Originally Posted by xxawwxsugarxx (Post 682717)

You're not doing anything wrong except picking the wrong girls. Don't worry about that, it'll happen in time. It may just be that you're looking for something that causes you to find girls that are already taken.

And WHY DID YOU CUT YOUR HAIR??!?! T.T I liked it like that.

Also, I don't like The Beatles, so that could be another thing that you shouldn't assume. Haha.

Originally Posted by boo boo (Post 682715)

I do know every girl likes The Beatles, and usually Pink Floyd, as I've said before, the DSOTM t shirt is a chick magnet like you wouldn't believe.

I don't know if my lack of a success is because of me, or if it's because every girl I'm remotely interested in has already been taken.

And just about every girl I ever come across has a boyfriend, even if she's ugly as sin, it doesn't matter. I thought there were a lot of single people these days, not in Tennessee apparently.

I don't know what my problem is. I'm nerdy, but I'm not fat, even though I technically should be at this point. I'm not that ugly, I do look like a bit of a hick because I'm missing my right upper lateral incisor tooth. But it's not like I was ladies man before that, or before I started gaining a little weight.

And c'mom, my username, my avatar, my pink LastFm, I own the entire Incubus discography and I'm a Harvest Moon addict. I'm very much in touch with my feminine side. So what am I doing wrong?

I guess because it's in contrast with my rather scruffy Grizzley Adams appearance. But I look different now since those pictures were taken, I lost weight, my hair has been cut to shouder length and I have the thick rimmed glasses now. I might need to lose the beard I guess, so I can really play the "sensitive feminine guy" card, that's what I need to do.

EDIT: That's a blanket, sorry to disappoint.

Originally Posted by dac (Post 682719)

Go to the gym, build self confidence and it just feels good once you get into shape. When faced with a socially challenging situation just say **** it and go for it. You obviously are not happy with your current situation, so you've got nothing to lose my man.

Originally Posted by boo boo (Post 682725)

But in the end, I'm not gonna change who I am, I don't want to, I'm a girly nerd and quite proud of it. I don't want to turn into one of them gym rat alpha male douchebags.

Originally Posted by boo boo (Post 682725)

I wouldn't mind a little more muscle. I've gotten to where I take a walk every day, and I've been sticking to that for several months and I think I have lost weight because of it. I've started doing push ups.

But in the end, I'm not gonna change who I am, I don't want to, I'm a girly nerd and quite proud of it. I don't want to turn into one of them gym rat alpha male douchebags.