those nostrils look comfy.

and if none of them seem to suit you, there's no shame in making your own.

Unlike the trach.

why wait till you're broken up?

Veridical:
Thanks, and to answer your lolipop question - I think some guys like it. I don't think it's effective if you do it the WHOLE time, but it definitely adds a little variety. I like to lick it when I'm starting a blow job. It's important (to me, anyway) to lube it up well, so I'm not dryly dragging my lips on your shaft. Also, I like to use my hands, too, towards the end, and sometimes I have to do a little licking to lube it up. OK, now I feel like I'm getting too graphic.

Royg:
You don't have a problem with what? Having a great sex with a woman, or telling the public you're not a big fan of sex? I have a feeling you might be guilty of both. : P

Pobody:
Yes, I think it's pretty rude to deny you of an orgasm after you've worked that hard, but I do not see sex has an exchange of orgasms. Coming from a girl who really didn't come the first couple years of sex, I almost find more pleasure in, well, pleasuring. Don't get me wrong, there are times where I just want to get mine and roll over, but I also think sex is about experimenting, exploring human anatomy and connection.

Not enough detail.

And... kinda. I don't have a problem with having great sex with a woman (I used to - it's gotten better), but I do have a problem telling people that I'm not a big fan of sex. I mean people I see physically. It's a different story in the internet - nobody cares : P

I tell people that all the time. Its not that im not a big fan, Im just too damn lazy and dont want to perform subpar.
When I was a party animal and it came down to getting it on with a girl or getting so effed up I didnt know my name...I was anonymous.

First of all, put your **** away. :P You set yourself up for that one.

Yeah, I can imagine why you don't want to tell people around you that you're not a big fan of sex. What a hell of a rep that would be! And you're right, no one on here really cares, just curious, I suppose. I want to know why besides "it's too much work".

Guilty! :wave: (what's the other hand doing?)

Anyway... why I'm not a big fan of sex is because I prefer blowjobs, handjobs, and for my partner - going down on and fingering her. Having tried 69 yet, but I imagine I'd love that.

The reason for that is that when I first started having sex, I was so nervous I couldn't keep it hard and it would slip out or sometimes not go in at all, which was frustrating for everybody. Also, when I was in, I was usually at the bottom and I was kind of out of shape so I couldn't thrust up for long. If I was on top, I got bored (I prefer reaching up and grabbing breast than stretching and doing the same - I'm a breast man). It's not longer as big a problem as it used to be (though I always get nervous with new partners).

The compromise when I was on top was to get her legs up so that she was aiming up and it was easier access for me and the breasts were also easy to grab.

The reason why I like grabbing breasts during sex is because I have a short attention span and so if all I'm doing is thrusting I get bored and down goes the spear (sorry, I'm sure there are better phallic objects I could've used there).

And that's why "it's too much work" for me and why I'm not a big fan. Unfortunately, blowjobs and handjobs and everything else get tiring if that's all we're doing, so eventually sex is part of it all over again.

Ah, I see. Legit excuses for a beginner. ;) You can solve this though with practice, my friend. One of the first things you should do is enjoy yourself and try to relax. Foreplay is sometimes crucial to get things moving along, but if you've experienced the pleasure of in-the-moment, sudden sex, then you know foreplay isn't always necessary. If you haven't tried 69ing, I recommend it before sex. If your problem is visual stimulation, perhaps you should try having some porn on (if the girl doesn't mind). I know that sometimes I get bored with the same routine, and I like some at least playing in the background. As for tips on how to stay hard, you're better off getting advice from a guy. If your attention span is short, maybe you need to switch up positions more often. That or decorate her with shiny objects. ;)