The Confessional Thread

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by AwwSugar

All I'm saying is that if you're judging someone as low just because got pregnant, you're much lower than they will ever be.

How can women disrespect other women for doing something we were meant to do?
Meanwhile like some of ya'll are still trying to find jobs and lives.
Like get your life.

Mothers I know are some of the strongest people I have ever met.

What's even worse is if you're so defensive about an opinion that is harmful and reinforces patriarchy, you probably aren't a good person like you purport yourself to be

#girlgang

[CrazyVegn]

Originally Posted by AwwSugar

All I'm saying is that if you're judging someone as low just because got pregnant, you're much lower than they will ever be.

How can people disrespect other people for doing something we were meant to do?
Meanwhile like some of ya'll are still trying to find jobs and lives.
Like get your life.

Mothers I know are some of the strongest people I have ever met.

A mother to human children IS a full time job either with 1 or 10 IMO

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by AwwSugar

All I'm saying is that if you're judging someone as low just because got pregnant, you're much lower than they will ever be.

How can people disrespect other people for doing something we were meant to do?
Meanwhile like some of ya'll are still trying to find jobs and lives.
Like get your life.

Mothers I know are some of the strongest people I have ever met.

I can't speak for the other ladies who said this, but I don't think there is anything wrong with getting pregnant, it's more the people who were nasty at school didn't make themselves into what they expected. I may be circling around the point here but that's how I feel about those girls, not everybody else.

Else, how could I justify me being born?

I appreciate you discussing this with me.

[CrazyVegn]

I get excited for other women who get pregnant, but it is not for me. I've got my hands full already, thaaaaaanks.

[Justthefacts]

I'm secretly in love with Hermione.

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

I can't speak for the other ladies who said this, but I don't think there is anything wrong with getting pregnant, it's more the people who were nasty at school didn't make themselves into what they expected. I may be circling around the point here but that's how I feel about those girls, not everybody else.

Else, how could I justify me being born?

I appreciate you discussing this with me.

So you're just putting yourself on their level, and in your own words, making yourself the nasty one. And making their pregnancies to be misfortunes, as if you are somehow better for not getting pregnant. Like pregnancy is something to be ashamed of.

[Arya Stark]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

I can't speak for the other ladies who said this, but I don't think there is anything wrong with getting pregnant, it's more the people who were nasty at school didn't make themselves into what they expected. I may be circling around the point here but that's how I feel about those girls, not everybody else.

Else, how could I justify me being born?

I appreciate you discussing this with me.

I just know people who got pregnant and if people were like AHAHA THIS BITCH I HATE GOT PREGNANT, TOO BAD FOR HER, I would want to punch them in the face.
I would tell them that my friend, acquaintance, etc, is better than anything the other person could ever aspire to be.
Cause how can you be anything good when you look down on others for something so natural and so hard to do?

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by Hermione

So you're just putting yourself on their level, and in your own words, making yourself the nasty one. And making their pregnancies to be misfortunes, as if you are somehow better for not getting pregnant. Like pregnancy is something to be ashamed of.

You're right, but not to their face so I'm not hurting them in person as they did to me. I'm absolutely not better or worse.

Have you ever been nasty to someone? I don't think you can really accuse me unless you've never done it yourself.

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

You're right, but not to their face so I'm not hurting them in person as they did to me. I'm absolutely not better or worse.

Have you ever been nasty to someone? I don't think you can really accuse me unless you've never done it yourself.

Why are you being so defensive about your opinion? Sounds like you care too much about what other people think.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by Hermione

Why are you being so defensive about your opinion? Sounds like you care too much about what other people think.

Because it's my opinion? Duh.

Why are you avoiding my question?