s_k

Dude, I'm a dude!


I sort of have to say "look fellas, now this is how I do it" to fall in grace with the other guys now .

No, really. I love sex and I'm into it most of the time. But it's not important for me in a relationship. It's nice, but not important. Hugs are. And I don't mean the occasional hug. I may not demand sex, but I do demand closeness and hugs. I just need that.

Eitherway, just checking, someone pointed out you're 'like 13 or something'. How old are you?
And how old are the guys you date with? Because if you're really thirteen you're probably hanging out with the wrong kind of guys.
No guy I know in real life is a total perv. They think it's a pity when their girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with them, obviously.
But it's not like they almost force her to have sex with them...

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^yeah, pretty much. I just love hugs, its one of my many quirks

Yeah, i am 13, and i usually go with guys around my age, no more than 2 yrs older. And most of the time it was the most important thing to them, so i'd have to leave em. BUTTTTT my current girlfriend is the best, she can be pervy at some times, but she doesnt pressure me into stuff like that.


yay! *Hugs back!*

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s_k

Neither do I! Please hug whoever you want!
It just feels strange for me. That's my quirk probably.
It's not that I don't want any other guy to stop hugging guys

Sex is important. But I could go without. I couldn't go without hugs.
I know how much sex bonds and such. I used to have a lot of sex with my ex-girlfriend.
But that doesn't change the fact that I can do without sex, not without hugs.

I probably wouldn't have said that when I was thirteen .
How old are you anyways, mr. Filthy?

Allright, just to be sure, when it comes to relations and hugging, I probably mean cuddling, spooning, being close together, massaging, stroking. Not just the occasional embracing. I mean really loving and caring hugging.
Yes it's possible to do that without having sex.
And no I'm not asexual. There's no way of explaining how much I am into sex without having to go into details, but you'd probably be amazed. I love pussy as much as the next guy, probably even more.
But that doesn't mean I can't do without.

Strange guys you've had. Glad you've found a nicer one
I can be really pervy, but only when the girl I'm with is into pervy stuff .
I don't feel like trying to convince or persuade someone to do stuff with/to me.
I do take my chances though, that's something else

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Dirty

But why can't you go without hugs? What I am trying to get at is what is it about hugs that make them so great to you? I've said before, I view spooning, massaging, etc as something that is a pre-sex or post-sex type of thing. Why do you want to press your dick against a girl friend's ass if you aren't gonna get laid? Like, what's the point. I can be a good friend to girls without cuddling with them. I actually view cuddling around with friends as more creepy and weird than anything. I don't need to massage and spoon with someone to let them know I care about them.

TheFolkslave

I also view the hugging and cuddling thing to be pre-sex, post-sex thing. I wouldn't go rub my **** against any of my female friends asses. I rub my **** against some of my male friends though (mainly my bandmates) that's just something we do when we joke around.

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What the hell?

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TheFolkslave

That's just something we do. It's a joke. I'm comfortable with myself and my sexuality so I can do it.

I don't know if it's funny but it's just something we do with my friends to have laugh. Also. What's wrong with being gay?

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John Frusciante was into it. Watch this for about 30 seconds .. "it's called a helicopter" says Flea.

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s_k

Yes, thank you for clarifying that .

I dunno man, it's sort of a risk. You have to know what you think about eachother before you do stuff like that. It wouldn't screw up anything in my case, but I talk a friggin' lot with my friends so they know what I feel, what I think, what I expect and won't expect.


I don't.
How does everyone seem to think that you rub up against someone you're laying with?

Ladies and gentlemen, we have a fres Quirck .

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s_k

For me, it's a better way to make eachother feel you love eachother than just saying "I love you". That's why I hug my female friends who aren't my girlfriend too. I love them too. I tell them I do. But at some points it just takes a hug to get the message through.
I have friends throughout the country and there's moments where we talk to eachother on MSN Messenger and go "dammit I want to see you, I want to hug you". And these are, as I said, regular friends. Hugging for me is a part of my relationship with girls. And when I'm in an actual relation with a girl (as in boyfriend/girlfriend) the hugging definitely is a bit closer. But I can hug really closely without having sex. It jus starts out with a different intention.

Let me tell you something strange though. When my girlfriend was sad about something, we talked about it and hugged. And somehow we always ended up having sex after that. I guess that too is some sort of instinct. It feels really awkward to get turned on by a sad girl. But it somehow happened and in the end sex does make you feel an afwul lot better.
Dicks work in mysterious ways

Why would you want to press your **** to a girl when you are massaging or spooning? You can just hold eachother too.

Neither do I. I have one or two friends I don't hug with.
It somehow just happens . It's different for every girl I know.
You're mixing up two things though (maybe I was unclear). The spooning, massaging, caressing thing is something I do with my ex girlfriend and I have done this with some other friends too. I don't do this with everyone.

Laying together on a couch, giving eachother long hugs or stroking a girl's back is pretty normal for me though.
And there's even girls I have been closer with than I am now. I have a female friend I used to hold when we were sleeping. We don't do that now. We never had to talk about that. It just changed. I used to have webcam and phone sex with another girl. That somehow stopped. We still see eachother, I hug her whenever I see her.

These things happen and change spontaneously.
It's almost like you have 'rules' for the way you treat your girls.
I don't, it's different every time with every girl.
I'm just telling you how stuff goes here. It's not like this is my general 'idea' of friendship or relationships.

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