Really? The majority of the female gender are manipulative bitches? That's a bit harsh :( Have you guys ever thought that maybe it's the type of girl you go for, that are the bitches? There's a plethora of nice girls on this forum, all of my female friends are far from what I'd call a manipulative bitch, in fact, I'd say I don't know many of this kind at all.

Perhaps I mistyped. That part is the part I meant to say.

"In every instance in my life when I have not replied back, barely called, given almost 0 attention, had other options...is when nearly every girl becomes more attached and wants more. This is the case with nearly all my friends and certainly does not happen often the other way around with guys. I am not saying guys are all level headed blameless humans, just that in this arena females act almost primitive based off instinct instead of logic."

That is the way the majority act that I have come across, label it however you want. Also being a female you also have no first hand experience or unbiased opinion since you are female. I can not see any male members disagreeing with this. And dont get me wrong guys have their share of hangups that im sure are really annoying and seem very childish to females...but I am just speaking on this one issue of only wanting something you cant have.

Fair enough :) And yeah I guess it works both ways, because I'm not most female members on this site would be able to list the hangups of the male gender and use a sweeping statement to agree that all males are something something ;)

Look at it this way. An unknown but large percentage of people in general are mindless shitheads. If we accept that then it stands to reason that an unknown but large percentage of women are mindless shitheads. But men and women are different biologically, psychologically, and culturally, so they have their own ways of being mindless shitheads that don't necessarily apply to men, and vice versa.

:laughing: Very true.

Yeah, you just have to drive a car to find this out :laughing:

Cognitively, there are few differences between men and women. We're all designed with the potential to be ****heads in the same ways, rest assured. :laughing:

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Theres one fairly big difference here though. You can tell which guys to avoid, if they aree the type of guys you don't want any part of. Spotting someone who will manipulate you is not quite as easy.

I hate to say it but I've been manipulated by more women than not. Like Rezz, I may even say it's currently a landslide. You often don't realise until after the fact.

What can we say, we're bitches. You should date men instead, perhaps.

or become just as manipulative but that depends on how old you are.

Once you get past a certain age those mind games are boring and just aren't as fun.

I don't think all women are manipulative bitches but there is only so much you can take before you do start to wonder. We all have the ability to manipulate others and I would also say that maybe I'm just an easy target.

I hate playing games. I believe in honesty and personally I would rather have someone be honest with me, regardless of what it is about, and be able to interact with people in a mature manner rather than resort to playing guessing games. As someone said earlier in this thread though, you play all your cards from the outset and you may as well paint a target on your back for anyone with a tendency to take advantage of that.

I agree with you here, dj. I find that now I'm getting older and more "mature" (I'm not really but I'm slowly drifting past the mid-twenties age bracket so I'll use that term ;)) I don't really experience all those manipulative little games that both girls and guys play when they tend to be younger. So guys, hang in there.

see women learn from a young age to use their sex as leverage cause its the best leverage they got. cause guys are all competing and chasin that pussy. so girls can use that to get what they want and at some point every guy i think probably does something stupid for the snatch.

then usually in like the late 20s women get their **** together cause they are no longer as desired if they are single. they dont rule the world like they used to and the tables kinda turn cause that leverage is gone


i speak truth


yea i know it generalizing dont waste time reminding me everyone thanks

Yes because all women are is a walking vagina and that's all they have going for them, they don't have brains or personality or expertise in any other area apart from being a bang hole.

Until, of course, they are in their late 20s and their pink sausage wallet is no longer desirable, that's when they expire and are pretty much useless in our society.

hey thats not true women are more than bang holes



they have tits too



i kid i kid (pic oft triumph the insult dog)


sure they have brains and personality and that other stuff but thats just what happens, its like the cycle and of course i generalize

Your misogyny is showing.

