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Mr. Charlie 10-16-2013 03:00 PM

:d

ladyislingering 10-16-2013 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by butthead aka 216 (Post 1371058)
do you tuck your cock back and strut around like a female?? must be weird for your girl

I don't find it weird.

I love Ki 'cause he's the love of my life. His gender identity is irrelevant to me. If he decided one day that he just couldn't live as a male anymore, I'd be ok with it. I'd support him every step of the way until he was comfortable with his body and secure in his identity. I'd just have an awesome, sexy girlfriend instead.

As for me I'm pretty comfortable as a woman. There are obviously some things that make me wish I wasn't, or make me feel really uncomfortable about my gender, but for the most part I'm happy as a woman.

My sexuality, however, is a totally different matter.

Mantis 10-16-2013 11:51 PM

As I get older I feel like the boundaries defining masculine and feminine get blurrier and blurrier. I sort of just float along in my own little undefined identity and I'm pretty happy with it.

Scarlett O'Hara 10-17-2013 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1374412)
I don't find it weird.

I love Ki 'cause he's the love of my life. His gender identity is irrelevant to me. If he decided one day that he just couldn't live as a male anymore, I'd be ok with it. I'd support him every step of the way until he was comfortable with his body and secure in his identity. I'd just have an awesome, sexy girlfriend instead.

As for me I'm pretty comfortable as a woman. There are obviously some things that make me wish I wasn't, or make me feel really uncomfortable about my gender, but for the most part I'm happy as a woman.

My sexuality, however, is a totally different matter.

That's really sweet of you to be so supportive. :)

ladyislingering 10-17-2013 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 1374439)
That's really sweet of you to be so supportive. :)

It's just that I love him and can't imagine life without him.

And I don't mind so much what's in his pants, as long as I'm the only one he loves.

(Is there a term for that? I feel like there's a term for that but I can't remember it off the top of my head.)

The Batlord 10-17-2013 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1374412)
I don't find it weird.

I love Ki 'cause he's the love of my life. His gender identity is irrelevant to me. If he decided one day that he just couldn't live as a male anymore, I'd be ok with it. I'd support him every step of the way until he was comfortable with his body and secure in his identity. I'd just have an awesome, sexy girlfriend instead.

As for me I'm pretty comfortable as a woman. There are obviously some things that make me wish I wasn't, or make me feel really uncomfortable about my gender, but for the most part I'm happy as a woman.

My sexuality, however, is a totally different matter.

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butthead aka 216 10-17-2013 01:59 PM

Dude what if ki and his gf both became trans it makes me wonder if s couple has done that

The Batlord 10-17-2013 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by butthead aka 216 (Post 1374601)
Dude what if ki and his gf both became trans it makes me wonder if s couple has done that

If they both did it at the same time without telling each other and then met up at home would it be awkward? At least they could just trade clothes.

ladyislingering 10-17-2013 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1374599)
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I'm not exclusively straight but I don't consider myself a lesbian; I'm not equally attracted to both sexes, and I don't really have a chosen gender that I'm attracted to. I guess the fact that if Ki was a woman I'd still be crazy for him sort of speaks for itself. If I love someone, I love someone. I don't really care what's in their pants.

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Originally Posted by butthead aka 216 (Post 1374601)
Dude what if ki and his gf both became trans it makes me wonder if s couple has done that

I don't know, man. Being a transdude wouldn't really work out that well for me. With hair I can sit on and naturally feminine habits, I think I'm best suited to be a woman. But to answer your question, I'm sure there are trans couples. I think I know a female-to-male who's with a male-to-female (if I'm not mistaken - I don't know a lot about his life, just that he's an artist and he's pretty cool) but it wouldn't surprise me if two trans people got together because they'd understand each other's struggle.

djchameleon 10-17-2013 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1374587)
(Is there a term for that? I feel like there's a term for that but I can't remember it off the top of my head.)

The words you are looking for are unconditional love.


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