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jackhammer 04-08-2009 05:46 PM

Can I just say:

I'm not an experienced gynaecologist but I will have a good look at it for you :D

Blue 04-08-2009 06:49 PM

To me, above all else, sex should be a mutual connection and experience. I don't see it as a "trade of orgasms" or anything of that nature because I think that misses the underlying intent. It's a mutual form of expression and passion. I think so much of it is about communication and the overall mood and atmosphere.

I don't like the fact that a lot of people just see it as an opportunity to get themselves off, because to me, that's the furthest thing from what it's really about. I guess it helps that I personally enjoy pleasing, and I enjoy listening and paying attention to my partner to see what is best for them.

I won't go into too much detail in this post about what specifically I like, dislike and what not, but I think it's all the little things that make the sex good. You can't just thrust away for 15 minutes and hope you do your job; you have to pay attention to small details, use your imagination and keep it interesting. You have to really explore the other person, whether it be with your hands, finger tips, lips, tongue, whatever. You have to really listen to the other person, and see what makes them tick because everyone is different. You have to be very responsive, because that person will give hints, even simple through body language or breathing, to what they like.

I also personally feel I'm quite open, and have no problems being adventurous about it, but would never push anything on the other person that they wouldn't want because I respect their wishes; it is their body after all, not mine. As long as it doesn't involve some form of bodily waste, I'm probably willing to go with it. If nothing else, it will provide me with some new, interesting experience.

I think I have more to say on this whole matter, so I'll post again soon, but that's all that came to my mind at the moment.

Edit - Also, just in case anyone has any ideas, I'm not a woman.

SATCHMO 04-08-2009 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Blue (Post 632980)
To me, above all else, sex should be a mutual connection and experience. I don't see it as a "trade of orgasms" or anything of that nature because I think that misses the underlying intent. It's a mutual form of expression and passion. I think so much of it is about communication and the overall mood and atmosphere.

I don't like the fact that a lot of people just see it as an opportunity to get themselves off, because to me, that's the furthest thing from what it's really about. I guess it helps that I personally enjoy pleasing, and I enjoy listening and paying attention to my partner to see what is best for them.

I won't go into too much detail in this post about what specifically I like, dislike and what not, but I think it's all the little things that make the sex good. You can't just thrust away for 15 minutes and hope you do your job; you have to pay attention to small details, use your imagination and keep it interesting. You have to really explore the other person, whether it be with your hands, finger tips, lips, tongue, whatever. You have to really listen to the other person, and see what makes them tick because everyone is different. You have to be very responsive, because that person will give hints, even simple through body language or breathing, to what they like.

yes, yes, and yes exactly.

jackhammer 04-08-2009 07:09 PM

I spy so much inexperience in this thread I feel like John Holmes :D

Roygbiv 04-08-2009 07:21 PM

Most of us are also younger than you, Lee :(

lucifer_sam 04-08-2009 07:30 PM

and more virile. :D

Roygbiv 04-08-2009 07:32 PM

:laughing:

jackhammer 04-08-2009 07:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lucifer_sam (Post 633012)
and more virile. :D

Not a chance. I can give furniture orgasms just by sitting on it :D

spark10036 04-08-2009 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jackhammer (Post 633017)
Not a chance. I can give furniture orgasms just by sitting on it :D

:bowdown: jackhammer, you are my idol:D

SydMM 04-08-2009 07:46 PM

I think girls who masturbate are disgusting. Maybe it's a double standard, but I think it's more of a guy thing. Lmfao. It suits them better somehow. But I love pleasing a guy just because of the looks he is capable of giving. And from those, I find it enjoyable. Not only that, it is a sort of give and take situation. In the end, I love when a guy just lays on top of me. I find it comfy and sexy. :D


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