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franscar · 01-10-2005, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

^That really sucks. But hey, if I was a guy I dont think I could have thought about that in a positive way at all, so well done.. Man that soudns cheesy and sucky and lame.. Ok so apparently Im no good at talking to people over the internet either.

Well it took me a VERY long time to look at it like that, during which time I did make my ex's life pretty crappy for "killing our baby", but the water's flowed under the bridge now, and we're both better off for not becoming parents. For a start I'd never have taken her back after the cheating, and from my experience of being a child of a single parent, my mum worked her ass off raising me and my brother, and I don't think I could've put my ex through that.

ArtistInTheAmbulance · 01-10-2005, 04:31 PM

Thats really great. Not the situation, but y'know what I mean, the way you look at it.. I know people that wouldnt care about stuff like this, and I just dont understand how something like that cant affect you.. I know people are different and everything, but, like you said, it took a long time to look at the good side of it. *Sigh* Ah well, tis beyond me... Just wanted to say tis great for you

franscar · 01-10-2005, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

Thats really great. Not the situation, but y'know what I mean, the way you look at it.. I know people that wouldnt care about stuff like this, and I just dont understand how something like that cant affect you.. I know people are different and everything, but, like you said, it took a long time to look at the good side of it. *Sigh* Ah well, tis beyond me... Just wanted to say tis great for you

Yeah, it's not a nice situation to be in, but it IS a good experience to have behind me, I think. If that makes sense, which it probably doesn't.

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ArtistInTheAmbulance enchanted. Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: cornwailles, angleterre. Posts: 2,528	Thats really great. Not the situation, but y'know what I mean, the way you look at it.. I know people that wouldnt care about stuff like this, and I just dont understand how something like that cant affect you.. I know people are different and everything, but, like you said, it took a long time to look at the good side of it. Sigh Ah well, tis beyond me... Just wanted to say tis great for you __________________ shake your wings like theyre laced with sound!