Confess Your Little Quirks

s_k · 02-01-2011, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by James

I don't see anything wrong with hugging guys.

Neither do I! Please hug whoever you want!
It just feels strange for me. That's my quirk probably.
It's not that I don't want any other guy to stop hugging guys

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Originally Posted by Dirty

I don't understand your love of hugging, s_k... "Sex isn't important, but hugs are."

Sex is important. But I could go without. I couldn't go without hugs.
I know how much sex bonds and such. I used to have a lot of sex with my ex-girlfriend.
But that doesn't change the fact that I can do without sex, not without hugs.

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That sounds like something I would have said when I was 13.

I probably wouldn't have said that when I was thirteen

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How old are you anyways, mr. Filthy?

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I don't understand what is so great about hugging. Only time I would hug someone is upon seeing a female friend for the first time in awhile, or if one of my friends had something serious happen like a death in the family. What is this hugging craze all about? Seems like you just hug your friends for basically no reason and find it to be awesome.

Allright, just to be sure, when it comes to relations and hugging, I probably mean cuddling, spooning, being close together, massaging, stroking. Not just the occasional embracing. I mean really loving and caring hugging.
Yes it's possible to do that without having sex.
And no I'm not asexual. There's no way of explaining how much I am into sex without having to go into details, but you'd probably be amazed. I love pussy as much as the next guy, probably even more.
But that doesn't mean I can't do without.

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Originally Posted by emostreetguitar562268

Yeah, i am 13, and i usually go with guys around my age, no more than 2 yrs older. And most of the time it was the most important thing to them, so i'd have to leave em.
BUTTTTT my current girlfriend is the best, she can be pervy at some times, but she doesnt pressure me into stuff like that.

Strange guys you've had. Glad you've found a nicer one

I can be really pervy, but only when the girl I'm with is into pervy stuff

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I don't feel like trying to convince or persuade someone to do stuff with/to me.
I do take my chances though, that's something else

Dr_Rez · 02-01-2011, 04:26 PM

Its pretty absurd how if a man hangs out with a woman and isnt banging her he is either a pussy or gay. Its kind of like the "double standard" women always mention thrown right back at them.

s_k · 02-01-2011, 04:35 PM

I don't know. I guess I'm just in control of myself?
I can honestly say that I haven't got a female friend I would not want to have sex with.
The girls know that, they see it as a compliment, they're fine with it.
In some cases things happen once or twice. Which is nice. But apart from that I don't mind having... What's it called? Platonic relationships?

No pussy. Not gay.
Bit of a softy now and then, but that's probably a choice

TheFolkslave · 02-01-2011, 04:37 PM

Hugging is great and I hug my male friends all the time (female not as much for some reason) but all this talk about stroking and caressing feels weird to me since it sounds you go so far with your hugging that it's like almost sex... and not just any sex the love making emotions and stuff like that thrown in sex. You just do it without the penetration. Not judging you or anything I just wonder how it works for you since I imagine it being quite emotionally draining to be that close to your ex.

**Janszoon** · 02-01-2011, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by RezZ

Its pretty absurd how if a man hangs out with a woman and isnt banging her he is either a pussy or gay. Its kind of like the "double standard" women always mention thrown right back at them.

Who really thinks like that? I've always had female friends.

Dr_Rez · 02-01-2011, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

I don't know. I guess I'm just in control of myself?
I can honestly say that I haven't got a female friend I would not want to have sex with.
The girls know that, they see it as a compliment, they're fine with it.
In some cases things happen once or twice. Which is nice. But apart from that I don't mind having... What's it called? Platonic relationships?

No pussy. Not gay.
Bit of a softy now and then, but that's probably a choice

I often wonder how attractive girls think they look in the eyes of men. I mean some know it and obviously flaunt it, and then theres a lot that are absolutely beautiful and either dont have the confidence or are just being modest. Its so hard to tell. I have talked to some really gorgeous woman that I thought would be super full of themselves but turned out kinda shy.

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Originally Posted by Janszoon

Who really thinks like that? I've always had female friends.

Your everyday average ****head male. ESPECIALLY around my age, early to mid 20's. Obviously not all but it would seem a good portion at least act like thats the way they think to keep up appearances.

s_k · 02-01-2011, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by TheFolkslave

Not judging you or anything I just wonder how it works for you since I imagine it being quite emotionally draining to be that close to your ex.

We weren't talking about exes here as far as I know?

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Originally Posted by Janszoon

Who really thinks like that? I've always had female friends.

I guess some guys feel the need to see girls as sex objects only?
I don't know...

**Janszoon** · 02-01-2011, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by RezZ

Your everyday average ****head male. ESPECIALLY around my age, early to mid 20's. Obviously not all but it would seem a good portion at least act like thats the way they think to keep up appearances.

Seriously? I don't really remember people being like that when I was in my early 20s.

s_k · 02-01-2011, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by RezZ

I often wonder how attractive girls think they look in the eyes of men. I mean some know it and obviously flaunt it, and then theres a lot that are absolutely beautiful and either dont have the confidence or are just being modest. Its so hard to tell. I have talked to some really gorgeous woman that I thought would be super full of themselves but turned out kinda shy.

I'm not attracted to beautiful girls who are full of themselves.
It somehow shows.
Without trying to brag, all of my female friends are beautiful to very beautiful. Some of them are really head turners. You can't go anywhere with them without guys looking at them all the ****ing time. Some of them know they are beautiful, but none of them acts that way. They don't seem to take advantage of it. Character

Your everyday average ****head male. ESPECIALLY around my age, early to mid 20's. [/QUOTE]
I never bother about average people anyway.
I can honestly say that none of my friends (not even the 30 year old virgin, I won't mention his name) thinks like that.

TheFolkslave · 02-01-2011, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k

We weren't talking about exes here as far as I know?

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Yeah I know but you have mentioned in other threads how you hug and sleep with your ex. I was just wondering how that works out. I'm asking this since I don't even care about my ex anymore. When I look at her I don't see the girl I used to be with. I just see a stranger that I can't see myself being friends with.

Also on other topic discussed. Almost all my friends are girls now since there's only two guys on my class. I don't really think about having sex with them or anything. Does that make me gay? I don't think so but I know guys who think that girls are only for banging.

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s_k Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,206	I don't know. I guess I'm just in control of myself? I can honestly say that I haven't got a female friend I would not want to have sex with. The girls know that, they see it as a compliment, they're fine with it. In some cases things happen once or twice. Which is nice. But apart from that I don't mind having... What's it called? Platonic relationships? No pussy. Not gay. Bit of a softy now and then, but that's probably a choice __________________ Click here to see my collection

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TheFolkslave Music Addict Join Date: May 2010 Location: Finland Posts: 458	Hugging is great and I hug my male friends all the time (female not as much for some reason) but all this talk about stroking and caressing feels weird to me since it sounds you go so far with your hugging that it's like almost sex... and not just any sex the love making emotions and stuff like that thrown in sex. You just do it without the penetration. Not judging you or anything I just wonder how it works for you since I imagine it being quite emotionally draining to be that close to your ex. __________________ My Last.Fm Well I come from the old time baby, where all the kids are crazy.