Originally Posted by Paloma (Post 808124)

On other forums, I hijack threads by making them about Duran Duran if I don't like them
You could try that!

Originally Posted by Paloma (Post 808124)

On other forums, I hijack threads by making them about Duran Duran if I don't like them
You could try that!

Originally Posted by jayfin3 (Post 808031)

Have you ever been in love? Did you get over it? Do you believe in love?

Originally Posted by Paloma (Post 808085)

hahaha

I'll give you a serious answer

Yes, I believe in love. Actual love though, I have only recently learned the difference, as in what love really is, rather than the lust, infatuation, or obsession we often mistake as being love. While I do think attraction is obviously important, love is something you have to work at, and sometimes it's hard and nervewracking and you have to make compromises you don't like but when you have it, and give it, to someone who gives it back to you and you are equals in that, then it is the best thing in the world. I've also had a lot of men who've claimed to love me, and it's the same story, obsession, infatuation, lust. To have someone love you for you, rather than making you into an idea, when they are seeing you as a real person,it's awesome.

ha

Originally Posted by LoathsomePete (Post 808097)

If you're looking for serious answers then perhaps you should put more thought into your initial post. If you offer some insight and first explain what you believe on the subject then usually it will rub off on your responses when people see that you're actually being serious.

Originally Posted by Neapolitan (Post 808178)

When you said "Did you get over it?" do you mean 1. how long does it take after you've been dumped because your heart hurts?

Originally Posted by jayfin3 (Post 808200)

**** off. Don't be an arrogant prick.

Originally Posted by jayfin3 (Post 808200)

So from this, does that mean you don't believe in unrequited love? I believe you're saying that love is when two people feel the same feeling for each other? So you cannot have one-sided love?

Originally Posted by Barnard17 (Post 808204)

"And in the end, the love you get is equal to the love you give,"