talk to your mother with that mouth

at least im hidin my white priviledge, homophobia and racism well :bringit::laughing::usehead:

but seriously ill break it down for everyone

heres what happens to millions of women -----


highschool ages - girls realize guys are chasing them. they get hit on. guys tryna bone them. they have sex and maybe are in a relationship. it becomes clear to them that guys lust after them sometimes regardless of their actions. pussy on the pedestal, high school guys all doin it, cmon you've seen the 40 yr old virgin where that guy says it


college - girls aware the leverage and power they have over men. plus this is when girls are at their hottest. let loose, be slutty, have fun. thoughts reinforced by getting into every party for free and hardly payin for drinks. its a trade off for sex but they realize they dont have to even have sex. its just the perk of bein attractive. guys willin to give free stuff and priority just for the increased chance of sex. like i said, reinforcing thoughts


after college - now 22-26. if single still realize the leverage they hold but it starts to fade as they age. others are getting married, having kids, etc etc. everyone more focused on starting a career, less partyin and stuff like that

late 20s - tables turn and guys have the leverage. guys have seen the error of their ways when they were younger, puttin the pussy on the pedestal like they used to isnt happenin. single men, with good careers now hold the power cause the brain is less sex crazed or maybe priorities change. lots of late 20s women who gained a few pounds, maybe had a kid but is single. now nobody is bendin over backwards for them like they used to

I thought it was funny...

especially since I referred to myself earlier on in the thread as "mature."

For the most part I agree with 216. Burning down dont forget he is talking about many females not ALL. Same could be said for guys who just spend their entire youth chasing after girls that mean nothing to them.

I think society puts the idea in many girls heads that all they are good for is looking good for men, when in reality they should be taught to go out and have ambition/create a career for themselves. Guys are guilty of the same thing for sure, they just dont have it aas easy in that regard since they dont hold to key to sex.

All those reality shows like Jershey shore and such are just further pushing the idea that a female is their to pick the best mate and have sex with them. It is not 100 AD anymore, that is not the case but pop culture sure doesnt tell you that.

Oh I know that haha. I defintely did not have guys chasing after me in high school and now that I'm taken they all want me. I don't get it.

And don't you think that guys like 216 perpetuate this view? Yes, girls are often represented in ways that promotes the thought pattern that they are sex symbols and good for nothing but appearances/sexual desire. But a lot of the attitudes here (and elsewhere) merely promote this view, rather than supporting the fact that females have way more to offer than this, so how do you expect that to change?

that's something different entirely.

It happens to both sexes when they get into a relationship. You suddenly become more desirable to the opposite sex.

I think it has something to do with instinctively when single people see someone in a relationship that they want and tend to flirt with. They know that they have qualities that are good for a person that's in a relationship.

ummmm I don't know if that last part was easy to understand but does anyone get what I'm saying?

Of coarse guys perpetuate this view. Guys are just as guilty if not more guilty than the average female for this. I dont promote this view at all, but I am not going to lie and say I dont see it every day. For every girl with that way of thinking their is probably 2 guys her equal just as brainless and non self thinking.

if ppl dont wanna believe what i said is happenin then they need to open their eyes.. truth will set u free

disclaimer ive met lots of smart women with good personalities.

not that guys dont help in that mindset but its equally, probably moreso women's fault imo. tired of men takin the blame for stuff all the time.



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also the reason ppl are more desirable when in relationships is cause ppl look at their partner. and if they look at their partner and think 'hey thats a pretty attractive, well adjusted non douchebag' then the fact they are dating them gives reason to believe they must have really good qualities about them

216, I think you would really get along with a guy I know called boo boo.

dunno him but cool name at least

im not tryna make it sound like woe is me or pity party for the men of the world at all. but i realize its hard to make the points i made while not lookin that way. which is why im declarin that now to make it clear. thats just how things work for the most part

:rofl:

Just so you know, as far as I know he is still a virgin and living with his grandma.

Yeah, that's what I was saying but in a convoluted way.

Yeah it makes sense. I always used to wonder why it wasn't happening before I got a boyfriend and I just assumed that I must have looked like an ugly troll :laughing:

I don't know that it makes sense to say who has more blame. We live in a society made by both sexes, so men and women probably owe about equal responsibility for any "negative" psychology in the sexes.

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I love you.

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I totally agree with everything you said and prefer things to be straight on the table. I hate games, I want honesty and respect.

Omg, I totally had a similar experience, the "cool" guys in my high school thought I was ugly, pale and a loser. When I was in my early twenties I had their "cool" friends all over me.

I think I'm overly attached to my boyfriend and it's scaring everybody around me

Well then maybe you should untie him.

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