guy thing. Lmfao. It suits them better somehow. But I love pleasing a guy just because of the looks he is capable of giving. And from those, I find it enjoyable. Not only that, it is a sort of give and take situation. In the end, I love when a guy just lays on top of me. I find it comfy and sexy. :D

you are on your own here!

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Women touching themselves look hotter than men. For men it's such a derivative motion!

I think girls who say they don't masturbate are dishonest.

c'mon...we can see you all crossing your legs and going up and down all day long...what do you think we're stupid...you enjoy it as much as men do...

I can honestly say I never have. I can't bring myself to do it. I have a boyfriend for that.

This is going to sound terrible, but bear with me - how old are you?

Just turned 17.

I felt like that when I became a non-virgin.
Now, I just like to ****.

but what about having sex with another woman? what say you? every girl I asked said the idea is disgusting...and I don't mean just any woman...let's say Monica Bellucci

oh honey,...you'll grow out of it then

i've found the more comfortable i've become with my body, the more i enjoy masturbation
its a great way to tap into your own fantasizes and learn what your body reacts too

my only complaint is its hard to give myself multiples

Have you had a bf since you were 14 or 15 ish?

aka - have you been sexually active for those years and on?

No offense, I think alot of you just dont get out enough. Shooot Im a big ass nerd, but I like to party. Some of ya should get off the comp once in a while and meets some of the opposite sex. Sleep with someone you just met, without any emotional attachment. Then come back and express your views in a couple years.

Spark: Never with another girl. No thank you. But I don't think I ever will masturbate just because I've never done it before, why would I in the future?

uhhh i'm tryin not to do that anymore

if thats how youre gonna look at sex,....man its a long boring road for you

easier said than done, sir.

Yeah maybe it comes with age....

Yeah, same here I had my time and learned alot, but doing the whole settle down thing now.

Sex will never be boring for me. Masturbation just doesn't do it for me. I need a guy for the wheels to start turning in other words. There is sooo much more you can do.

But theres not always a guy around...

In my case woman.

If there is no guy around, then I need to find something else to do.