Her response was "this is the only way I get off"...like being a starfish was her "thing".

Come on now...if I was dating someone and there were issues in the bedroom, I have no issues discussing them.

One thing I hate is dudes who can't eat me right. Like its not that hard.... So I end up steering them by their ears and ****ing their faces to come.

It's a lack of observation. Girl makes noise...continue what you are doing. Girl stops making noise...do something else. Repeat and throw a finger in the mix and BAM. You got a straight man's mustache.

And don't bite or suck too hard. Men don't realise how sensitive the clit is

What if a girl likes biting?

Mention it...seriously, the only times I've had issues going down was when the girl didn't communicate. It can just be noises like I mentioned, or you can seriously just go "bite it"...eventually the guy should get good enough to where you don't have to orchestrate everything, but communication is key.

That's fine but like a lot of dudes are way too rough on the clit. Not all ladies are the same of course :)

What's really painful to me is when they try to touch it after I've already come, I have to push their faces away, it hurts soooo much

I always give explicit instructions or move them how I want them.

Yeah I guess it's just like, ughhhhh do something else for a minute please, lol.

Your biggest sex organ is the brain, so communication helps everybody get over their mental blocks and onto the same page about stuff. Which results in better sex.

I don't have a clitoris, but I can imagine that being the female equivalent of somebody being rough with your bell-end after you have jizzed.

Except it's a lot more sensitive than the head of a penis