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holly984 03-20-2011 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by BarelyBreathing (Post 1021180)
Try to tell me you've never talked about somebody behind their back, or cried or used sex to get your way, or tried to steal somebody else's boyfriend.

Well first off, you claimed women were 'back stabbing b****es". Being a backstabber implies that you're purposely attempting to cause someone harm via your words and/or actions, whilst pretending to be their friend. That is not the same as talking behind someone's back; the two don't necessarily coincide. You can talk about a person 'behind their back' and not be a backstabber. Behind the back chatter can be quite harmless, as well. Not that I recommend, nor actively gossip about people. But, if I were to tell one friend that a girl we know was wearing an ugly dress today, how is that so bad? It's not nice, of course; I agree. But honestly, rather innocuous. I'm really a kind person and genuinely wouldn't want to cause someone harm. But, truthfully, who amongst humans in general has not talked behind someone's back at least once...about something? To answer your question, though, yes I've talked about someone behind their back. But no, I've never once stabbed anyone in the back.

As far as crying or using sex to get your way, of course there are women that do that. People (men and women) use various methods to obtain what they want. That's a given. But again, your generalization and grouping of all women as 'weepy or sex driven manipulators' is misguided. I've never cried to get my way, and honestly that sounds more akin to childish behavior. And the only times I've used my sexuality to get what I wanted, was when what I wanted was sexually related (seducing a boyfriend, etc). Not to land a job, garner favors, manipulate a guy in general, etc.

Regarding trying to steal someone's boyfriend....no, I haven't. And none of my close friends have ever done that either. I have respect for relationships and for people. Is it really that hard for you to believe that there are girls out there that wouldn't do that? Seriously....?? And I'm not trying to be sarcastic, insulting, nor malicious with this reply; I hope you realize that. I'm merely interested in why you seem to hold the belief that all women suck.

Plus, you yourself said there were a total of three women that you "enjoy being around"; So, you're telling me that these are the only three women in the world who aren't manipulative, backstabbing b****es? And if instead they are, why then do you enjoy being around them versus every other one of us "manipulative, backstabbing b****es", (says you)?

Sansa Stark 03-20-2011 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by BarelyBreathing (Post 1021180)
Try to tell me you've never talked about somebody behind their back, or cried or used sex to get your way, or tried to steal somebody else's boyfriend.

-Of course I have, but I don't think this is something gender-specific. Men do it too.

-I cry when I'm unhappy or frustrated, not "to get my own way". I have sex because I like having sex, it feels good. Sometimes I have sex because I'm unhappy and like the ultimate closeness with the man I love. What ****ing planet are you from?

-I've never tried to steal anyone else's boyfriend, I've never been that desperate for a relationship.

All this being said, why are you holding the mistakes of a few women against the whole gender? What makes you think you're better than the rest of us? Do you refrain from these activities?

TockTockTock 03-20-2011 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by BarelyBreathing (Post 1021134)
Congratulations on quitting.

As for women, I think you about sum it up. There are a total of three that I actually enjoy being around. Women suck. We're a bunch of manipulative, back stabbing b****es.

:rofl:

djchameleon 03-20-2011 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Merkaba (Post 1021167)
When I drive by a building with a lot of glass I find it cool to watch the reflection of me driving down the road.

Though not when I'm closely following another car for obvious reasons. Don't want to accidentally look at the wrong car in the reflection do I.

I don't drive yet but I totally do that when I'm walking down the sidewalk so I KNOW that I will be doing it while driving providing that I won't get into an accident by doing so.

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Originally Posted by s_k (Post 1021260)
Ehh... you just run into the wrong girls, dude :D.

dude? Barely is female

s_k 03-20-2011 06:52 PM

Ah, well... So... she hates her own kind I guess?

djchameleon 03-20-2011 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by s_k (Post 1021294)
Ah, well... So... she hates her own kind I guess?

basically

s_k 03-20-2011 06:54 PM

Hmm...
Ah well, she shouldn't. I know some really nice girls :).

djchameleon 03-20-2011 06:56 PM

I understand where she is coming from though but you can't paint the whole gender that way. Just like with guys....there are some real douchebags out there that I would never be friends with but there are also some real stand up guys that I wouldn't mind knowing.

BarelyBreathing 03-20-2011 08:03 PM

Yes, I'm a girl. No, I don't hate girls. The three girls I mentioned are just very special to me. Don't take that the wrong way, lol.

Also, I wasn't using "talking behind one's back" as an example of back stabbing. Stealing your friend's boyfriend is.

Also, I'm a girl. I have my fair share of sins, including a few on my aforementioned list. I've talked behind people's backs, and I've manipulated. I haven't stolen anybody's boyfriends, though. At least not knowingly

BarelyBreathing 03-20-2011 08:07 PM

I realized I said that I am a girl twice. The second one was supposed to be like an "obviously I do these things" type of way. Just thought I'd clarify.


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