I really need your help (shows, quote, artist)

blackTshirt · 01-07-2005, 03:41 PM

don't worry..it's nice to help

even only by typing

MUSE girl · 01-07-2005, 03:44 PM

its just so good to talk to someone new

covle · 01-09-2005, 07:33 AM

my advice would be, dont go asking people on the internet. find someone to talk too properly. people here cant do much, if anything for you. talk to a friend or family or professional about it.

blackTshirt · 01-09-2005, 08:30 AM

haha, in other words, you need special help

jk

Molasses · 01-09-2005, 08:44 AM

Tales from the Trailer strikes back

MUSE girl · 01-10-2005, 01:33 PM

its kinda sorted its self out now anyway

franscar · 01-10-2005, 03:48 PM

That's good to hear.

My ex-girlfriend got herself into a similar situation actually, a while back now. She had been cheating on me for a few months and she finished the relationship, I was totally heartbroken because she was someone I cared for more than anything in the world. A month or so later she told me that she had been expecting my child (pretty big news to me because we'd ALWAYS been careful) and that she had had an abortion. At the time this news totally crushed me, but looking back with the benefit of hindsight, becoming a father at that time would have been unfair on both myself and the child.

It's incredibly important to not be selfish in a situation like this, and think of the other two people involved, in my case the mother of the child, and most importantly, the child itself. I couldn't have given that child the sort of life he or she would deserve, and so I now think it best to wait until I can.

ArtistInTheAmbulance · 01-10-2005, 04:00 PM

^That really sucks. But hey, if I was a guy I dont think I could have thought about that in a positive way at all, so well done.. Man that soudns cheesy and sucky and lame.. Ok so apparently Im no good at talking to people over the internet either.

franscar · 01-10-2005, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

^That really sucks. But hey, if I was a guy I dont think I could have thought about that in a positive way at all, so well done.. Man that soudns cheesy and sucky and lame.. Ok so apparently Im no good at talking to people over the internet either.

Well it took me a VERY long time to look at it like that, during which time I did make my ex's life pretty crappy for "killing our baby", but the water's flowed under the bridge now, and we're both better off for not becoming parents. For a start I'd never have taken her back after the cheating, and from my experience of being a child of a single parent, my mum worked her ass off raising me and my brother, and I don't think I could've put my ex through that.

ArtistInTheAmbulance · 01-10-2005, 04:31 PM

Thats really great. Not the situation, but y'know what I mean, the way you look at it.. I know people that wouldnt care about stuff like this, and I just dont understand how something like that cant affect you.. I know people are different and everything, but, like you said, it took a long time to look at the good side of it. *Sigh* Ah well, tis beyond me... Just wanted to say tis great for you

01-07-2005, 03:41 PM	#11 (permalink)
blackTshirt The Randomness Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: romania.. shut up Posts: 854	don't worry..it's nice to help even only by typing __________________ My rims never spin, to the contrary You'll find that they're quite stationary.

01-07-2005, 03:44 PM	#12 (permalink)
MUSE girl Eat my ****. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Merry old England, Forest Of Dean Posts: 104	its just so good to talk to someone new __________________ Just when you thourght things couldnt get much worse, just when you thourght things were going to get better...... it all returns with reinforcments.

01-09-2005, 07:33 AM	#13 (permalink)
covle Music Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: melbourne australia Posts: 334	my advice would be, dont go asking people on the internet. find someone to talk too properly. people here cant do much, if anything for you. talk to a friend or family or professional about it. __________________ LIVE.LOVE.BURN.DIE. whoa...i quoted atreyu, that means im hardcore. look how hardcore i am!! thats hardcore...XXX

01-09-2005, 08:30 AM	#14 (permalink)
blackTshirt The Randomness Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: romania.. shut up Posts: 854	haha, in other words, you need special help jk __________________ My rims never spin, to the contrary You'll find that they're quite stationary.

01-09-2005, 08:44 AM	#15 (permalink)
Molasses Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Victoria, Austraila Posts: 64	Tales from the Trailer strikes back __________________ Marry Me

01-10-2005, 01:33 PM	#16 (permalink)
MUSE girl Eat my ****. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Merry old England, Forest Of Dean Posts: 104	its kinda sorted its self out now anyway __________________ Just when you thourght things couldnt get much worse, just when you thourght things were going to get better...... it all returns with reinforcments.

01-10-2005, 03:48 PM	#17 (permalink)
franscar Honky Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Birmingham Posts: 665	That's good to hear. My ex-girlfriend got herself into a similar situation actually, a while back now. She had been cheating on me for a few months and she finished the relationship, I was totally heartbroken because she was someone I cared for more than anything in the world. A month or so later she told me that she had been expecting my child (pretty big news to me because we'd ALWAYS been careful) and that she had had an abortion. At the time this news totally crushed me, but looking back with the benefit of hindsight, becoming a father at that time would have been unfair on both myself and the child. It's incredibly important to not be selfish in a situation like this, and think of the other two people involved, in my case the mother of the child, and most importantly, the child itself. I couldn't have given that child the sort of life he or she would deserve, and so I now think it best to wait until I can.

01-10-2005, 04:00 PM	#18 (permalink)
ArtistInTheAmbulance enchanted. Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: cornwailles, angleterre. Posts: 2,537	^That really sucks. But hey, if I was a guy I dont think I could have thought about that in a positive way at all, so well done.. Man that soudns cheesy and sucky and lame.. Ok so apparently Im no good at talking to people over the internet either. __________________ shake your wings like theyre laced with sound!

01-10-2005, 04:31 PM	#20 (permalink)
ArtistInTheAmbulance enchanted. Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: cornwailles, angleterre. Posts: 2,537	Thats really great. Not the situation, but y'know what I mean, the way you look at it.. I know people that wouldnt care about stuff like this, and I just dont understand how something like that cant affect you.. I know people are different and everything, but, like you said, it took a long time to look at the good side of it. Sigh Ah well, tis beyond me... Just wanted to say tis great for you __________________ shake your wings like theyre laced with sound!