@HPD

yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Obviously it's your situation but if it were me I'd have cut and run a long time ago.

No one tells me what to do, The End.

It's just disrespectful. If someone doesn't genuinely not want to control or modify their partner's behavior they're not with the right person. Some people just can't be with people who have different values, even if those values are minute.

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I suppose I should confess something while I'm here? Well, romance seems to be the theme so:

I become infatuated with people I don't know very well. I've recognized it as a problem and realize that I'm not actually interested in these people in a romantic way. If anything I just wanna get in their pants. Doesn't stop me from thinking about girls I haven't seen in years, though.

On the love theme... I was technically a virgin, as in no penetration, until about two years ago. I had a romantic expensive hotel scotch-deadened night of passion with my bf of one year. Yeah, he waited that long, and I know he didn't cheat. Still together, very happily.

But I still got way too drunk and cried so it's basically the same story as every other girl, except mine took place at age 22. No longer an unplucked flower but amongst my friends I definitely hold title for 'latest to bang'.

I agree with Butthead. Sounds like he really likes you but is very immature when it comes to relationships. I was similar when I was in my early twenties I always wanted to know about my girlfriends past conquests. No detail was too small. The difference is I didn't think she was slutty so much as I was crazy about her and couldn't stand the thought of her being with other men. I thought learning every detail would somehow provide closure. Its just immaturity. Eventually you realize people are sexual beings and what happened before you were around makes no difference. Im guessing he will eventually grow up and get over it but it will take awhile. I will say I never cared about what girlfriends did if I was not somewhat smitten with them.

I lost my virginity at 17 to a girl with the same name as my mom, Hermione (Herminia in spanish)

She was a bad lay, i didn't even enjoy it i just did it to not be a virgin anymore.
she wasn't my GF or anything, but she got around if you know what i mean so i took the opportunity when it presented itself.

My first thought when i had sex was "Is that it?" i thought it would better, i didn't know what good sex was until i got a GF yrs later.

I've had the same thing. It's a defense mechanism. Let's you feel romantically active without any of the risk of actual, scary romantic involvement.

Herm left u dissapointed sexually eh

I get inappropriately horny when I start drinking early.

same, but as with most things, I usually blame Marc Bolan.

I must admit I can't spell. And that I was pretty drunk yesternight. And that I feel wonderful. Like I'm in harmony with the world around me.

:rofl:

My spelling is horrible and so is Butthead's and ppl here still understand us.