I'm offended that this stupid conversation has gone on for so long.

You're not alone. I've already stated that I'm not trying to offend anyone yet I seem to be doing so.

**** you, you insensitive prick.

It's pretty strange how this all came about because of a simple note of condolence to someone, a missed part of a post on my behalf and then a big ****storm blew up. But I think it's important to note that when Ki says he is not trying to offend anyone, he should realise that he is, by (presumably unintentionally, cos I don't believe he'd do such a thing on purpose) seeming to trivialise people's attempts to get over death and loss, and not realising that what he's saying, as I quoted, is a pretty gross insult to those who have lost people in their lives.

Ki, don't you understand? You can't say "I don't mean to offend anyone" when you're saying "after x amount of days/years you should be over your loss". It just doesn't work. You are offending people. You're offending me, and you're offending Dulce, and JTF and others. It's quite surprising that you would be so insensitive, as I know you're not like this. You really need to keep such opinions to yourself; it's way too touchy and personal an issue to be telling people how and when they should be over the death of a loved one.

Disappointed, man. Disappointed.
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How about dropping it instead of spouting the same **** over and over again?

Can people be offended elsewhere outside this thread please.

Don't want to hear another word on the subject.

Last word.

I'd like to add that if people feel I offended them, they can PM me. I've no problem sending an apology if necessary.

Some people just handle it differently. It's a lot harder to get over someone who is still alive not being in your life (when you want them to be) than someone who dies, imo.

It's part of life, just gotta accept it. I don't see a reason to dwell on the dead, seems like a waste of time.

Edit: so apparently this is a heated topic, I didn't read all the bull**** before posting. O, well, I'm not deleting this., you can just ignore me.

Guys, I already said last word.