well it's not so much raping that she is into but just some rough sex. I think people blur the two lines easily.

extremely rough sex anyway - I would be slapping her silly and she would scratch at my face

meh I wouldn't consider that extreme

it's only extreme if there is blood involved

allright. I have some questions for the girls here.
Or actually, my ex has these questions and asked me to ask them to my female friends as she hasn't got the guts. I might as well ask it here.
So, if my ex had nothing else to do, she would prefer to have sex about three times a day.
She has sex about one time a day when her boyfriend is over.
She wonders how many sex other girls would want to have a day/week/whatever, if there was no reason not to have sex (so don't include school, work, spare time in your answer).
She also wonders how often you actually do end up having sex.
And then she wonders how many of you lay on the couch or bed together just to cuddle, with no other reason than cuddling (it doesn't matter if this leads to sex, it just shouldn't be the initial idea).

I asked this to a friend of mine when I was at her place last monday and it turned out she'd have sex all day and is always ready to go. Unless she's on the pill. Then she'll only have sex ''about two times a day''. Came as a surprise for me. She never talks about sex. Ah well, it's nice to know :)

Obviously I'm not a female but that question varies from girl to girl. I would believe. You can't really get a general consensus because every girl is different. Some enjoy sex more than others.

it all has to do with their sex drive level.

I also have come to believe that when women hit their sexual peak in their 30s that's when their sex drive increases as long as they don't have too many things in their life stressing them out.

nah, no blood

she'd only draw blood during normal intercourse, by raking my back with her fingernails, this is coupled with the fact I have very sensitive skin

You think that girls who enjoy rape fantasies only do so because they don't realise how awful an experience actually being raped is?

This was sarcastic in some way, right?

if my gf it anything to go by, she'd happily have sex three, four times a day if we had the time. We'd generally have sex at least once a day when together, unless one of us is completely shattered as a result of work or something's happened so we're not in the right mood (which is rare). However, we'd frequently cuddle together without any intention of it moving on to sex.

If you're comfortable with the person, in love even, the experience can be amazing. It's the loss of control, the loss of the "Oh baby, did I hurt you?" And that all comes after, and it's 10x stronger than it is every other day. Nobody is joking about it or making light of it, I'm sure every girl with that fantasy is aware that what they're doing is not at all like what actually happens. As long as the girl isn't going around saying "Hahahaha I would love to be raped!" then there isn't really a problem.
Like I said, it can bring two people closer. I'm all about letting go, I'm all about getting close enough to a person when I love them or want to be with them that I can see and feel and know their innermost desires when we're having sex.

I don't really see how a rape fantasy differs all that much from really rough sex where the girl basically just lets the guy destroy her. Can someone who has done the rape fantasy thing explain to me how, or if, it really even differs from rough sex.