Women's orgasms are not as straightforward as a man's. A woman's reproductive system is complex and every woman is different when it comes to what she likes and what works for her. There are women who have never even had a real orgasm before. And there are other women who will go as far as faking orgasms during sex because she knows it will please her partner - so many poor guys walk around thinking they're absolute studs in bed because of this but it's not true.

Thid is such an educational and great post. I find personally that telling a guy what works fpr me (which can vary girl to girl) is more likely to result in orgasm. It's not always easy for some people to be open about it.

Why do you always miss my point. ^everything you said I already know & I agree with, although I hope you know that most men, (well I'll speak for myself) don't care if you're faking it or not. As long as I ***, I'm pretty much satisfied w/ the work I've put in. And if she isn't satisfied I expect her to say something b/c if the situation were reversed, I would complain if I wasn't satisfied. And according to some men they've had to fake it, which I don't believe. B/c even the worst lay gets the job done, so that's a myth as far as I'm concerned.

Now as for that guy's comment, my point was if he hasn't struck gold yet and he's been digging for a while what makes him think he'll strike gold now? or for that matter why not ask the girl you're sleeping with what you need to do to improve b/c at this point if he hasn't hit the jackpot and she's still allowing him to play he should be grateful b/c as far as I'm concerned he'll never win so he might as well enjoy the free play.

because most girls are conditioned to fake it, if we don't make a guy ***, we judge our worth by that. Or so we're socially conditioned to :)

Lol, "conditioned to fake it" smh so now let's blame "conditioning" let me guess by society right (lol) for the fact that according to you women are forced to put their pleasure on the back burner so that I can ***, lol.
Really, it's just sex it's not physics, don't complicate it

Yeah, I agree, that's not a good excuse to be dishonest, but it's understandable, don't you think?

It is hard for me to justify or relate to weakness, so man or women if your partner is not satisfying you I suggest you discuss it with them to improve the situation or end the relaionship. The world is filled w/ billions of people that can easily satisfy your needs so to sit there and endure is weak & 100% not understandable

Not if you don't understand your own weaknesses because you're too busy taking care of other people :)

Lol, you sound like you're speaking from personal experience, I can't relate. I've bailed for less important reasons so I can't imagine dealing w/ a girl that's bad in bed, what would be the point.

And faking it to me makes no sense, it's almost like rape, so why bother

I am talking from personal experience. I guess some of us aren't as lucky to meet someone like you who cares about them enough to care about whether they orgasm or not :)